I never said 50k merit. But merit did come in at two to bring the cost below 30k. Not a lot below, but some. We can agree the people attacking a high-achieving kid apart are horrible. I probably would have bowed out of this conversation long ago if they were less horrible. Rightly or wrongly, they do reinforce my opinion that UMD is a place I wouldn't send our dog. Apologies. We can agree to disagree. |
DP here and yes, I know. The troll definitely has a chip on their shoulder- he even said he is "sad," so hilarious. Either that or they just have very limited social skills since they seem to have no ability to stay on topic. |
Not the poster you are replying to, but I am the poster whose kid isn’t applying this year. Thanks for the negativity. My kid has as much chance as the kid who got rejected from engineering which is why I’m so interested in this thread. That is, most kids with her stats would get in. |
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“ Rightly or wrongly, they do reinforce my opinion that UMD is a place I wouldn't send our dog.”
Why are you here on this forum? Honestly? What if you used the anonymous internet to say something nice to a stranger instead? 😊 👍 |
| Right! Get on the forums for those schools that are better for your kid! Make the most of those! |
Then I'm sorry and truly baffled. To clarify, was he accepted to the University? Just not Engr? Because its not impossible to get into Engr from L/S. If not, go to somewhere else for a year and transfer. |
Well in that case, how lucky you are to have that option! Unclear how you managed to find privates with such low tuition that you didn’t need $50k to bring it down to $10k but I’m giving up on this conversation. You seem intent on being insulting. |
Well then, perhaps take a moment to consider why so many people are taking such high-acheiving kids with so much potential and trying to fit them through the same narrow doorway to stand in a very crowded room. I don't hate UMD. I don't care if you believe me or not, but I don't. But I do think there's something really wrong with our culture when it pushes all of its kids into the same little box. This whole UMD computer science/engineering cluster is truly insane. I say that as outside observer: it makes absolutely no sense to me why you'd put your kids through this, especially when the odds of them getting into ivies and tech schools outside of Maryland are higher than they are for College Park. To summarize: your kids can get more money to go someplace else that's better or equal in prestige, and you're all still lined up at the same narrow hole. (And then there's the fact that your favorite spectator sport is apparently watching other peoples' kids--mostly poorer kids--get brain damage for school spirit...) Yeah, I don't get it. |
| My sense is that students going test optional are more likely to be admitted for spring than fall? Making us reconsider for next year. |
Confirmation bias at work. |
As has already been said, for many of us it’s about the dollar amount and the value for money. $30k a year for UMD or $90k for MIT? |
Speak for yourself. My kids didn’t apply for CS/engineering. For one of my kids, UMD was the only option in state for the desired double majors. Somehow that makes us narrow minded? |
I think you don't understand that with its massive endowment and your kid's scores, you wouldn't pay 90k for MIT. It's true, (I don't know for sure, but I suspect), you might pay 45-50k, unless you're actually poor, in which case you'd pay nothing. Is MIT worth beg, borrowing, or cashing in a 401k to make the difference? Over UMD? Uh... Yeah. Yeah, it is. In so many ways you can't imagine. I'm not a snob about schools, (despite the crap I've said about UMD), but I am a realist. The universities and colleges in this country that are truly, intellectually prestigious... if your kid has a shot at them, you don't turn it down. Not only will it offer them career benefits for life, not only will it open alumni and corporate doors, they'll receive exceptional educations. I'm sure UMD has some great programs, but they're not Caltech. They're not MIT. I'm not even sure they're WPI, or Stevens, or RIT. |
Well, perhaps I wasn't talking about you, Mary. But also, yes, there's that "in-state" thing there in your own sentence. |
Huh? Do you know something I don’t? Doesn’t MIT offer need based aid only? And even getting in with super high stats is a crap shoot. |