My son keeps getting fouled by his friend

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I swear this was a thread from last year. Same exact topic. Probably made up, but assuming it isn't - have your kid land on the other kids ankle after a slide tackle. Hard. Try to break it if possible Then stand over the kid look down at him and say, you do that again and I'll put you in the dang cemetery.

Story as old as time.

Same ending, justice by fighting back.

Kid will keep doing it until yours and others take him out to teach him they won’t tolerate it. Sane thing older players do in a game to a dirty player. Set the time early or they’ll keep doing it to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I swear this was a thread from last year. Same exact topic. Probably made up, but assuming it isn't - have your kid land on the other kids ankle after a slide tackle. Hard. Try to break it if possible Then stand over the kid look down at him and say, you do that again and I'll put you in the dang cemetery.

Story as old as time.

Same ending, justice by fighting back.

Kid will keep doing it until yours and others take him out to teach him they won’t tolerate it. Sane thing older players do in a game to a dirty player. Set the time early or they’ll keep doing it to you.

^ the tone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I swear this was a thread from last year. Same exact topic. Probably made up, but assuming it isn't - have your kid land on the other kids ankle after a slide tackle. Hard. Try to break it if possible Then stand over the kid look down at him and say, you do that again and I'll put you in the dang cemetery.

Story as old as time.

Same ending, justice by fighting back.

Kid will keep doing it until yours and others take him out to teach him they won’t tolerate it. Sane thing older players do in a game to a dirty player. Set the time early or they’ll keep doing it to you.

Especially with boys ....honestly...turn about is fair play..
Fouler doesn’t understand the consequences of a foul

[Anonymous]

We have one of these on this time. Eventually he is going to clue into the fact that no one EVER pairs with him for drills.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have one of these on this time. Eventually he is going to clue into the fact that no one EVER pairs with him for drills.

on this time= On our team.

[Anonymous]

Talk to the coach. He will handle it. If he does not, ask him to have your son and this child be on the same team during scrimmages. Problem over, at least for you.

[Anonymous]

Family conference with his family. Be stern.

[Anonymous]

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Who the hell slides tackle a teammate in practice at age 10? Total bush league. Sounds like kid wasn't taught how to play proper defense - move your friggin' feet.

I'd tell my DS to curb stomp the kid with his cleat if they kept pulling that crap.

It's usually the overweight, out of shape kids that slide tackle or pull the red card moves. They can't keep up and skills usually aren't on par so they have no other recourse but to foul.

fatties like to foul.

[Anonymous]

When my DD was much younger, one of her teammate would always push hard from behind making my DD fall hard and got injured several times. After a scrimmage, my DD approach that girl and said, “I will smack your head off of you push me like they again”. That girl never pushed again.

Even though the coach is a good friend of mine, it’s better that my DD handle this herself. Mind you, my DD was 8 YO at the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Who the hell slides tackle a teammate in practice at age 10? Total bush league. Sounds like kid wasn't taught how to play proper defense - move your friggin' feet.

I'd tell my DS to curb stomp the kid with his cleat if they kept pulling that crap.

It's usually the overweight, out of shape kids that slide tackle or pull the red card moves. They can't keep up and skills usually aren't on par so they have no other recourse but to foul.

fatties like to foul.

My U15 son's team played a team that had one fat girl on the team. She couldn't keep up so she would go in and dirty slide tackle the boys, foul atrociously---because she was a girl the boys weren't giving it to her back.

I told my son f*ck that. If she is going to be on the field, she is fair game. When I played with the boys, I expected to be treated the same. If I was going to be a fouling douche, I deserved to be fouled back. The problem is parents and teams won't do this. EQUALITY.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Who the hell slides tackle a teammate in practice at age 10? Total bush league. Sounds like kid wasn't taught how to play proper defense - move your friggin' feet.

I'd tell my DS to curb stomp the kid with his cleat if they kept pulling that crap.

It's usually the overweight, out of shape kids that slide tackle or pull the red card moves. They can't keep up and skills usually aren't on par so they have no other recourse but to foul.

fatties like to foul.

My U15 son's team played a team that had one fat girl on the team. She couldn't keep up so she would go in and dirty slide tackle the boys, foul atrociously---because she was a girl the boys weren't giving it to her back.

I told my son f*ck that. If she is going to be on the field, she is fair game. When I played with the boys, I expected to be treated the same. If I was going to be a fouling douche, I deserved to be fouled back. The problem is parents and teams won't do this. EQUALITY.

My cousin was a wrestler in HS. One match was against a down syndrome kid. He was screwed. No matter the outcome he was going to get it. If he went in and took the kid down--he was a bully. If he let the kid win--he would be ridiculed.

Sort of the same thing here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Who the hell slides tackle a teammate in practice at age 10? Total bush league. Sounds like kid wasn't taught how to play proper defense - move your friggin' feet.

I'd tell my DS to curb stomp the kid with his cleat if they kept pulling that crap.

It's usually the overweight, out of shape kids that slide tackle or pull the red card moves. They can't keep up and skills usually aren't on par so they have no other recourse but to foul.

fatties like to foul.

My U15 son's team played a team that had one fat girl on the team. She couldn't keep up so she would go in and dirty slide tackle the boys, foul atrociously---because she was a girl the boys weren't giving it to her back.

I told my son f*ck that.

You did? That doesn't seem like good advice for lots of reasons...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Who the hell slides tackle a teammate in practice at age 10? Total bush league. Sounds like kid wasn't taught how to play proper defense - move your friggin' feet.

I'd tell my DS to curb stomp the kid with his cleat if they kept pulling that crap.

It's usually the overweight, out of shape kids that slide tackle or pull the red card moves. They can't keep up and skills usually aren't on par so they have no other recourse but to foul.

fatties like to foul.

My U15 son's team played a team that had one fat girl on the team. She couldn't keep up so she would go in and dirty slide tackle the boys, foul atrociously---because she was a girl the boys weren't giving it to her back.

I told my son f*ck that.

You did? That doesn't seem like good advice for lots of reasons...

It was post-game and I'm female, btw. It was disgusting to watch. She just kept going in behind and hacking knees and ankles and sliding out feet from behind. This can result in torn knee and ankle injuries. The ref wouldn't call anything on her and the boys wouldn't do anything because she was female. I have no problem with that advice. If you are going to play with the big boys, expect to be treated like one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Who the hell slides tackle a teammate in practice at age 10? Total bush league. Sounds like kid wasn't taught how to play proper defense - move your friggin' feet.

I'd tell my DS to curb stomp the kid with his cleat if they kept pulling that crap.

It's usually the overweight, out of shape kids that slide tackle or pull the red card moves. They can't keep up and skills usually aren't on par so they have no other recourse but to foul.

fatties like to foul.

My U15 son's team played a team that had one fat girl on the team. She couldn't keep up so she would go in and dirty slide tackle the boys, foul atrociously---because she was a girl the boys weren't giving it to her back.

I told my son f*ck that.

You did? That doesn't seem like good advice for lots of reasons...

It was post-game and I'm female, btw. It was disgusting to watch. She just kept going in behind and hacking knees and ankles and sliding out feet from behind. This can result in torn knee and ankle injuries. The ref wouldn't call anything on her and the boys wouldn't do anything because she was female. I have no problem with that advice. If you are going to play with the big boys, expect to be treated like one.

Seriously, should we set boys loose in the girls leagues?

[Anonymous]

My U15 son's team played a team that had one fat girl on the team. She couldn't keep up so she would go in and dirty slide tackle the boys, foul atrociously---because she was a girl the boys weren't giving it to her back.

What U15 boys team is playing co-ed teams by that point? I've never heard of that, and have had three boys go through travel soccer. They stopped playing co-ed opponents around U10-11.