Spouse Telling People in Our Circle We Are Separating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Well I guess your spouse is convinced you are done or else is looking for sympathy.

I think it's his way of making sure it happens. By putting it out there, he is putting the wheels in motion.

Really crappy thing to do, ESPECIALLY if you have kids!! They will hear about from others before you.

Wondering this too. I've seen this situation played out before and one spouse kept saying how they had NO idea other spouse was serious and that the rug had been pulled out from under them. Except a few of us knew they had been discussing it for months and that person refused to believe the other spouse that the marriage was over.

Mine didn’t believe I was serious until I handed him keys to a new place that I’d arranged for him. He might be trying to take control of the narrative if OP isn’t doing her part.

the correct way to convey that you are serious about separating is to move out and/or have you lawyer draft the papers for the property and parenting plans. anything else is just passive-aggressive. it’s just as easy for the supposedly serious spouse to pretend and then blame it on the other one. hello, if you want to divorce you actually need to do it, not talk about it. the longer you talk about if without doing it, the less serious you’ll be taken. and if instead of doing anything you go around telling other people ... well, you’re just really lost and setting up a contentious split.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

DP. What else would you call a woman that repeatedly screws men behind her husband’s back?

The misogyny card is thrown anytime someone on this board calls a woman on her deceit and promiscuity.

I’m a woman, btw.

[Anonymous]

Nobody cares as much as you.

This truth is not painful, it’s reassuring in that nothing he says to others should make you cringe or blush.

Because nobody cares as much as you. They will listen, sympathize with what you’re both going through for 5 minutes, then go on with their lives.

Don’t worry about it, OP. Best of luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

DP. What else would you call a woman that repeatedly screws men behind her husband’s back?

The misogyny card is thrown anytime someone on this board calls a woman on her deceit and promiscuity.

I’m a woman, btw.

My ex-wife brought strangers she met on the Internet into our home to have sex.

I never used the term “whore”, but many other people did once they found out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

DP. What else would you call a woman that repeatedly screws men behind her husband’s back?

The misogyny card is thrown anytime someone on this board calls a woman on her deceit and promiscuity.

I’m a woman, btw.

My ex-wife brought strangers she met on the Internet into our home to have sex.

I never used the term “whore”, but many other people did once they found out.

That qualifies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

I see lots of posts on this board from women lamenting their cheating husbands and calling the other women whores and homewreckers.

Seems there is some hypocrisy going on here.

I am female, btw.

[Anonymous]

I hosted a neighborhood party a few years ago where the Dad announced the separation from his wife. It was awkward. No putting that genie back in the bottle. He had one foot out the door.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

DP. What else would you call a woman that repeatedly screws men behind her husband’s back?

The misogyny card is thrown anytime someone on this board calls a woman on her deceit and promiscuity.

I’m a woman, btw.

My ex-wife brought strangers she met on the Internet into our home to have sex.

I never used the term “whore”, but many other people did once they found out.

I think I know your ex-wife. She was a very dirty girl, but she only had sex in the guest room.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

DP. What else would you call a woman that repeatedly screws men behind her husband’s back?

The misogyny card is thrown anytime someone on this board calls a woman on her deceit and promiscuity.

I’m a woman, btw.

My ex-wife brought strangers she met on the Internet into our home to have sex.

I never used the term “whore”, but many other people did once they found out.

I think I know your ex-wife. She was a very dirty girl, but she only had sex in the guest room.

Where her mom would sleep when she would come to stay for weeks on end ...on crusty sheets ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I told everyone--friends, family, Scout leaders, school teachers, etc. And I told them why.

And I’m sure you looked nuts for it.

+1,000,000

Not at all. I got support, and witnesses for court.

Keep telling yourself that. I promise everyone is cringing for you. Have some self respect.

I don't know what decade you are living in, but in the modern age the man no longer has to take it on the chin when he's divorcing a whore.

These whores love to tell the betrayed spouses they will look bad if they not keep their secret. That they will look crazy.

Good for you for exposing your whore wife.

You’re both hideous and misogynistic.

OP, good luck. I’m sorry but it seems over.

DP. What else would you call a woman that repeatedly screws men behind her husband’s back?

The misogyny card is thrown anytime someone on this board calls a woman on her deceit and promiscuity.

I’m a woman, btw.

My ex-wife brought strangers she met on the Internet into our home to have sex.

I never used the term “whore”, but many other people did once they found out.

I think I know your ex-wife. She was a very dirty girl, but she only had sex in the guest room.

Everyone knows her. She’s not picky.