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If you consider a free college tuition as average. Yes, she's average. Keep running your kids into the ground while going bankrupt. There is a lot of benefits of taking a break. Injury prevention and rejuvenation verse burn out are a couple. It not just about the frequency of playing. The 10,000 hour rule blown up: "A study of violinists found that merely good players practised as much as, if not more than, better players, leaving other factors such as quality of tuition, learning skills and perhaps natural talent to account for the difference." |
Loser mentality. |
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“Culturally, we have found that parents have unrealistic expectations for their children to play collegiately or professionally and as a result, they invest in private lessons, trainers, or personal coaches to help their kids,” said Dr. Charles A. Popkin, the study’s lead author. “When you’re investing this amount of time and resources, there can be unwritten, indirect pressure from parents to specialize.” The number one danger of specialization is something called overuse injury: When kids strain their undeveloped bodies practicing the same motions all year round, their muscles never get the chance to fully heal when they rest. The near-constant strain can result in pediatric trauma, and the need for corrective surgeries to knees, wrists, and shoulders. |
Losers are for figs |
This is about baseball. |
No. This is not about baseball. It's about youth sports and injuries due to over use. Over use is using the same muscles non-stop. The sport doesn't matter |
With all due respect "one of the more technically gifted kids on her team" is not at all the same as "one of the top 5 kids between Baltimore and Richmond". |
Spot on but those parents who think their kid is one of the gifted never realize the truth until their kid ages out and are not becoming a professional. |
What muscles are getting overused in soccer when the kids are running forward, backward, sideways; jumping, diving, falling, etc? |
No it's not just about the frequency of playing. There are plenty of kids who play all the time and, for any of the reasons you suggest, will never make it. But I would also suggest that, for those with the talent, the athleticism, the work ethic, the desire to learn, and the drive - the ones with the potential to possibly make it - they will ONLY make it if they play a lot. And it is absolutely the case that the top handful of kids in the area all do play all the time and certainly do NOT stop playing for the summer. That said - none of them are playing in Super Y either .
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| Can I get this straight.. my child should do absolutely nothing in the summer. Just lay in the coach and rest their legs? |
The most accurate answer is to let your child play as much as they want. Don't push it on them. If your child really wants it they will express it. You should be there for support, encouragement, and provide getting anything within your means to help them. It has to be the kids desire to getter better. If the parent wants it for the kid more than the kid wants it for themself it will never work. And just to add on to a PP..... The Super Y isn't where the handful of gifted kids are playing. |
| Isn’t it possible to just do Super Y because playing soccer is fun? |