height and men

Anonymous
Yes, I am more attracted to tall men. But now that I am older and wiser, I realize I probably lost out on some great guys b/c of this superficial characteristic. If I knew then what I know now, I would have overlooked the height, and focused more on personality, humor, intelligence, etc. Lucky for me though, my husband has all of those deeper characteristics (and he is also tall).
Anonymous
Very skinny men are a huge turn off for me.

Anonymous
I am 5'3'' married to someone who is 5'6'' but in heels we are eye to eye. I am attracted to all kinds of men, but never loved "too tall" guys (or blond guys). Six feet tall is my limit. Taller than that and I feel like they have too much growth hormone or something. I also don't like the huge feet that usually accompany such tall men.
Anonymous
Height is a funny thing. Some of my girlfriends won't even consider going out with a shorter man. It's like the last "dating taboo" in America!

I'm a 6' woman and my guy is 5' 6". It's not a problem for us, but maybe if we were into a hobby like ballroom dancing, the height difference would be an obstacle.

If the average guy is 5' 9", then a 6" woman is eliminating an awful lot of good men if she'll only date guys who are taller. Something to think about!

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Very skinny men are a huge turn off for me.



ITA
Anonymous
I have always dated taller men. I am 5'6. DH is 6'2. I do not think I have dated anyone under 6ft. I agree with PP. I do not care for tall skinny guys though.
Anonymous
Yes it matters to me. At almost 5'10 I always felt insecure about being so tall. My DH is 6'3 and I love that he is so tall! Both of my kids are tall as well, my daughter turned three a month ago and is already 3'6. Honestly I was always a little envious of shorter women because they seemed more petite and more feminine than me.
Anonymous
I think for a lot of women it comes down to a need to feel small, delicate, petite in comparison to their mate. We're super obsessed with being thin and small, and if you have a mate that towers over you and makes you look itty bitty, you achieve "smallness" without much effort. It takes a confident woman to be with a short man.
Anonymous
5'10 really isn't THAT tall for a woman.I'm 5'10 and I've never felt insecure or that I tower above people.
Anonymous
My ex is 5'11" and he is the shortest guy I've dated (I'm 5'5"). I hate it that I don't date shorter guys because I too think I lost out on great guys because of that. It is not, however, a conscious decision. I just don't feel attracted to shorter guys and lack of physical attraction is a big deal to me. Also not into very skinny guys. Huge turn off.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:5'10 really isn't THAT tall for a woman.I'm 5'10 and I've never felt insecure or that I tower above people.


Good for you. Everyone is different. I had a tough time with it when I was younger (I was almost 5'10 by the time I was 14) and I am happy that my DH is taller than me. But that doesn't mean I never dated guys who were shorter than me, I just prefer them to be taller.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It mattered to me only WRT children, and I know that being short can be hard for men. I did some calculations and rejected some men who were too short.


What did you calculate?


height and its relationship to penis size
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It mattered to me only WRT children, and I know that being short can be hard for men. I did some calculations and rejected some men who were too short.


What did you calculate?


Mid parental height.


You know, genetics isn't a law of averages. Both my brother and I are shorter than our respective same-sex parent.


That is because they didn't feed you. Just kidding.
Anyway, strange things happen, but most of the time, the calculations are accurate.
Anonymous
Hmm. I'm no fan of shrimpy little men, but I think expressions of height in offspring result from a more complex process than that.
Anonymous
i am 5'4 and husband is 5'8. height was a factor for me in the beginning but he grew on me....he has turned out to be a wonderful partner and father to our three boys-two of which are short too but are crazy smart, great looking (ok i am biased) and most importantly, healthy (and mostly happy). It still nags at me once in awhile but I know he is the right one.
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