Husband is weird

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think you lack of sense of humor

This is OP. I have a great sense of humor. Do you think it's funny to tell someone with a new outfit that their clothes look old? My husband does that too. I don't understand sometimes if it's a bad joke or what. Some of the things he says don't make sense.

I know a few people like this - people who really want to tell jokes but suck at it. I suspect something like Aspergers. They recognize the shape of a joke but at some deep level don't really understand what makes something funny versus mean versus awkward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

OP here: haha yeah maybe. I lost all my baby weight and my baby is 8 months old. I'm in great shape. My husband doesn't compliment my body either. I'm sure there are lots of men who would be interested and appreciate the hard work I put into taking care of myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you lack of sense of humor

This is OP. I have a great sense of humor. Do you think it's funny to tell someone with a new outfit that their clothes look old? My husband does that too. I don't understand sometimes if it's a bad joke or what. Some of the things he says don't make sense.

I know a few people like this - people who really want to tell jokes but suck at it. I suspect something like Aspergers. They recognize the shape of a joke but at some deep level don't really understand what makes something funny versus mean versus awkward.

Sounds like he may have Asperger’s. Maybe it is not so bad that you recognize it as being on the spectrum, but just bad enough to find it “weird.” More examples would help people provide some feedback.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you lack of sense of humor

This is OP. I have a great sense of humor. Do you think it's funny to tell someone with a new outfit that their clothes look old? My husband does that too. I don't understand sometimes if it's a bad joke or what. Some of the things he says don't make sense.

I know a few people like this - people who really want to tell jokes but suck at it. I suspect something like Aspergers. They recognize the shape of a joke but at some deep level don't really understand what makes something funny versus mean versus awkward.

OP here. Thank you. I couldn't remember what it was. I've been breastfeeding around the clock. I'm exhausted. My brain doesn't work well anymore. I also might have an autoimmune immune disease that was triggered by the pregnancy hormones. I just want a little love from my husband to boost my self-esteem. What's wrong with this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you lack of sense of humor

This is OP. I have a great sense of humor. Do you think it's funny to tell someone with a new outfit that their clothes look old? My husband does that too. I don't understand sometimes if it's a bad joke or what. Some of the things he says don't make sense.

I know a few people like this - people who really want to tell jokes but suck at it. I suspect something like Aspergers. They recognize the shape of a joke but at some deep level don't really understand what makes something funny versus mean versus awkward.

Sounds like he may have Asperger’s. Maybe it is not so bad that you recognize it as being on the spectrum, but just bad enough to find it “weird.” More examples would help people provide some feedback.

I'll try to write them down. Right now I'm too busy to think. It's not always related to compliments. He was great at complimenting me when we were dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you lack of sense of humor

This is OP. I have a great sense of humor. Do you think it's funny to tell someone with a new outfit that their clothes look old? My husband does that too. I don't understand sometimes if it's a bad joke or what. Some of the things he says don't make sense.

I know a few people like this - people who really want to tell jokes but suck at it. I suspect something like Aspergers. They recognize the shape of a joke but at some deep level don't really understand what makes something funny versus mean versus awkward.

Sounds like he may have Asperger’s. Maybe it is not so bad that you recognize it as being on the spectrum, but just bad enough to find it “weird.” More examples would help people provide some feedback.

OP here. I see that he has several symptom's of asperger's. He's sensitive to sound and he takes an intense interest in only a limited of things.
He's also a math genius.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

This is OP. Good teeth is a universal thing everyone is interested in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

I was mocking OP but she didn't pick up on it. Honestly a person has to be at least a little weird to be okay with being married to an adult wearing braces; I don't know why she's not more grateful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

I was mocking OP but she didn't pick up on it. Honestly a person has to be at least a little weird to be okay with being married to an adult wearing braces; I don't know why she's not more grateful.

OP here. Are you always like this? Tons of adult's have braces. It doesn't make their spouses weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

I was mocking OP but she didn't pick up on it. Honestly a person has to be at least a little weird to be okay with being married to an adult wearing braces; I don't know why she's not more grateful.

Pp stop being a jerk. You're the reason people stop using this forum. I haven't been back here in 2 year's. This is OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

I was mocking OP but she didn't pick up on it. Honestly a person has to be at least a little weird to be okay with being married to an adult wearing braces; I don't know why she's not more grateful.

You are a shallow turd, PP. Gross. Glad I'm not married to someone like you. (Not OP.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

I was mocking OP but she didn't pick up on it. Honestly a person has to be at least a little weird to be okay with being married to an adult wearing braces; I don't know why she's not more grateful.

You are a shallow turd, PP. Gross. Glad I'm not married to someone like you. (Not OP.)

OP is planning to cheat on her husband because he doesn't compliment her body enough but I'm shallow because I made a joke about adult braces? Okay!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a bad / mean sense of humor and acts like a jerk.

Stop sending him pics or asking his opinion of clothes, it sounds like he doesn't care or is just a mean person. I have relatives like this, and have never heard them give a compliment.

Op here. This sounds like a sad way to live. I should be able to expect compliments from my husband. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me.

You've been married for 10 years and he has always sucked at compliments. At this point you need to accept that he's just not that kind of person. If he is otherwise a good spouse just accept that this is his weak area and stop setting him up for failure.

Op here. Um no. That's a lazy ass excuse. He can improve. He needs to improve or I will leave.

You go girl! Take those new teeth for a spin and see if you can upgrade!

I hate to break it to you, but men aren't looking for a great set of ... teeth.

I was mocking OP but she didn't pick up on it. Honestly a person has to be at least a little weird to be okay with being married to an adult wearing braces; I don't know why she's not more grateful.

You are a shallow turd, PP. Gross. Glad I'm not married to someone like you. (Not OP.)

OP is planning to cheat on her husband because he doesn't compliment her body enough but I'm shallow because I made a joke about adult braces? Okay!

Op here. You're delusional. I said I would leave him. Leaving him and cheating are not the same thing. Having a need to feel appreciated and complimented is human nature. I will not apologize for having needs.