Never Have I Ever (Netflix)

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Anonymous wrote:I liked it, but the wheelchair/ handicap jokes were in very poor taste. I am a wheelchair user and it just stings. I like Mindy Khaling and I liked this show, but it's very lame and old to have it be socially acceptable to make these kind of jokes (hey FDR). In 2020 it's time to just have a character in a wheelchair just be treated like a regular character (like in Raising Dion).

For better or worse, that would not be representative of what it's like to be a disabled teen. Kids are cruel. We should be allowed to tell stories that reflect reality. The kid that makes that joke isnt portrayed in a positive light

Are you a disabled person? Maybe watch Crip Camp to see what some of us have had to go through. Disabled people are just people. I don’t need ableism to discredit my complaint. We are the last group where it is still socially acceptable to be treated “separate but equal” even today. No kids don’t go around calling people FDR. And many people in wheelchairs today aren’t dying to be able to walk. The jokes were bad and give license to viewers to continue to treat us in this way.

Do you have jokes against Jews, blacks, gays? I mean are kids are cruel, NBD right?

The show literally also showcases an ongoing joke calling her the UN which is double entendre for united nations and unf_ckable nerds. Mocking them on two fronts, one racist. Kids are telling cruel jokes about their race in the show as well. But you didn't notice those because they aren't your cause? The high school kids are aholes. And as has been the case since the dawn of the US grade school system, and probably history. kids will look for differences and exploit and mock them to gain status in the group because they haven't fully fleshed out their moral compass yet and are obsessed with fitting in. This is a central line of plot for virtually every piece of film featuring a teenager for the last fifty years.

Also, for the record, it isn't no big deal. This type of casual cruelty is shown to inflict anxiety, stress, sadness, depression and lifelong painful memories and almost all of these high school stories portray this bullying as very damaging.

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Anonymous wrote:I liked it, but the wheelchair/ handicap jokes were in very poor taste. I am a wheelchair user and it just stings. I like Mindy Khaling and I liked this show, but it's very lame and old to have it be socially acceptable to make these kind of jokes (hey FDR). In 2020 it's time to just have a character in a wheelchair just be treated like a regular character (like in Raising Dion).

For better or worse, that would not be representative of what it's like to be a disabled teen. Kids are cruel. We should be allowed to tell stories that reflect reality. The kid that makes that joke isnt portrayed in a positive light

Are you a disabled person? Maybe watch Crip Camp to see what some of us have had to go through. Disabled people are just people. I don’t need ableism to discredit my complaint. We are the last group where it is still socially acceptable to be treated “separate but equal” even today. No kids don’t go around calling people FDR. And many people in wheelchairs today aren’t dying to be able to walk. The jokes were bad and give license to viewers to continue to treat us in this way.

Do you have jokes against Jews, blacks, gays? I mean are kids are cruel, NBD right?

The show literally also showcases an ongoing joke calling her the UN which is double entendre for united nations and unf_ckable nerds. Mocking them on two fronts, one racist. Kids are telling cruel jokes about their race in the show as well. But you didn't notice those because they aren't your cause? The high school kids are aholes. And as has been the case since the dawn of the US grade school system, and probably history. kids will look for differences and exploit and mock them to gain status in the group because they haven't fully fleshed out their moral compass yet and are obsessed with fitting in. This is a central line of plot for virtually every piece of film featuring a teenager for the last fifty years.

Also, for the record, it isn't no big deal. This type of casual cruelty is shown to inflict anxiety, stress, sadness, depression and lifelong painful memories and almost all of these high school stories portray this bullying as very damaging.

Nope, who said other things weren't my cause. The handicap/ wheelchair jokes need to end. Period.

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Anonymous wrote:I liked it, but the wheelchair/ handicap jokes were in very poor taste. I am a wheelchair user and it just stings. I like Mindy Khaling and I liked this show, but it's very lame and old to have it be socially acceptable to make these kind of jokes (hey FDR). In 2020 it's time to just have a character in a wheelchair just be treated like a regular character (like in Raising Dion).

For better or worse, that would not be representative of what it's like to be a disabled teen. Kids are cruel. We should be allowed to tell stories that reflect reality. The kid that makes that joke isnt portrayed in a positive light

Are you a disabled person? Maybe watch Crip Camp to see what some of us have had to go through. Disabled people are just people. I don’t need ableism to discredit my complaint. We are the last group where it is still socially acceptable to be treated “separate but equal” even today. No kids don’t go around calling people FDR. And many people in wheelchairs today aren’t dying to be able to walk. The jokes were bad and give license to viewers to continue to treat us in this way.

Do you have jokes against Jews, blacks, gays? I mean are kids are cruel, NBD right?

The show literally also showcases an ongoing joke calling her the UN which is double entendre for united nations and unf_ckable nerds. Mocking them on two fronts, one racist. Kids are telling cruel jokes about their race in the show as well. But you didn't notice those because they aren't your cause? The high school kids are aholes. And as has been the case since the dawn of the US grade school system, and probably history. kids will look for differences and exploit and mock them to gain status in the group because they haven't fully fleshed out their moral compass yet and are obsessed with fitting in. This is a central line of plot for virtually every piece of film featuring a teenager for the last fifty years.

Also, for the record, it isn't no big deal. This type of casual cruelty is shown to inflict anxiety, stress, sadness, depression and lifelong painful memories and almost all of these high school stories portray this bullying as very damaging.

Nope, who said other things weren't my cause. The handicap/ wheelchair jokes need to end. Period.

All mean-spirited jokes need to end then.

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I think you guys have no idea what goes on in high school. Mean spirited jokes are standard, and the vast majority who receive a joke can dish it right back out.

I found the show funny, and real. I could name people to fit every character.

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Anonymous wrote:I liked it, but the wheelchair/ handicap jokes were in very poor taste. I am a wheelchair user and it just stings. I like Mindy Khaling and I liked this show, but it's very lame and old to have it be socially acceptable to make these kind of jokes (hey FDR). In 2020 it's time to just have a character in a wheelchair just be treated like a regular character (like in Raising Dion).

For better or worse, that would not be representative of what it's like to be a disabled teen. Kids are cruel. We should be allowed to tell stories that reflect reality. The kid that makes that joke isnt portrayed in a positive light

Are you a disabled person? Maybe watch Crip Camp to see what some of us have had to go through. Disabled people are just people. I don’t need ableism to discredit my complaint. We are the last group where it is still socially acceptable to be treated “separate but equal” even today. No kids don’t go around calling people FDR. And many people in wheelchairs today aren’t dying to be able to walk. The jokes were bad and give license to viewers to continue to treat us in this way.

Do you have jokes against Jews, blacks, gays? I mean are kids are cruel, NBD right?

The show literally also showcases an ongoing joke calling her the UN which is double entendre for united nations and unf_ckable nerds. Mocking them on two fronts, one racist. Kids are telling cruel jokes about their race in the show as well. But you didn't notice those because they aren't your cause? The high school kids are aholes. And as has been the case since the dawn of the US grade school system, and probably history. kids will look for differences and exploit and mock them to gain status in the group because they haven't fully fleshed out their moral compass yet and are obsessed with fitting in. This is a central line of plot for virtually every piece of film featuring a teenager for the last fifty years.

Also, for the record, it isn't no big deal. This type of casual cruelty is shown to inflict anxiety, stress, sadness, depression and lifelong painful memories and almost all of these high school stories portray this bullying as very damaging.

Nope, who said other things weren't my cause. The handicap/ wheelchair jokes need to end. Period.

All mean-spirited jokes need to end then.

You don't get to decide for me, so no.

Like I said, I thought the show was funny, but I am sick and tired of wheelchairs and disability being a socially acceptable joke, period, and I felt that the use in the show of that plot was unnecessary and offensive. Don't like my opinion, based on my experience growing up with a disability, then I don't care. You trying to discredit me or blend my argument into yours does zero. I have an opinion, deal with it. Maybe educate yourself. I guess in the US if you are a minority it's acceptable for you to poke fun at your minority. But Mindy's not handicap or in a chair. So having a character that is all upset about being in one, and having people treat her like she's got some disease (and the teacher saying "it's not contagious), people calling her FDR, people accusing her of faking, of everyone staring, etc. Give me a break. No, it's not funny, and she shouldn't have had those depictions in there. Just no. Show would have been just as strong without it.

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Anonymous wrote:I liked it, but the wheelchair/ handicap jokes were in very poor taste. I am a wheelchair user and it just stings. I like Mindy Khaling and I liked this show, but it's very lame and old to have it be socially acceptable to make these kind of jokes (hey FDR). In 2020 it's time to just have a character in a wheelchair just be treated like a regular character (like in Raising Dion).

For better or worse, that would not be representative of what it's like to be a disabled teen. Kids are cruel. We should be allowed to tell stories that reflect reality. The kid that makes that joke isnt portrayed in a positive light

Are you a disabled person? Maybe watch Crip Camp to see what some of us have had to go through. Disabled people are just people. I don’t need ableism to discredit my complaint. We are the last group where it is still socially acceptable to be treated “separate but equal” even today. No kids don’t go around calling people FDR. And many people in wheelchairs today aren’t dying to be able to walk. The jokes were bad and give license to viewers to continue to treat us in this way.

Do you have jokes against Jews, blacks, gays? I mean are kids are cruel, NBD right?

The show literally also showcases an ongoing joke calling her the UN which is double entendre for united nations and unf_ckable nerds. Mocking them on two fronts, one racist. Kids are telling cruel jokes about their race in the show as well. But you didn't notice those because they aren't your cause? The high school kids are aholes. And as has been the case since the dawn of the US grade school system, and probably history. kids will look for differences and exploit and mock them to gain status in the group because they haven't fully fleshed out their moral compass yet and are obsessed with fitting in. This is a central line of plot for virtually every piece of film featuring a teenager for the last fifty years.

Also, for the record, it isn't no big deal. This type of casual cruelty is shown to inflict anxiety, stress, sadness, depression and lifelong painful memories and almost all of these high school stories portray this bullying as very damaging.

Nope, who said other things weren't my cause. The handicap/ wheelchair jokes need to end. Period.

All mean-spirited jokes need to end then.

You don't get to decide for me, so no.

Like I said, I thought the show was funny, but I am sick and tired of wheelchairs and disability being a socially acceptable joke, period, and I felt that the use in the show of that plot was unnecessary and offensive. Don't like my opinion, based on my experience growing up with a disability, then I don't care. You trying to discredit me or blend my argument into yours does zero. I have an opinion, deal with it. Maybe educate yourself. I guess in the US if you are a minority it's acceptable for you to poke fun at your minority. But Mindy's not handicap or in a chair. So having a character that is all upset about being in one, and having people treat her like she's got some disease (and the teacher saying "it's not contagious), people calling her FDR, people accusing her of faking, of everyone staring, etc. Give me a break. No, it's not funny, and she shouldn't have had those depictions in there. Just no. Show would have been just as strong without it.

So do you live in some utopia world where this doesn’t happen? If so, congratulations.

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I didn’t think the handicap joke was presented for a laugh. She was hurt. Same with the UN joke. They showed those were hurtful. But it is unrealistic to think that kids don’t say that kind of stuff now. They do.

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Anonymous wrote:I liked it, but the wheelchair/ handicap jokes were in very poor taste. I am a wheelchair user and it just stings. I like Mindy Khaling and I liked this show, but it's very lame and old to have it be socially acceptable to make these kind of jokes (hey FDR). In 2020 it's time to just have a character in a wheelchair just be treated like a regular character (like in Raising Dion).

For better or worse, that would not be representative of what it's like to be a disabled teen. Kids are cruel. We should be allowed to tell stories that reflect reality. The kid that makes that joke isnt portrayed in a positive light

Are you a disabled person? Maybe watch Crip Camp to see what some of us have had to go through. Disabled people are just people. I don’t need ableism to discredit my complaint. We are the last group where it is still socially acceptable to be treated “separate but equal” even today. No kids don’t go around calling people FDR. And many people in wheelchairs today aren’t dying to be able to walk. The jokes were bad and give license to viewers to continue to treat us in this way.

Do you have jokes against Jews, blacks, gays? I mean are kids are cruel, NBD right?

The show literally also showcases an ongoing joke calling her the UN which is double entendre for united nations and unf_ckable nerds. Mocking them on two fronts, one racist. Kids are telling cruel jokes about their race in the show as well. But you didn't notice those because they aren't your cause? The high school kids are aholes. And as has been the case since the dawn of the US grade school system, and probably history. kids will look for differences and exploit and mock them to gain status in the group because they haven't fully fleshed out their moral compass yet and are obsessed with fitting in. This is a central line of plot for virtually every piece of film featuring a teenager for the last fifty years.

Also, for the record, it isn't no big deal. This type of casual cruelty is shown to inflict anxiety, stress, sadness, depression and lifelong painful memories and almost all of these high school stories portray this bullying as very damaging.

Nope, who said other things weren't my cause. The handicap/ wheelchair jokes need to end. Period.

All mean-spirited jokes need to end then.

You don't get to decide for me, so no.

Like I said, I thought the show was funny, but I am sick and tired of wheelchairs and disability being a socially acceptable joke, period, and I felt that the use in the show of that plot was unnecessary and offensive. Don't like my opinion, based on my experience growing up with a disability, then I don't care. You trying to discredit me or blend my argument into yours does zero. I have an opinion, deal with it. Maybe educate yourself. I guess in the US if you are a minority it's acceptable for you to poke fun at your minority. But Mindy's not handicap or in a chair. So having a character that is all upset about being in one, and having people treat her like she's got some disease (and the teacher saying "it's not contagious), people calling her FDR, people accusing her of faking, of everyone staring, etc. Give me a break. No, it's not funny, and she shouldn't have had those depictions in there. Just no. Show would have been just as strong without it.

You are entitled to your opinion for sure, but no one in this thread (and I do not believe Mindy Kaling and the show's writers) are presenting that joke as socially acceptable or NBD. So make sure your opinion is based on that.

If you think that depictions of high school cruelty can only include race and gender and not disabled people, than you are seeking an inaccurate depiction of high school cruelty.

[Anonymous]

Binged the whole show last night & loved it. It was a bit too "cringe" for me near the end, when the main character acted a bit over the top for me, but the ending was strong.

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Anonymous wrote:I hate John Mcenroe. Why on earth was he involved with this? I loved the old Mindy show but I question some of her decisions.

Andy Samberg narrates too.

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Anonymous wrote:I hate John Mcenroe. Why on earth was he involved with this? I loved the old Mindy show but I question some of her decisions.

Andy Samberg narrates too.

Agree on John McEnroe. He is grating.

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Anonymous wrote:I hate John Mcenroe. Why on earth was he involved with this? I loved the old Mindy show but I question some of her decisions.

Andy Samberg narrates too.

Agree on John McEnroe. He is grating.

That’s the point

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Binged the whole show last night & loved it. It was a bit too "cringe" for me near the end, when the main character acted a bit over the top for me, but the ending was strong.

Ending was incredibly strong. Loved it.

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What age is it appropriate for?

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Anonymous wrote:What age is it appropriate for?

Depends on how exposed they are. Id say 11ish is when it would ring true, regardless of how that makes parents feel