Husband of 11 years suddenly watching porn

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t watch porn during our relationship until our sex life collapsed. I understand 2 kids and working. But she made time to go out with friends and not me. Otherwise marriage was good. I filled gap with porn.

OP here.

We have sex anytime that he wants to. I am up later than him because our baby has a crazy schedule right now and he uses him being tired as an excuse to not have sex lately.

So, that's interesting ... you aren't having much sex?

We rarely go more than 2 days without having sex and it's been about 5 now. He does have to wake up early lately and does try to stay up with me but if our son is still up, he eventually just goes to bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t watch porn during our relationship until our sex life collapsed. I understand 2 kids and working. But she made time to go out with friends and not me. Otherwise marriage was good. I filled gap with porn.

OP here.

We have sex anytime that he wants to. I am up later than him because our baby has a crazy schedule right now and he uses him being tired as an excuse to not have sex lately.

If you have recently had a baby, then everyone's world has changed. You may be willing to have sex whenever he wants but he may feel bad asking given how tired / sleep deprived you are related to the baby. Maybe he is also tired / sleep deprived and it is just a lot easier and quicker to masturbate to porn as a stress reliever than it is to have sex.

[Anonymous]

Well he is probably more embarrassed than anything.

[Anonymous]

You could try making porn videos with him or for him. My wife tries to make something of her masturbating or advises setting up a camera during kinkier activities (e.g. handcuffs and anal). It's gotten to the point where when I do watch porn, I end up pulling up a video with her in it about 50% of the time. Not a bad ratio. Also, lol at "he SUDDENLY started watching porn"

[Anonymous]

Maybe think for a bit about why this upsets you and talk to him about it. Do you want him to stop looking at the p*rn? Are you worried that he's stopped having sex with you because he's using p*rn? That he's not attracted to you anymore? It's probably better to talk to him than speculate with a bunch of idiots on the Internet.

[Anonymous]

Op are you sure he's not seeing someone? I feel like there are some red flags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op are you sure he's not seeing someone? I feel like there are some red flags.

He's seeing Rosy Palm and her five sisters. Always tight and always available.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I do not watch porn. Ever. It makes me uncomfortable, and yes, DH and I have avery healthy and satisfying sex life. After reading the responses, I asked my DH if he ever watched porn, and he said no. [b]I believe him. We have an open, honest, healthy relationship. Not judging those who do watch/like it, just correcting the posters who believe that everybody does ir.

[Anonymous]

I can’t believe you believed his lies all these years.

Nothing is wrong. This is normal, except the lying part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All men watch some porn. Honestly I thought most women do too.

Woman here. I used to, but porn has become way too perverted these days. I know this may sound odd, but I’ve noticed a change in the content, and it’s a turnoff.

try bellesa. It’s woman friendly.

[Anonymous]

OP It's obvious that you're playing off being ok with porn but deep down you're clearly not ok with it. Your husband knows this and that's why he lied.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Husband needs to learn about private browsing. Non-issue.

Exactly... Or maybe he wanted her to find out so she would watch it with him or better yet, do all the sexual acts, positions, etc that’s in porn...??? Well, not all of them, but you get my point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I do not watch porn. Ever. It makes me uncomfortable, and yes, DH and I have avery healthy and satisfying sex life. After reading the responses, I asked my DH if he ever watched porn, and he said no. [b]I believe him. We have an open, honest, healthy relationship. Not judging those who do watch/like it, just correcting the posters who believe that everybody does ir.

Funniest post I’ve read in a while

[Anonymous]

If OP and her DH had had sex in HS, they would have a better marriage now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All men watch some porn. Honestly I thought most women do too.

Mormons not so much