Anyone dealt with teens sneaking into or out of opposite sex’s homes late at night?

[Anonymous]

I have Arlo cameras. There is no sneaking.

[Anonymous]

Are we talking 13 or 17? If 13, I would be more concerned and take more proactive measures. If 17, just a long discussion about responsibility.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in HS there was exactly one girl I knew who did this.

She is now a successful jewelry designer living in Paris with her two beautiful daughters and her multi-millionaire husband.

Bad behavior does not always end in bad ways.

Yes, but it’s a little like saying “I didn’t wear seat belts and I lived.” Sure, most people will be fine. And then there’s the ones who won’t be fine (who get pregnant, get hit by a car crossing a road at night, pass out drunk on the way home and die of exposure without their parents realizing they were out, get attacked by a sexual predator while they are out and never tell their parents because they knew they weren’t supposed to be out...) I think it’s fine to put reasonable limits on your teen. Some kids are good at outing limits on themselves—others are not and need more structure while their brains are still developing.

Sorry, its exactly NOTHING like saying "I didn't wear seat belts and I lived" nothing at all. You have the mental capacity of a peanut.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

It’s very common

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was in HS there was exactly one girl I knew who did this.

She is now a successful jewelry designer living in Paris with her two beautiful daughters and her multi-millionaire husband.

Bad behavior does not always end in bad ways.

Yes, but it’s a little like saying “I didn’t wear seat belts and I lived.” Sure, most people will be fine. And then there’s the ones who won’t be fine (who get pregnant, get hit by a car crossing a road at night, pass out drunk on the way home and die of exposure without their parents realizing they were out, get attacked by a sexual predator while they are out and never tell their parents because they knew they weren’t supposed to be out...) I think it’s fine to put reasonable limits on your teen. Some kids are good at outing limits on themselves—others are not and need more structure while their brains are still developing.

Sorry, its exactly NOTHING like saying "I didn't wear seat belts and I lived" nothing at all. You have the mental capacity of a peanut.

I agree with the idea that all the people posting about how so and so did iand they turned out great is very analogous to the seatbelt. I was just thinking the same thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

It’s very common

Must be very common in your circles, certainly not in ours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

It’s very common

Must be very common in your circles, certainly not in ours.

What circles are you in? So my friends with teens at the following schools have dealt with this.

Holton Arms
McLean Public HS
Gonzaga
GT Prep
STA
Visitation
Stone Ridge
Bullis
Whitman
Churchill
Potomac School

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

It’s very common

Must be very common in your circles, certainly not in ours.

What circles are you in? So my friends with teens at the following schools have dealt with this.

Holton Arms
McLean Public HS
Gonzaga
GT Prep
STA
Visitation
Stone Ridge
Bullis
Whitman
Churchill
Potomac School

BS.

Bless your heart, and your teen's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

Exactly. It is NOT a normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

I just heard about this as parents saw a group of 8th grade (mostly lax players) at their boys school out in the middle of night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

I just heard about this as parents saw a group of 8th grade (mostly lax players) at their boys school out in the middle of night.

That's not what OP was asking about but, hey, if you love BS, feel free to eat as much as you want

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

I just heard about this as parents saw a group of 8th grade (mostly lax players) at their boys school out in the middle of night.

13 or 14 is a major problem. Senior in high school - maybe more leeway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

I just heard about this as parents saw a group of 8th grade (mostly lax players) at their boys school out in the middle of night.

That's not what OP was asking about but, hey, if you love BS, feel free to eat as much as you want

Actually the post was it response to the person saying kids weren’t going around in Uber’s and that’s exactly what these kids is in eighth grade were doing. Why so angry? Did someone out your kid or something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. So is this pretty common? I’m hearing they’re getting around late at night (really early morning) in Uber

No. It's not common. Don't normalize such behavior.

+1.

What kind of stupid comment is that of teens getting around late at night in Uber? Uber notifies the account holder of every trip.

It’s very common

Must be very common in your circles, certainly not in ours.

What circles are you in? So my friends with teens at the following schools have dealt with this.

Holton Arms
McLean Public HS
Gonzaga
GT Prep
STA
Visitation
Stone Ridge
Bullis
Whitman
Churchill
Potomac School

BS.

Bless your heart, and your teen's.

Way to put your head in the sand