Hesitant to date a short guy

[Anonymous]

Peter Dingklage's wife doesn't seem to mind.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5 ft 6 inch guy here and never in my 42 years have I been denied a date. And I only date hot, slim women. And no I'm not rich.

Honey, you are 42 and not married? That says it all

Married with two kids. Jut celebrated our 8th anniversary. I was speaking from my single days.

Anywho, was at a wedding on Saturday and was followed all night by a bridesmaid I'd met two hours earlier. Yes she was tipsy, but she was hot and slim. My wife was not happy. But my wife is hotter.

Yeah man, right,sure, ok, gotcha.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Peter Dingklage's wife doesn't seem to mind.

Wish I could unsee this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Peter Dingklage's wife doesn't seem to mind.

Wish I could unsee this.

Why? Because it doesn’t fit your ideals?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. The thing is sometimes I am attracted to him but that attraction usually stems from him being sweet. But if I think of him purely for sex the attraction is not there. I’m not really a physical person I don’t have a huge list of physical traits a guy must have like some women do. If I am attracted to you I am. I’m more interested in character and personality. I never really thought of height and have dated shorter guys before. I’m kind of confused about my feelings.

So what are you looking for? A relationship as a whole, or purely sex?

from him I’m not sure. In general I would like to marry again but I need sex to be a part of a long term relationship and good sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:5 ft 6 inch guy here and never in my 42 years have I been denied a date. And I only date hot, slim women. And no I'm not rich.

Honey, you are 42 and not married? That says it all

Married with two kids. Jut celebrated our 8th anniversary. I was speaking from my single days.

Anywho, was at a wedding on Saturday and was followed all night by a bridesmaid I'd met two hours earlier. Yes she was tipsy, but she was hot and slim. My wife was not happy. But my wife is hotter.

You sound very insecure...like you have something to prove.

You sound upset that short guys have hot wives.

[Anonymous]

OP, if it bugs you, it bugs you. That's fine. Own it, and move on. It's irrelevant what anyone else thinks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Personal preference, I'd never date a man shorter than I am. It's not something to feel bad about.

+1. but I am 4’11” and the only “men” shorter than me are in elementary school.

I wouldn’t date a guy who is under 5’ and all my shorty girlfriends won’t either.

I have a gf who is 4’9” whose DH is 5’3” and she is always worried about her 13 yo DS being under 5’5” but not worried about her 5’ tall 15 year old DD. It’s hard being a short guy

Sorry, but this made me laugh ? It’s true though. I’m 5’3” and already there are girls in 4th grade who are my height or taller. My MIL is 4’11 and my 8 year old is 4’8”. She produced my 6’1” husband so one never knows about genes...

OP here I actually think this might be part of my issue. I used to work with children some not much shorter than he is. He is short and also very slim. His face is manly but maybe to my mind his build is too childish.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. The thing is sometimes I am attracted to him but that attraction usually stems from him being sweet. But if I think of him purely for sex the attraction is not there. I’m not really a physical person I don’t have a huge list of physical traits a guy must have like some women do. If I am attracted to you I am. I’m more interested in character and personality. I never really thought of height and have dated shorter guys before. I’m kind of confused about my feelings.

So what are you looking for? A relationship as a whole, or purely sex?

from him I’m not sure. In general [b] I would like to marry again but I need sex to be a part of a long term relationship and good sex[i].

Being short doesn’t preclude him from good sex? Although it may in your mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Personal preference, I'd never date a man shorter than I am. It's not something to feel bad about.

+1. but I am 4’11” and the only “men” shorter than me are in elementary school.

I wouldn’t date a guy who is under 5’ and all my shorty girlfriends won’t either.

I have a gf who is 4’9” whose DH is 5’3” and she is always worried about her 13 yo DS being under 5’5” but not worried about her 5’ tall 15 year old DD. It’s hard being a short guy

Sorry, but this made me laugh ? It’s true though. I’m 5’3” and already there are girls in 4th grade who are my height or taller. My MIL is 4’11 and my 8 year old is 4’8”. She produced my 6’1” husband so one never knows about genes...

OP here I actually think this might be part of my issue. I used to work with children some not much shorter than he is. He is short and also very slim. His face is manly but maybe to my mind his build is too childish.

So throw him back into the pond for another woman who will appreciate him. Why hang on?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Peter Dingklage's wife doesn't seem to mind.


Wish I could unsee this.

Then you'll love these photos.





Kind of like how people didn't want to see black people and white people kissing back in the 1960's?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Personal preference, I'd never date a man shorter than I am. It's not something to feel bad about.

+1. but I am 4’11” and the only “men” shorter than me are in elementary school.

I wouldn’t date a guy who is under 5’ and all my shorty girlfriends won’t either.

I have a gf who is 4’9” whose DH is 5’3” and she is always worried about her 13 yo DS being under 5’5” but not worried about her 5’ tall 15 year old DD. It’s hard being a short guy

Sorry, but this made me laugh ? It’s true though. I’m 5’3” and already there are girls in 4th grade who are my height or taller. My MIL is 4’11 and my 8 year old is 4’8”. She produced my 6’1” husband so one never knows about genes...

OP here I actually think this might be part of my issue. I used to work with children some not much shorter than he is. He is short and also very slim. His face is manly but maybe to my mind his build is too childish.

If you are not sexually attracted to him, you can’t make yourself be sexually attracted to him. He doesn’t “do it” for you.

[Anonymous]

Have you had sex with him yet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you had sex with him yet?

No we have not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m only 5 ‘ 7” so not really tall. I’ve dated guys my height or maybe just an inch or two taller and really tall guys 6’4” or 6’5” types. This current guy is not even 5 feet. He’s a very sweet guy and I love his personality even if it’s a bit over the top some times in a good way. I’m just stuck on his height . I feel bad about that. I’m not unattractive to him but I’m not attracted at the same time. He’s definitely interested. Not sure what to say

Say the truth, "I'm just using you as a pacifier until I find a better guy to be with."