How reasonable a request is it to expect your husband to make a good salary?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
My husband is a research scientist finding cures for heart disease and cancer, and will never ever make more than 100K in public research.

I am proud of his work and public service.

I hope OP is a troll. If she isn't, she has my pity.

I don't necessarily agree with OP, but this IMO is not that different to the physical standards some men have of women -- she must be no smaller than a C cup, not be more than x lbs overweight, etc...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I gather at the very least you're under 28, naturally thin and blonde, and your thigh gap is out of this world? Otherwise, don't even bother "in this city."

D Cup minimum on a thin frame.

LOL A guy would not forget about the tits! OP, what's the cup size? Are you fit for marriage and motherhood?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
My husband is a research scientist finding cures for heart disease and cancer, and will never ever make more than 100K in public research.

I am proud of his work and public service.

I hope OP is a troll. If she isn't, she has my pity.

I don't necessarily agree with OP, but this IMO is not that different to the physical standards some men have of women -- she must be no smaller than a C cup, not be more than x lbs overweight, etc...

The whole planet wonders how Americans can be so overweight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a man said he wanted his wife to earn good money instead of being a SAHM, the DCUM women would decry him as shallow and materialistic. Just sayin'

And yet that’s not what’s happening, if you actually bother to read the thread. You post a version of this on about 50% of threads. Time to get some new material.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A man 30 years old and above should make at least 120k. In this city that’s the bare minimum. By mid 30s he should make at least 150k

Then he’s husband and father material.

You can have whatever standards you like. The trick is actually getting such a man to marry you and stay with you when he makes enough money to have his pick.

[Anonymous]

I bet you’re smokin hot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I gather at the very least you're under 28, naturally thin and blonde, and your thigh gap is out of this world? Otherwise, don't even bother "in this city."

D Cup minimum on a thin frame.

And can suck a basketball through a drinking straw.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A man 30 years old and above should make at least 120k. In this city that’s the bare minimum. By mid 30s he should make at least 150k

Then he’s husband and father material.

If he is 35 and single earning 150k he doesn't need or want you.

[Anonymous]

I’m a woman making $260k which is how I know it’s not reasonable at all. It’s effing hard to get and stay here.

DH makes $300k and he also struggles all the time to hold on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
My husband is a research scientist finding cures for heart disease and cancer, and will never ever make more than 100K in public research.

I am proud of his work and public service.

I hope OP is a troll. If she isn't, she has my pity.

I don't necessarily agree with OP, but this IMO is not that different to the physical standards some men have of women -- she must be no smaller than a C cup, not be more than x lbs overweight, etc...

The whole planet wonders how Americans can be so overweight.

It isn’t just one thing. More sendentary, bad cheap food.......

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The amount of money a man makes has nothing to do with what kind of father/husband he'll be.

This, this, this. In fact, they can be inversely proportional.

Yup. Look at Trump. Not meant to be political, here, but he’s the one who bragged about never changing a diaper.

Only middle class schmucks change diapers, not proles or billionaires.

Time to google your Marxist economic terminology before throwing it around, PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
My husband is a research scientist finding cures for heart disease and cancer, and will never ever make more than 100K in public research.

I am proud of his work and public service.

I hope OP is a troll. If she isn't, she has my pity.

I don't necessarily agree with OP, but this IMO is not that different to the physical standards some men have of women -- she must be no smaller than a C cup, not be more than x lbs overweight, etc...

The whole planet wonders how Americans can be so overweight.

It isn’t just one thing. More sendentary, bad cheap food.......

It's a choice. If you choose not to be unobese, don't complain about people screening you out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If a man said he wanted his wife to earn good money instead of being a SAHM, the DCUM women would decry him as shallow and materialistic. Just sayin'

And yet that’s not what’s happening, if you actually bother to read the thread. You post a version of this on about 50% of threads. Time to get some new material.

Women always say it, and it is always true that they have a double standard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The amount of money a man makes has nothing to do with what kind of father/husband he'll be.

This, this, this. In fact, they can be inversely proportional.

Yup. Look at Trump. Not meant to be political, here, but he’s the one who bragged about never changing a diaper.

Only middle class schmucks change diapers, not proles or billionaires.

Time to google your Marxist economic terminology before throwing it around, PP.

Time for you to read Paul Fussell's Class: A Guide Through the American Status System. He divided America into three classes: upper class, middle class, and prole. Much of what he said in 1982 remains true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
My husband is a research scientist finding cures for heart disease and cancer, and will never ever make more than 100K in public research.

I am proud of his work and public service.

I hope OP is a troll. If she isn't, she has my pity.

I don't necessarily agree with OP, but this IMO is not that different to the physical standards some men have of women -- she must be no smaller than a C cup, not be more than x lbs overweight, etc...

That would be 0 pounds. For men an women. Overweight is a dealbreaker.