Way too attracted to a dad at school.... how to defuse it?

[Anonymous]

Oh please - take a St. Joseph's aspirin and hold it between your knees and pray that you don't destroy your family. Or, get a great vibrator.

[Anonymous]

You should definitely go for it. YOLO!!!!!


Plus, it'll give your husband a concrete reason to divorce your sorry ass, instead of just the gnawing suspicions he has about you now.


Go for it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

DP

It's important the kids know their mother is of such low character and a whore.

The fact that you can't understand that shows you're a piece of shit, too.

[Anonymous]

Ive had these mini obsessions. Look at it for what it is, exciting fun. For me, it always runs it's course. The more i get to know someone, the more the fantasy dies and the person becomes much less exciting. Enjoy filling your spank bank, but don't take it to the next level. The novelty will wear off. Promise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

DP

It's important the kids know their mother is of such low character and a whore.

The fact that you can't understand that shows you're a piece of shit, too.

As someone who was cheated on, i don't normally say this, but i definitly can see why she stepped out. Instead of turning sour like yourself, I've made the choice to coparent my kids with coorporation free from animosity and rancor. Clearly, not your style, but when it comes to my kids, I put their needs first. I might not love their dad, bit they still do and it is not their fault he couldnt keep his dick in his pants. What you have accomplished is making your kids pay for the sins of their mother. It take a special kind of sadist to do that to their own children. Just like my ex, I'm sure yours has moved on. You should move on too.

Please get help, your kids deserve better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

DP

It's important the kids know their mother is of such low character and a whore.

The fact that you can't understand that shows you're a piece of shit, too.

As someone who was cheated on, i don't normally say this, but i definitly can see why she stepped out. Instead of turning sour like yourself, I've made the choice to coparent my kids with coorporation free from animosity and rancor. Clearly, not your style, but when it comes to my kids, I put their needs first. I might not love their dad, bit they still do and it is not their fault he couldnt keep his dick in his pants. What you have accomplished is making your kids pay for the sins of their mother. It take a special kind of sadist to do that to their own children. Just like my ex, I'm sure yours has moved on. You should move on too.

Please get help, your kids deserve better.

+1. You are doing this VERY wrong, PP. Your poor children

[Anonymous]

if you tell your husband other guys are flirting, the jealousy may make him start banging you again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

DP

It's important the kids know their mother is of such low character and a whore.

The fact that you can't understand that shows you're a piece of shit, too.

As someone who was cheated on, i don't normally say this, but i definitly can see why she stepped out. Instead of turning sour like yourself, I've made the choice to coparent my kids with coorporation free from animosity and rancor. Clearly, not your style, but when it comes to my kids, I put their needs first. I might not love their dad, bit they still do and it is not their fault he couldnt keep his dick in his pants. What you have accomplished is making your kids pay for the sins of their mother. It take a special kind of sadist to do that to their own children. Just like my ex, I'm sure yours has moved on. You should move on too.

Please get help, your kids deserve better.

This is the best eay to make do with a bad mess.

This lady has it going in. The scorned man needs some serious mental health help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

DP

It's important the kids know their mother is of such low character and a whore.

The fact that you can't understand that shows you're a piece of shit, too.

Glad it makes you feel better. It's a shame you had to mess up your kids for your ego.

[Anonymous]

OP - what attracts you to this guy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

at some point why is it wrong for kids to know the truth? If you don't want your kids to think you are an asshole, don't break up their home life for a piece of ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

at some point why is it wrong for kids to know the truth? If you don't want your kids to think you are an asshole, don't break up their home life for a piece of ass.

My parents are divorced and I THANK GOD they were mature enough to leave me out of the dirty details. Yes, i believe my father probably cheated, but really, I dont care to know in detail what went down. And guess what? I still love my father, he's the only one I've got. I'm happy that my parents have moved on with their lives and both have found love. Life is too short to marinate on my parents short comings.

[Anonymous]

He could be more a soulmate than your husband. You can tell if you have sex with him. If you don't you'll go through life wondering "What if . . .?"

[Anonymous]

You owe it to your husband to end this marriage while he's still young enough to get someone both more attractive and of better character than you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that. Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.

NP. Boy, this is an emotional angry response. You really wish you could tell them don't you? Therapy, lady.