Sex with teens around.

[Anonymous]

No one's advocating repression. Just some discretion. But have fun grossing out your kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW wants nothing to do with sex if kids could hear or walk in on us. Has practically killed all home sex. Only times now are if both kids go to sleepovers.

Umm, once our kids were old enough to watch tv in the basement and get their own breakfast they stopped looking for us in the morning before 9am. Morning sex and shower sex are more the norm for us now on weekends. We also have a lock on the door.

[Anonymous]

My parents told us they were going to take a "nap" and please don't disturb them. We knew what was up and we would scram. No big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a normal part of marriage. Unless you live in a tiny space, surely they can be in another part of the house doing something else. Get a white noise machine and put it just inside your door. Muffle the orgasms with a pillow, biting, whatever. Works for us.

You are disgusting. I'm an adult and I heard my parents once. I wish I didn't. That is not a memory I want.
Have some respect.

Right, it's much better to make your kids think that sex is only for procreation and once you have kids the only physical affection is a peck on the cheek. Freak.

NP. You're all about the TMI, huh?

Maybe your children don't WANT to hear you? It has nothing to do with thinking sex is only about procreation and everything to do with courtesy.

Yes, teens are grossed about by their parents having sex. Show them some respect.

AGREE. Show some respect.

It's our house and our marriage. Children do not define us. Adults have sex. I'm not giving up sex with my spouse because we have teenagers. It is such an important part of a healthy marriage and a healthy life. If the door is closed, don't walk in. We give them the same privacy. We also have healthy conversations about sex and relationships. I'm so glad my children are not growing up repressed and heading towards dysfunctional adult relationships and they will know to stay away from people like you.

Amen!
No one here is advocating having sex in the main living areas where you can be seen or being over the top porn movie loud.
But it really isn't then end of the world if your kids hear some inadvertent sex noises.
It's nothing to be ashamed of.
I suspect the pps who are freaking out are the types who married to have kids because the clock was ticking and had zero attraction to their spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My parents told us they were going to take a "nap" and please don't disturb them. We knew what was up and we would scram. No big deal.

It's not a big deal to most healthy people.

I suspect them people freaking out have deep seated issues perhaps a history of abuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless it sounds like Tarzan of the jungle who cares if they hear?

What's the big deal if they hear? Oh no they might discover mom and dad are in love and like expressing that physically! The horror!

Keep the noise level respectful i.e. No monkey calling.

Close the door. They are old enough to knock and if they don't that will be a lesson to them.

Book a weekend away for monkey times.
The end.

You are disgusting. I'm an adult and I heard my parents once. I wish I didn't. That is not a memory I want.
Have some respect.

Are you male or female? How old are your kids?

Not PP but you need some therapy. Seriously. Your reaction and the fact that you were so disturbed by the one time you heard your parents participating in a totally normal human behavior has left you with scars that remain today suggests you need help.

BTW I agree with the pp you attacked and I am female and have 4 kids the oldest being 16.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW wants nothing to do with sex if kids could hear or walk in on us. Has practically killed all home sex. Only times now are if both kids go to sleepovers.

Umm, once our kids were old enough to watch tv in the basement and get their own breakfast they stopped looking for us in the morning before 9am. Morning sex and shower sex are more the norm for us now on weekends. We also have a lock on the door.

I love love love morning sex. But just not happening with kids home. I hate that and has caused more than one argument. And I love shower sex too

[Anonymous]

On the floor with comforter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My parents told us they were going to take a "nap" and please don't disturb them. We knew what was up and we would scram. No big deal.

Yuck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless it sounds like Tarzan of the jungle who cares if they hear?

What's the big deal if they hear? Oh no they might discover mom and dad are in love and like expressing that physically! The horror!

Keep the noise level respectful i.e. No monkey calling.

Close the door. They are old enough to knock and if they don't that will be a lesson to them.

Book a weekend away for monkey times.
The end.

You are disgusting. I'm an adult and I heard my parents once. I wish I didn't. That is not a memory I want.
Have some respect.

Are you male or female? How old are your kids?

Not PP but you need some therapy. Seriously. Your reaction and the fact that you were so disturbed by the one time you heard your parents participating in a totally normal human behavior has left you with scars that remain today suggests you need help.

BTW I agree with the pp you attacked and I am female and have 4 kids the oldest being 16.

It's called controlling yourself until there is an appropriate time when kids won't hear. You aren't an animal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a normal part of marriage. Unless you live in a tiny space, surely they can be in another part of the house doing something else. Get a white noise machine and put it just inside your door. Muffle the orgasms with a pillow, biting, whatever. Works for us.

You are disgusting. I'm an adult and I heard my parents once. I wish I didn't. That is not a memory I want.
Have some respect.

Right, it's much better to make your kids think that sex is only for procreation and once you have kids the only physical affection is a peck on the cheek. Freak.

NP. You're all about the TMI, huh?

Maybe your children don't WANT to hear you? It has nothing to do with thinking sex is only about procreation and everything to do with courtesy.

Yes, teens are grossed about by their parents having sex. Show them some respect.

AGREE. Show some respect.

It's our house and our marriage. Children do not define us. Adults have sex. I'm not giving up sex with my spouse because we have teenagers. It is such an important part of a healthy marriage and a healthy life. If the door is closed, don't walk in. We give them the same privacy. We also have healthy conversations about sex and relationships. I'm so glad my children are not growing up repressed and heading towards dysfunctional adult relationships and they will know to stay away from people like you.

Ok but unless you live in a shack it is easy to have sex without your kids hearing or seeing, even if they know what is going on. Knowing is one thing and is fine. Hearing or seeing isn't appropriate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My parents told us they were going to take a "nap" and please don't disturb them. We knew what was up and we would scram. No big deal.

It's not a big deal to most healthy people.

I suspect them people freaking out have deep seated issues perhaps a history of abuse.

Never abused, nice try.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My parents told us they were going to take a "nap" and please don't disturb them. We knew what was up and we would scram. No big deal.

It's not a big deal to most healthy people.

I suspect them people freaking out have deep seated issues perhaps a history of abuse.

Never abused, nice try.

So you're just emotionally immature. That makes sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a normal part of marriage. Unless you live in a tiny space, surely they can be in another part of the house doing something else. Get a white noise machine and put it just inside your door. Muffle the orgasms with a pillow, biting, whatever. Works for us.

You are disgusting. I'm an adult and I heard my parents once. I wish I didn't. That is not a memory I want.
Have some respect.

Right, it's much better to make your kids think that sex is only for procreation and once you have kids the only physical affection is a peck on the cheek. Freak.

NP. You're all about the TMI, huh?

Maybe your children don't WANT to hear you? It has nothing to do with thinking sex is only about procreation and everything to do with courtesy.

Yes, teens are grossed about by their parents having sex. Show them some respect.

AGREE. Show some respect.

It's our house and our marriage. Children do not define us. Adults have sex. I'm not giving up sex with my spouse because we have teenagers. It is such an important part of a healthy marriage and a healthy life. If the door is closed, don't walk in. We give them the same privacy. We also have healthy conversations about sex and relationships. I'm so glad my children are not growing up repressed and heading towards dysfunctional adult relationships and they will know to stay away from people like you.

Amen!
No one here is advocating having sex in the main living areas where you can be seen or being over the top porn movie loud.
But it really isn't then end of the world if your kids hear some inadvertent sex noises.
It's nothing to be ashamed of.
I suspect the pps who are freaking out are the types who married to have kids because the clock was ticking and had zero attraction to their spouse.

I as married at 23, wrong again!

[Anonymous]

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