Drastic Reduction in Female Dating Market Value after 30

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yep true after 30 life is over.

Life is not over but you are def not as pretty and attractive. White women don't age well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yep true after 30 life is over.

Life is not over but you are def not as pretty and attractive. White women don't age well.

Lol, I'm a white guy but disagree. But I love Latin women, but mostly seem to pull blondes...can't complain.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Your guy friends are complete idiots. Many 30+ women are smart, independent, and oh by the way, very hot and damn good sexually because they know what they want and are comfortable finding out what their partner wants.

But for some guys their "dick count" it too high. I was married and find a lot of single women who are my age have had a lot of partners. That's a turn off.

Why? Because she was supposed to save herself for you? What bullshit. I hope you're saving yourself for some unicorn woman that gives a shit about who you used to bang. Normal guys will just enjoy the benefit of her experience.

OP - I separated when I was 35, met a great guy at 38 and am in a wonderful LTR that suits us both. I dated several nice men prior to meeting BF, some of whom are still friends. Find men of substance, don't go into a first date with an agenda other than to meet someone new, and just enjoy the process of getting to know someone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your guy friends are complete idiots. Many 30+ women are smart, independent, and oh by the way, very hot and damn good sexually because they know what they want and are comfortable finding out what their partner wants.

But for some guys their "dick count" it too high. I was married and find a lot of single women who are my age have had a lot of partners. That's a turn off.

Why? Because she was supposed to save herself for you? What bullshit. I hope you're saving yourself for some unicorn woman that gives a shit about who you used to bang. Normal guys will just enjoy the benefit of her experience.

OP - I separated when I was 35, met a great guy at 38 and am in a wonderful LTR that suits us both. I dated several nice men prior to meeting BF, some of whom are still friends. Find men of substance, don't go into a first date with an agenda other than to meet someone new, and just enjoy the process of getting to know someone.

No, I expect them to have previous partners. I was married for a while, and most of my activity was after the divorce. But it's still low comparatively speaking as my ex-wife and I dated through college. It's still less than most women I've met.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yep true after 30 life is over.

Life is not over but you are def not as pretty and attractive. White women don't age well.

Lol, I'm a white guy but disagree. But I love Latin women, but mostly seem to pull blondes...can't complain.

What's up with their wt gain after 20? Seems like they lose all control after teens.

[Anonymous]

I know multiple men in their 30's that got married in their 30's. Think about this, you may have your bachelor's degree (or master's degree), have a career track going, and know what you want in life. You may be in a great living situation which is a good thing to have.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your guy friends are complete idiots. Many 30+ women are smart, independent, and oh by the way, very hot and damn good sexually because they know what they want and are comfortable finding out what their partner wants.

But for some guys their "dick count" it too high. I was married and find a lot of single women who are my age have had a lot of partners. That's a turn off.

Why? Because she was supposed to save herself for you? What bullshit. I hope you're saving yourself for some unicorn woman that gives a shit about who you used to bang. Normal guys will just enjoy the benefit of her experience.

OP - I separated when I was 35, met a great guy at 38 and am in a wonderful LTR that suits us both. I dated several nice men prior to meeting BF, some of whom are still friends. Find men of substance, don't go into a first date with an agenda other than to meet someone new, and just enjoy the process of getting to know someone.

No, I expect them to have previous partners. I was married for a while, and most of my activity was after the divorce. But it's still low comparatively speaking as my ex-wife and I dated through college. It's still less than most women I've met.

Why do you care? Why even discuss the number?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your guy friends are complete idiots. Many 30+ women are smart, independent, and oh by the way, very hot and damn good sexually because they know what they want and are comfortable finding out what their partner wants.

But for some guys their "dick count" it too high. I was married and find a lot of single women who are my age have had a lot of partners. That's a turn off.

Why? Because she was supposed to save herself for you? What bullshit. I hope you're saving yourself for some unicorn woman that gives a shit about who you used to bang. Normal guys will just enjoy the benefit of her experience.

OP - I separated when I was 35, met a great guy at 38 and am in a wonderful LTR that suits us both. I dated several nice men prior to meeting BF, some of whom are still friends. Find men of substance, don't go into a first date with an agenda other than to meet someone new, and just enjoy the process of getting to know someone.

Because a lot of baggage comes along with it.

No, I expect them to have previous partners. I was married for a while, and most of my activity was after the divorce. But it's still low comparatively speaking as my ex-wife and I dated through college. It's still less than most women I've met.

Why do you care? Why even discuss the number?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know multiple men in their 30's that got married in their 30's. Think about this, you may have your bachelor's degree (or master's degree), have a career track going, and know what you want in life. You may be in a great living situation which is a good thing to have.

This.

I'm in a better place now. Physically too. I'm in much better shape and almost single digit body fat. Haven't been that since college.

Plus a touch of grey...seems to be a good combo. And guess what? Most offers are from women in their 20s

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Don't listen to them. There will always be people younger and better looking, but don't let that stop you.

And hey... date the younger and good looking guys! I do it! It's awesome

Me too! I'm 36 and found myself a ridiculously sexy younger guy who doesn't have that shitty attitude like the guys quoted by OP. People of any age can be sexy, dateable, and an amazing partner. You can't put everyone into the same box.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your guy friends are complete idiots. Many 30+ women are smart, independent, and oh by the way, very hot and damn good sexually because they know what they want and are comfortable finding out what their partner wants.

But for some guys their "dick count" it too high. I was married and find a lot of single women who are my age have had a lot of partners. That's a turn off.

Why? Because she was supposed to save herself for you? What bullshit. I hope you're saving yourself for some unicorn woman that gives a shit about who you used to bang. Normal guys will just enjoy the benefit of her experience.

OP - I separated when I was 35, met a great guy at 38 and am in a wonderful LTR that suits us both. I dated several nice men prior to meeting BF, some of whom are still friends. Find men of substance, don't go into a first date with an agenda other than to meet someone new, and just enjoy the process of getting to know someone.

No, I expect them to have previous partners. I was married for a while, and most of my activity was after the divorce. But it's still low comparatively speaking as my ex-wife and I dated through college. It's still less than most women I've met.

Why do you care? Why even discuss the number?

Not PP. And I've been married and not dating so long, my observations here are worthless. And, yet, I'll share one!

I think I'd feel jealous that women have an easier time finding willing sexual partners than men do. I hope I would not let that jealousy take the form of shaming women for enjoying that advantage. But, I guess I can't be sure that the jealousy wouldn't get the best of me.

[Anonymous]

Tables and graphs are instructive if you want to skip the analysis.

http://jezebel.com/mens-favorite-ages-are-20-21-22-and-23-a-data-dive-1731660984?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+jezebel%2Ffull+%28Jezebel%29

[Anonymous]

I remarried at 38 with two children, one with special needs in tow. My DH was 42, grest job, fit, tall, and has 2 children of his own. Dating was not difficult. At. All. I however would ONLY date men with children who didn't want anymore kids.

Should be even easier for a 30yr old.

[Anonymous]

^^I might add that I do have a career and didn't need a paycheck, just a partner. That is appealing to many men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^I might add that I do have a career and didn't need a paycheck, just a partner. That is appealing to many men.

Yes it is