How do I ask a guy to be my FwB

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just walk up to him and tell him you're slutty and just want to f once in a while.

Why is desiring sex, but not wanting to get someone involved with my kids, slutty?

Its not the desiring, its the doing, on a purely recreational basis. That's the slutty part.

You're an asshole

And you think it is fine that a woman with young children at home will begin pursuing recreational sex without any emotional commitment, and then you would call someone an "asshole" (stay classy, PP) simply because she believes this is inappropriate. You have your standards; I have mine.

I hope your daughters turn out to be super "slutty".

So you can meet them on the street you're working? I think not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just walk up to him and tell him you're slutty and just want to f once in a while.

Why is desiring sex, but not wanting to get someone involved with my kids, slutty?

Its not the desiring, its the doing, on a purely recreational basis. That's the slutty part.

You're an asshole

And you think it is fine that a woman with young children at home will begin pursuing recreational sex without any emotional commitment, and then you would call someone an "asshole" (stay classy, PP) simply because she believes this is inappropriate. You have your standards; I have mine.

I don't think the kids would ever know about it, I think that's the whole point. No one is getting hurt here. Did Mass get out early?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just walk up to him and tell him you're slutty and just want to f once in a while.

Why is desiring sex, but not wanting to get someone involved with my kids, slutty?

Its not the desiring, its the doing, on a purely recreational basis. That's the slutty part.

You're an asshole

And you think it is fine that a woman with young children at home will begin pursuing recreational sex without any emotional commitment, and then you would call someone an "asshole" (stay classy, PP) simply because she believes this is inappropriate. You have your standards; I have mine.

I don't think the kids would ever know about it, I think that's the whole point. No one is getting hurt here. Did Mass get out early?

LOL

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just walk up to him and tell him you're slutty and just want to f once in a while.

Why is desiring sex, but not wanting to get someone involved with my kids, slutty?

Its not the desiring, its the doing, on a purely recreational basis. That's the slutty part.

You're an asshole

And you think it is fine that a woman with young children at home will begin pursuing recreational sex without any emotional commitment, and then you would call someone an "asshole" (stay classy, PP) simply because she believes this is inappropriate. You have your standards; I have mine.

I don't think the kids would ever know about it, I think that's the whole point. No one is getting hurt here. Did Mass get out early?

Christian bashing!! That's awesome. LOL!!!

[Anonymous]

JFC go back to the religious forum already. Leave us heathens be.

[Anonymous]

uh where is my tinder post? I gave the OP a recommendation of a popular dating hookup app. How is that bad?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:uh where is my tinder post? I gave the OP a recommendation of a popular dating hookup app. How is that bad?

Enough with the name calling, that's what's what.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:uh where is my tinder post? I gave the OP a recommendation of a popular dating hookup app. How is that bad?

Enough with the name calling, that's what's what.

Name calling who? Sensitive much? Being a girl I can say that 3 or more dates a day is usual by using the app and if im called a tramp so?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What a croc of shit people have written as advice. I think you talk to this guy. Meet for a coffee or lunch and find out where he is now, he could be in a relationship. You need to find out and take it from there. But do be honest up front, if he is secretly in love with you, finding out its casual after the event, would crush him.

OP here. I know that he had a big crush on me when we worked together. It was very obvious. He tried several times to initiate meetings with me and I was oblivious to the fact that he was just trying to spend time with me. In all honesty, he's a person I'd love to be in a relationship with, but I doubt he would consider a relationship with a single mom, no matter how attractive. I look a lot younger than I am and get hit on a lot by guys in their thirties who have no idea that I'm a mom who's really not available to have kids with!

Yes, well that's all well and good. when I was 32 I was being pursued by teenagers, that's hardly an accolade. You really should consider this guy's feelings in this. I don't understand why you're boasting about your appearance when you've just walked out of a failed marriage, to be honest.

[Anonymous]

Invite him out for a drink and at some point, admit that you had a big crush on him when you worked together. If he is single and has even an ounce of game, he will run with it. And see how the sex goes before you decide he should be your FWB.

[markmywords]

OP, where are you located. You sound like someone I would get along with. Single guy with kids in your age range. Would love to chat. PM me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What a croc of shit people have written as advice. I think you talk to this guy. Meet for a coffee or lunch and find out where he is now, he could be in a relationship. You need to find out and take it from there. But do be honest up front, if he is secretly in love with you, finding out its casual after the event, would crush him.

OP here. I know that he had a big crush on me when we worked together. It was very obvious. He tried several times to initiate meetings with me and I was oblivious to the fact that he was just trying to spend time with me. In all honesty, he's a person I'd love to be in a relationship with, but I doubt he would consider a relationship with a single mom, no matter how attractive. I look a lot younger than I am and get hit on a lot by guys in their thirties who have no idea that I'm a mom who's really not available to have kids with!

Yes, well that's all well and good. when I was 32 I was being pursued by teenagers, that's hardly an accolade. You really should consider this guy's feelings in this. I don't understand why you're boasting about your appearance when you've just walked out of a failed marriage, to be honest.

Sorry if that came off as bragging, I didn't mean it that way. If you read more carefully, you'll see that I was saying that he would likely reject me. Most attractive guys with many choices would rather have a woman without kids.

I didn't cause the marriage to fail. Through two years of blood, sweat and tears, I excavated my children from a horrible situation, and they are happy now in so many ways that they never were before. I don't want to be in a relationship because we all need time to heal. Some of the things that happened will leave permanent scars. I'm willing not to be in a relationship until they are out of the house, so that they feel fully safe in their own home.

[Anonymous]

Do you test for STDs before... Or just wing it? There goes the genital herpes lady!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you test for STDs before... Or just wing it? There goes the genital herpes lady!

That's a good point, and one of the reasons I want to pick someone I have at least a little history with. I know he's a good person and would disclose any known issues. Most health departments around here will do STD testing for free, and before going without condoms, we head down there together (in past relationships).

[Anonymous]

markmywords wrote:OP, where are you located. You sound like someone I would get along with. Single guy with kids in your age range. Would love to chat. PM me.

Haha did you just make an account for the polyanorous relationship?