Marriage

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:^Congrats, no one's denying that. But plenty of women are realizing they do fall somewhere on the spectrum. You can see it happening in HW, with a ton of Millenial female celebrities (big names) coming out as bi.

You are welcome to be strictly dickly. But there are lots of women that are open to more experiences, and the numbers are growing.


I personally also prefer sex with a man, but think sex is not a great basis for a lifetime partnership. I could see forming a "sister" relationshp with another woman to raise children and then having fun with a girls night out for sex when that is needed. My partner and I could then laugh about the men we had sex with together.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At times it seems to me that marriage is a grand scheme, a ruse designed to use women to benefit men. I truly see way more advantages for men than for women in the institution of marriage.


I feel this way about having children. My childless-by-choice marriage is a fun and equitable partnership, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna screw that up by having kids.


+1. If we're beig honest, havig kids is what screws the woman, not marriage.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At times it seems to me that marriage is a grand scheme, a ruse designed to use women to benefit men. I truly see way more advantages for men than for women in the institution of marriage.


I feel this way about having children. My childless-by-choice marriage is a fun and equitable partnership, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna screw that up by having kids.


+1. If we're beig honest, havig kids is what screws the woman, not marriage.


Its true. I think Japanese women are the world's smartest (aren't the Japanese ahead of the world in almost everything?) They have basically decided to give up marriage and children, as the most sensible choice.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I totally agree.

I worked for a family law firm, and seeing almost every single fucking one of the women in these relationships be the ones who got fucked over cured me of my romanticism forever.

I'm 26 but my life plan is to have kids out of wedlock, either through the sperm bank or just getting with a guy, getting pregnant and not telling him (preferably an ex, someone I care about and respect), and raise them on my own.

I know everyone will say I'm crazy and it's harder than I realize but I have seen my mom be a single mom. And it was way easier than raising kids and having to deal with an overbearing asshole husband at the same time.


LOL, you're 26 and you think you have it all figured out.

SURE. Give it 10 years and we'll see how your "plan" went.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At times it seems to me that marriage is a grand scheme, a ruse designed to use women to benefit men. I truly see way more advantages for men than for women in the institution of marriage.


I feel this way about having children. My childless-by-choice marriage is a fun and equitable partnership, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna screw that up by having kids.


+1. If we're beig honest, havig kids is what screws the woman, not marriage.


Its true. I think Japanese women are the world's smartest (aren't the Japanese ahead of the world in almost everything?) They have basically decided to give up marriage and children, as the most sensible choice.


It's totally smart to die off completely. Genius!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I totally agree.

I worked for a family law firm, and seeing almost every single fucking one of the women in these relationships be the ones who got fucked over cured me of my romanticism forever.

I'm 26 but my life plan is to have kids out of wedlock, either through the sperm bank or just getting with a guy, getting pregnant and not telling him (preferably an ex, someone I care about and respect), and raise them on my own.

I know everyone will say I'm crazy and it's harder than I realize but I have seen my mom be a single mom. And it was way easier than raising kids and having to deal with an overbearing asshole husband at the same time.


Your not crazy. You're just selfish as hell. No wonder you've never had a successful relationship.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At times it seems to me that marriage is a grand scheme, a ruse designed to use women to benefit men. I truly see way more advantages for men than for women in the institution of marriage.


I feel this way about having children. My childless-by-choice marriage is a fun and equitable partnership, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna screw that up by having kids.


+1. If we're beig honest, havig kids is what screws the woman, not marriage.


Its true. I think Japanese women are the world's smartest (aren't the Japanese ahead of the world in almost everything?) They have basically decided to give up marriage and children, as the most sensible choice.


It's totally smart to die off completely. Genius!


Why is dying off completely a bad choice? The shakers did it. I think they felt they were giving the world a gift by doing this. The world would really be better off without people. And people without children are happier. It is win-win.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^Congrats, no one's denying that. But plenty of women are realizing they do fall somewhere on the spectrum. You can see it happening in HW, with a ton of Millenial female celebrities (big names) coming out as bi.

You are welcome to be strictly dickly. But there are lots of women that are open to more experiences, and the numbers are growing.


I personally also prefer sex with a man, but think sex is not a great basis for a lifetime partnership. I could see forming a "sister" relationshp with another woman to raise children and then having fun with a girls night out for sex when that is needed. My partner and I could then laugh about the men we had sex with together.


That couldn't possibly be as fantastic as it sounds, right?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I totally agree.

I worked for a family law firm, and seeing almost every single fucking one of the women in these relationships be the ones who got fucked over cured me of my romanticism forever.

I'm 26 but my life plan is to have kids out of wedlock, either through the sperm bank or just getting with a guy, getting pregnant and not telling him (preferably an ex, someone I care about and respect), and raise them on my own.

I know everyone will say I'm crazy and it's harder than I realize but I have seen my mom be a single mom. And it was way easier than raising kids and having to deal with an overbearing asshole husband at the same time.


Your not crazy. You're just selfish as hell. No wonder you've never had a successful relationship.


And you sound like a real charmer...
Anonymous
Why are there so many men haters on this board?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why are there so many men haters on this board?


Because men frequently act like assholes...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I totally agree.

I worked for a family law firm, and seeing almost every single fucking one of the women in these relationships be the ones who got fucked over cured me of my romanticism forever.

I'm 26 but my life plan is to have kids out of wedlock, either through the sperm bank or just getting with a guy, getting pregnant and not telling him (preferably an ex, someone I care about and respect), and raise them on my own.

I know everyone will say I'm crazy and it's harder than I realize but I have seen my mom be a single mom. And it was way easier than raising kids and having to deal with an overbearing asshole husband at the same time.


Your not crazy. You're just selfish as hell. No wonder you've never had a successful relationship.


And you sound like a real charmer...


Just callin' a spade a spade...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I totally agree.

I worked for a family law firm, and seeing almost every single fucking one of the women in these relationships be the ones who got fucked over cured me of my romanticism forever.

I'm 26 but my life plan is to have kids out of wedlock, either through the sperm bank or just getting with a guy, getting pregnant and not telling him (preferably an ex, someone I care about and respect), and raise them on my own.

I know everyone will say I'm crazy and it's harder than I realize but I have seen my mom be a single mom. And it was way easier than raising kids and having to deal with an overbearing asshole husband at the same time.


Your not crazy. You're just selfish as hell. No wonder you've never had a successful relationship.


And you sound like a real charmer...


Just callin' a spade a spade...


Sure, Dr. Phil. Time to take a look in the mirror...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why are there so many men haters on this board?


Because most of the frequenters are women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:At times it seems to me that marriage is a grand scheme, a ruse designed to use women to benefit men. I truly see way more advantages for men than for women in the institution of marriage.


Of course it is.

On the other hand, divorce is the ruse designed to use men to benefit women, so at least there's a balance.
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