Yes, I believe that is also true, PP. There were some teachers/aides with whom we dealt who obviously had no training or understanding of special needs and held the attitude that these kids were just "brats.". I spoke to the principal about it and suggested she might want to have all of her school's teachers trained on ADHD and autism. We left shortly after so I don't know if that ever happened. Regardless of race/ethnicity I know well that so much ignorance still exists about these disorders. |
wow because white folks don't live together without being married, don't have babies out of wedlock. I think you wandered onto the wrong board, this is not kkk.com, it's DCUM. |
I agree that this sounds egregious to me. However, is it possible that the black boy had committed other offenses at the school previously that you are unaware of? Seeing as schools cannot share info about other students to students, it is possible that you were unaware of the complete situation. Something like this could explain the disparity in punishments. OTOH if he did not have other offenses than he should have received equal punishments. |
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Slightly shorter PP: I'm completely missing the point. |
PP - That's what unfair treatment is. It can't be explained. Imagine how frustrating it would be to experience directly and watch others experience regularly. It's more than a mere inconvenience. |
OP here: thanks for the fact check. Doesn't diminish the point or issue. There are more than enough studies that back it up. Also, the treatment spreads from the education system to the justice system since blacks get longer sentences than whites for similar offenses. |
Why does unequal treatment of blacks make you feel whites are bad? |
I remember a case from maybe a year ago, where two middle school girls committed a minor act of graffiti. Not great choices, but also not the worst crime ever committed by a pre-teen. The white girl paid "restitution" and was able to move on. The Black girl's family was not able to pay, and she ended up suspended and in the criminal justice system. http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/11/us/school-discipline-to-girls-differs-between-and-within-races.html Now, the argument can be made that the difference here was about SES and not race, but those are so closely tied in the US that you can't talk about one without the other. |
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Thank you for posting this PP. This story makes me furious as a similar thing happened to a child I know who is 2e. It actually happened in a wealthy school in MCPS, but luckily his parents had enough money to get a lawyer and get the child, who is very bright, back in to school and with an IEP. It has been a few years now and I've heard he's doing very well. It makes me very sad to think of the other students who don't have the resources to fight the system.
Unrelated to my comment above, I heard Gwen Mason from MCPS is going to PG County and I hope she can make a difference there.
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I think what this research shows is that higher-poverty schools tend to rely on punitive discipline rather than behavioral interventions and supports. That's in line with my experience, as parent of a kid with documented diagnoses of ADHD, anxiety, and depression. My kid went to a Title I MS and was suspended from school multiple times, most of those suspensions stemming from behaviors well established by psychologist's reports and in the school's own 504 plan. The approach at such schools seems to stress quarantine of problematic behavior rather than understanding the behavior and addressing it.
I will echo an earlier post: teachers and administrators remain woefully under-trained in understanding how ADHD and other SNs impact on kids' behaviors. |
Thank you...somebody with some sense. |
PP - you are still missing the point and simultaneously demonstrating the thinking that goes along with the disparate treatment. The incident should have been treated as an isolated one. He said they were both in gifted classes and that the black child was quiet. So even if the child had a previous incident, combining it with that fight is wrong and unfair to a child and would not have been done to a white child. One fight should not have, on any level, justified an expulsion. |
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^^ This story is so troubling on so many levels. I really feel for the young man who had his opportunities so limited. I think it is important to advocate for your child and communicate. I try to keep very open lines of communication with my DS, so I can understand his behavior and discuss better behavioral options. I wonder if a parent had gotten engaged in this story earlier would it have made a difference? A parent going to the school after the first incident to reinforce that this was a good kid that had been provoked. Any thoughts OP?
I remember being in an "excellent" school in an upper middle class suburb where many of the AA parents assumed because the schools were good they would be good for their kid. The AA kids were treated horribly, and some of the parents were disengaged, because they were overconfident that an excellent school would be enough. In HS several friends from school would spend time at my house, where they would share their problems with teachers. In many cases their own parents couldn't advocate (trusted the teachers more than the kids/were afraid to stir things up). My mom with a group of parents started a parents club to support all of the kids -- it brought some seriously questionable practices (such as tracking by race and limited college counseling for children of color) to light. Surprisingly, in this case, I think it is precisely the respect for authority and teachers, by some AA parents that burned some of the kids. The teacher just "had to be always right and the kid was always wrong." Navigating the exceptions and gray areas are very important. Knowing how to question authority when needed seems to be key to long term success (think Gladwell's Outliers cases of failed geniuses who couldn't get this right). This is territory that we always are always navigating with our children, regardless of our SES or two parent households. |
Again, all I am suggesting is that other parents and students are not privy to all that goes on with a particular student due to privacy laws. From experience, I have seen different classmates of my kid describe the same situation in completely different ways on multiple occasions. Also, from my work experience, I saw how incorrect recollections of particular events were frequently spread around the work force. So, IMHO it is quite possible that one does not have all the facts. OTOH I agree that instances of racism have occurred in our school systems. |