Toddler Telling Daddy: "Go Away."

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Anonymous wrote:Our 26 month old has a great relationship with her dad and me. But recently she's been pushing her dad away and saying, "Dada go away!" This usually happens at bedtime. In the past, we have all three gone into her room and read stories before bedtime, after brushing teeth. The past couple of nights, she tries to close the door before he can come in. DH is trying not to take this personally, but it's hard not to! Anyone have any suggestions or read any good articles about how to handle this?


You let a two yr old tell you what to do? She is a brat because you have allowed her to be.


Do you know anything about child development? It's very normal for a child this young to show a preference for one parent over another.
We went through something very similar. Like many toddler things, it lasted for a week or two. It wasn't an indicator for brattiness, nor was it an indicator that our son liked one of us more than the other. I do think he just found it easier to spend one on one time, not one on two time.



Saying "go away, Daddy" had NOTHING to do with preference for one parent over the other. It is all about control and testing how much power they have. I agree with the PP who said to her child, "No, Daddy will not go away - Mommy wants him here".

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our 26 month old has a great relationship with her dad and me. But recently she's been pushing her dad away and saying, "Dada go away!" This usually happens at bedtime. In the past, we have all three gone into her room and read stories before bedtime, after brushing teeth. The past couple of nights, she tries to close the door before he can come in. DH is trying not to take this personally, but it's hard not to! Anyone have any suggestions or read any good articles about how to handle this?


You let a two yr old tell you what to do? She is a brat because you have allowed her to be.


Do you know anything about child development? It's very normal for a child this young to show a preference for one parent over another.
We went through something very similar. Like many toddler things, it lasted for a week or two. It wasn't an indicator for brattiness, nor was it an indicator that our son liked one of us more than the other. I do think he just found it easier to spend one on one time, not one on two time.



Saying "go away, Daddy" had NOTHING to do with preference for one parent over the other. It is all about control and testing how much power they have. I agree with the PP who said to her child, "No, Daddy will not go away - Mommy wants him here".

+1. And "go away" is rude. If the child can piece together go+away they can be taught to add please.

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