If your ex husband remarried and had a second set of kids

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I get it. I love my half siblings but my full sib and I lived in the full out ghetto while my dad started a new life in the 'burbs.

I suggest therapy for your bitterness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I get it. I love my half siblings but my full sib and I lived in the full out ghetto while my dad started a new life in the 'burbs.

I suggest therapy for your bitterness.

Not bitter. It's a fact that we got shafted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I get it. I love my half siblings but my full sib and I lived in the full out ghetto while my dad started a new life in the 'burbs.

I suggest therapy for your bitterness.

I suggest you close your legs to married men, whore, instead of lashing out on DCUM when people comment on situations that remind you of yours. You had better hope DH's money lasts because the kids from the first marriage are growing into their own as the man you poached gets older and less able to maintain his lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I have nothing to fear. For years after my father left, my siblings and I suffered, peering through the window of his mansion like street urchins. His second wife was thrilled with how quickly he forsook his kids from his first marriage because that meant more for the kids she had in rapid succession. My mother was just destroyed. What is happening now is justice and I don't feel a bit of pity regardless of what bitches like you have to say.

That all may be true. I'm sure it is, in fact. But glee at your half siblings' deprivation is very different than a lack of pity. If you don't tecognize that, you have a very shaky grasp on he definition of karma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I have nothing to fear. For years after my father left, my siblings and I suffered, peering through the window of his mansion like street urchins. His second wife was thrilled with how quickly he forsook his kids from his first marriage because that meant more for the kids she had in rapid succession. My mother was just destroyed. What is happening now is justice and I don't feel a bit of pity regardless of what bitches like you have to say.

That all may be true. I'm sure it is, in fact. But glee at your half siblings' deprivation is very different than a lack of pity. If you don't tecognize that, you have a very shaky grasp on he definition of karma.

Who are you to decide what feelings are valid in this situation? Screw off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I have nothing to fear. For years after my father left, my siblings and I suffered, peering through the window of his mansion like street urchins. His second wife was thrilled with how quickly he forsook his kids from his first marriage because that meant more for the kids she had in rapid succession. My mother was just destroyed. What is happening now is justice and I don't feel a bit of pity regardless of what bitches like you have to say.

NP, all of these details don't make you less of a bitch, just so you know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I get it. I love my half siblings but my full sib and I lived in the full out ghetto while my dad started a new life in the 'burbs.

I suggest therapy for your bitterness.

I suggest you close your legs to married men, whore, instead of lashing out on DCUM when people comment on situations that remind you of yours. You had better hope DH's money lasts because the kids from the first marriage are growing into their own as the man you poached gets older and less able to maintain his lifestyle.

I'm not that PP but I feel the same way. You need meds- you've run off the rails. And no, no whoring going on here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I have nothing to fear. For years after my father left, my siblings and I suffered, peering through the window of his mansion like street urchins. His second wife was thrilled with how quickly he forsook his kids from his first marriage because that meant more for the kids she had in rapid succession. My mother was just destroyed. What is happening now is justice and I don't feel a bit of pity regardless of what bitches like you have to say.

NP, all of these details don't make you less of a bitch, just so you know.

NP. The other women, second wives, and future mistresses are really showing up in their numbers in this thread.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, my youngest sibling by my dad got the lion's share financially. My ex is about to remarry and he's already slacked off to pay for his & fiancée's fertility treatments.

Slacked off as in late with child support?

Yes. Also, he's coming to fewer events and even canceled a visit. He's moved on to the not yet conceived children.

So sad, I could have written this, right down to the cutting child support to pay for fertility treatments. Kids are heartbroken, especially the youngest, who stands by the door hoping and waiting for Daddy to come on his appointed day and time. I worry that they are learning from Dad to accept very little scraps of attention from future loved ones.

But, in a way I also feel sad for his future kids and girlfriend/future wife. She doesn't know the full picture of his mental illness, and he will be 70 when his kids with her turn 15, if he even lives that long or stays with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I get it. I love my half siblings but my full sib and I lived in the full out ghetto while my dad started a new life in the 'burbs.

I suggest therapy for your bitterness.

Not bitter. It's a fact that we got shafted.

Not OP or PP, but I spent years coaching Ex how to treat our kids fairly. I finally got tired of it. He will reap what he sows. It is not reasonable to expect children that are forgotten and not cared for to care for other siblings who were treated better. Good relationships require investment -- of time, money and love -- if you don't put in, it's not reasonable to expect a return without investment. Blood doesn't require one to tolerate abuse or unfair behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Whenever there are more mouths to feed everyone has to give. If the first family had another child or 2, older children would have to get less. Sadly money really doesn't grow on trees.

Nope, I don't have to give and I won't unless the court forces me. His choice to have more babies should have no bearing on my finances. I am not taking less money because he has more kids with some new woman. The court order doesn't say he can do that either.

[Anonymous]

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Whenever there are more mouths to feed everyone has to give. If the first family had another child or 2, older children would have to get less. Sadly money really doesn't grow on trees.


Nope, I don't have to give and I won't unless the court forces me. His choice to have more babies should have no bearing on my finances. I am not taking less money because he has more kids with some new woman. The court order doesn't say he can do that either.

This. If a man can't afford to have more children without taking care of his existing children, who he has a legal obligation to provide for, then he has no business having more kids. Period.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The second wife who is posting in this thread sounds very pleased with herself. Will you support him cutting off his kids by you if they act out as teenagers or will that be different because they are your kids?

People like you forget that the young shall grow. I was the child of the first marriage left to fend for myself for college while my father and the whore he married next lived in a mansion with basketball courts and maids. Well fast forward 15 years later, my father lost a fortune in the the recession just as his kids from the second marriage were about to hit college. I am close to a millionaire now and am happily married with kids of my own. And I am looking on in amusement as my father has sold his mansion and cars and is pinching pennies with the second wife. Her kids aren't going to have college paid for either and their retirement is going to be tough. Karma is a bitch.

You are looking on in amusement as kids (you half siblings?) suffer from financial difficulties? If karma is indeed a bitch, you should be very afraid.

I get it. I love my half siblings but my full sib and I lived in the full out ghetto while my dad started a new life in the 'burbs.

I suggest therapy for your bitterness.

I suggest you close your legs to married men, whore, instead of lashing out on DCUM when people comment on situations that remind you of yours. You had better hope DH's money lasts because the kids from the first marriage are growing into their own as the man you poached gets older and less able to maintain his lifestyle.

What? I'm not anyone in any of these situations? I'm a whore?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Whenever there are more mouths to feed everyone has to give. If the first family had another child or 2, older children would have to get less. Sadly money really doesn't grow on trees.


Nope, I don't have to give and I won't unless the court forces me. His choice to have more babies should have no bearing on my finances. I am not taking less money because he has more kids with some new woman. The court order doesn't say he can do that either.

This. If a man can't afford to have more children without taking care of his existing children, who he has a legal obligation to provide for, then he has no business having more kids. Period.

Right. But there's no way to stop him and once those other kids are in the picture, his income gets split as it will. The court can't make him create more money though it can take as much away form him as is legally possible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Whenever there are more mouths to feed everyone has to give. If the first family had another child or 2, older children would have to get less. Sadly money really doesn't grow on trees.


Nope, I don't have to give and I won't unless the court forces me. His choice to have more babies should have no bearing on my finances. I am not taking less money because he has more kids with some new woman. The court order doesn't say he can do that either.

This. If a man can't afford to have more children without taking care of his existing children, who he has a legal obligation to provide for, then he has no business having more kids. Period.

Right. But there's no way to stop him and once those other kids are in the picture, his income gets split as it will. The court can't make him create more money though it can take as much away form him as is legally possible.

What do you mean his income gets split as it will? He has a legal obligation to the first set of kids. If he creates a second set, they'll have to live on what is left after the first set is paid for, as the court decided.