Please settle a debate I am having with my guy....If I am right, he's out.....................

[Anonymous]

No no no, he's wrong. You're right, and should definitely break up with him (please, do this poor guy a favor and break up with him!)

[Anonymous]

Wow.


Yea, wow. You are socially awkward and weird.

Please break up with the guy unless he is a basement dwelling neckbeard...if thats the case you two should marry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think he's right about all but the lip gloss. Seriously? None of you do this? I do this all the time, discreetly (no compact or mirror involved).

But yeah, this is doomed.

You are supposed to excuse yourself and go to the restroom if you want to pick your teeth or put on lipstick.

[Anonymous]

M.A.A.N

Bogus as well.

[Anonymous]

He;s right and you should break up with him

[Anonymous]

The only thing he's wrong about is not breaking up with you first.

[Anonymous]

Just end it with him! No games. You obviously aren't good for each other.

[Anonymous]

You're wrong. On all three.

1. Unless you're about to perform surgery your hands don't need to be THAT clean. Stop trying to create a super bug. Only use antibacterial stuff when you don't have access to a sink with soap.

2. Brush your teeth, use a tongue scraper, and use mouthwash. The goal is to leave your teeth alone for the longest amount of time possible after brushing. So when you chew gum immediately after brushing you're undoing all that brushing basically.

3. Totally disgusting and inappropriate to pick at your teeth at the table where people are eating. Nobody should see you doing that.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are a bit OCD. If it's not affecting your life,chalk it up to being Quirky. But know that the hand washing sanitizing, brushing teeth & chewing gum is a it overboard. and "knowing" you have food stuck in your teeth while you eat, enough times that it is a issue, is weird. We all have food stuck between our teeth when we are eating. Happens all the time, then we take the next bit or drink and it goes away. Being that self-conscious...please see someone about that.

[Anonymous]

Floss every day and use mouthwash to help with your breath. Also brush your tongue and don't forget to change your toothbrush every month or two.

[Anonymous]

wow, i always use (moisturizing) hand sanitizer immediately after washing my hands, most especially after changing a dirty diaper or being around a sick individual. i consider it insurance and rarely get ill.
i also chew bubblegum often and i am quite sure i have chewed it after brushing my fangs.
i also get lettuce or stuff in my teeth and will use my fingernail discretely and remove whatever is bothering me quickly. no one is the wiser.

who wants to get up, leave the table and walk to the restroom when u can just quickly and discretely pick your tooth? most people won't notice or care.

you sound like a normal person, this guy is rude mannered to call you out on this stuff so soon after dating.
i bet he puts his elbows on the table when he eats.

[Anonymous]

PP here. Bottom line is, no matter who is right or wrong, this is really trivial stuff. So yes, you sound like an old married couple way too early. If he's constantly criticizing you, even DH he is technically "right", then you should end it.

You started abiyher thread recently about this guy and we unanimously told you to end it then, too, because in middle age he was living with a roommate who was antisocial so you couldn't go to his place, and because he was critical of you in other ways, too. Right?

So just end it!

[Anonymous]

^^**Even IF he is technically right

[Anonymous]

He is right on all three. And it certainly is weird to use sanitizer after washing your hands.

[Anonymous]

I agree he is correct in the examples you list. I don't really understand why you are dating each other when neither of you seem to be that into each other. Isn't this supposed to be the romantic/he or she is so great phase?

I am curious, though. Are you going to change any of your behavior knowing that the vast majority of posters agree that some of your behavior is questionable? So, are you going to stop picking your teeth and applying lip gloss at a restaurant table?