So ladies, would you date a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Big red flag.

[Anonymous]

Yes. As long as he did not have a problem with me not being a virgin, and was open to learning about sex and intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. As long as he did not have a problem with me not being a virgin, and was open to learning about sex and intimacy.

Agree with this. Just because someone lost his virginity at 16 and screwed 50 women doesn't make him a better lover.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. As long as he did not have a problem with me not being a virgin, and was open to learning about sex and intimacy.

Agree with this. Just because someone lost his virginity at 16 and screwed 50 women doesn't make him a better lover.

With most things in life, experience and practice does improve ability.

[Anonymous]

I did and married him 10 years ago.

[Anonymous]

Why do you ask?

[Anonymous]

The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

Just because he hasn't had intimacy, doesn't mean that he doesn't want it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

Just because he hasn't had intimacy, doesn't mean that he doesn't want it.

Then something must be wrong with him if he has been actively seeking it out and unable to get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

Just because he hasn't had intimacy, doesn't mean that he doesn't want it.

Then something must be wrong with him if he has been actively seeking it out and unable to get it.

There are people who simultaneously crave and fear intimacy. He might be an otherwise inoffensive person who has intimacy issues that he is struggling to overcome.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

Just because he hasn't had intimacy, doesn't mean that he doesn't want it.

Then something must be wrong with him if he has been actively seeking it out and unable to get it.

There are people who simultaneously crave and fear intimacy. He might be an otherwise inoffensive person who has intimacy issues that he is struggling to overcome.

I have intimacy issues too but I managed to lose my virginity. For goodness sake, not even getting a kiss... that is way beyond any kind of normal intimacy issues.

[Anonymous]

Well, no one's saying it isn't odd.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

Just because he hasn't had intimacy, doesn't mean that he doesn't want it.

Then something must be wrong with him if he has been actively seeking it out and unable to get it.

There are people who simultaneously crave and fear intimacy. He might be an otherwise inoffensive person who has intimacy issues that he is struggling to overcome.

I have intimacy issues too but I managed to lose my virginity. For goodness sake, not even getting a kiss... that is way beyond any kind of normal intimacy issues.[/quote

are you a woman or man posting?

a woman can go into a bar and get laid that night with zero effort.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The never been kissed part gives me great pause. This guy has had zero intimacy so my concern is walking into a sexless, platonic marriage down the road. I'd also wonder if he was gay. Most guys like this get married sooner.

Just because he hasn't had intimacy, doesn't mean that he doesn't want it.

Then something must be wrong with him if he has been actively seeking it out and unable to get it.

There are people who simultaneously crave and fear intimacy. He might be an otherwise inoffensive person who has intimacy issues that he is struggling to overcome.

I have intimacy issues too but I managed to lose my virginity. For goodness sake, not even getting a kiss... that is way beyond any kind of normal intimacy issues.[/quote

are you a woman or man posting?

a woman can go into a bar and get laid that night with zero effort.

I'm a man.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps...But for a man at that age to have never been kissed or had a girlfriend that in itself is hugely problematic.

There obviously are some huge personal issues at stake that go far deeper than just the physical.

I wouldn't want to deal with any of that.