Wow. There are soo many lonely women on the internet looking for love

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Well that's good. Better brush up on your intellectual prowess and quit sourcing People magazine. Despite your hypothesis, I doubt your looks alone are going to have those 20 year old hotties flocking to you even though "you are getting better with age". Whatever that means.

Many of my male friends in their late 30s and 40s have no problem with this. Their looks are average, but they're also well-spoken, confident, and just plain interesting people to talk to. If you think of the typical 20 year old guys that they compete with for the attention of a 20's hottie, it's no surprise they have success in getting her.

No, a 40-year old guy who is a slob and boring will have no such luck, but most of the non-married guys I know in that age range aren't like that. Maybe they take mroe care of themselves because they need to, being single.

Um, no. As a 25 year old I can tell you that most 40 year old dudes hitting on me and my friends totally gross us out, no matter what scenario you saw in a porn or Woody Allen film. Sorry to break it to you, but women care about looks just as much as men, and 40 year old men simply cannot compete with a 23 year old guy- there is no comparison in terms of body, face, all that. Not to mention the social stigma of your friends thinking you're a loser because you're willing to entertain the attention of some old creeper.

I am not the PP, but I can't understand how you are using your preference (and that of your small circle of friends) to generalize when there are so many examples out there everyday, not to mention the 'easy wins' from celebrity pop culture:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/boxing/article-2303228/Wladimir-Klitschko-pictured-girlfriend-Hayden-Panettiere-Florida-beach.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2753025/Eddie-Murphy-53-girlfriend-Paige-Butcher-35-two-happy-lovebirds-PDA-coffee-run.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2748883/Jason-Statham-steps-girlfriend-Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley-ex-Kelly-Brook-jokes-punching-him.html

http://uk.eonline.com/news/509014/marc-anthony-breaks-up-with-chloe-green

...and of course the many skirts that chased George Clooney. And if you think these unions don't last long:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2723990/Celine-Dion-puts-career-hold-care-ill-husband.html

Now, aside from the celebrity pop culture, I can tell you that as an early 30s single guy, I can't compete against men in their 40s for 20something girls; simply because these girls always go for the benefits of financial and emotional stability, especially if the guy is serious about them. Whether or not that applies to you is for you to decide, but in my 30 odd years of experience on this Earth, it is very normal for college and early career girls in their 20s to partner up with men in their 40s and above.

Are you sure you have much experience with dating, and with men in general?

You are talking about celebrities. And even in some of those examples (Celine Dion!) are grown women.

If Marc Anthony were a regular businessman there is NO WAY that Jennifer Lopez or Chloe Green would have breathed the same air as him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Take a man's age and divide by two

Dream on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Well that's good. Better brush up on your intellectual prowess and quit sourcing People magazine. Despite your hypothesis, I doubt your looks alone are going to have those 20 year old hotties flocking to you even though "you are getting better with age". Whatever that means.

Many of my male friends in their late 30s and 40s have no problem with this. Their looks are average, but they're also well-spoken, confident, and just plain interesting people to talk to. If you think of the typical 20 year old guys that they compete with for the attention of a 20's hottie, it's no surprise they have success in getting her.

No, a 40-year old guy who is a slob and boring will have no such luck, but most of the non-married guys I know in that age range aren't like that. Maybe they take mroe care of themselves because they need to, being single.

Um, no. As a 25 year old I can tell you that most 40 year old dudes hitting on me and my friends totally gross us out, no matter what scenario you saw in a porn or Woody Allen film. Sorry to break it to you, but women care about looks just as much as men, and 40 year old men simply cannot compete with a 23 year old guy- there is no comparison in terms of body, face, all that. Not to mention the social stigma of your friends thinking you're a loser because you're willing to entertain the attention of some old creeper.

I am not the PP, but I can't understand how you are using your preference (and that of your small circle of friends) to generalize when there are so many examples out there everyday, not to mention the 'easy wins' from celebrity pop culture:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/boxing/article-2303228/Wladimir-Klitschko-pictured-girlfriend-Hayden-Panettiere-Florida-beach.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2753025/Eddie-Murphy-53-girlfriend-Paige-Butcher-35-two-happy-lovebirds-PDA-coffee-run.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2748883/Jason-Statham-steps-girlfriend-Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley-ex-Kelly-Brook-jokes-punching-him.html

http://uk.eonline.com/news/509014/marc-anthony-breaks-up-with-chloe-green

...and of course the many skirts that chased George Clooney. And if you think these unions don't last long:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2723990/Celine-Dion-puts-career-hold-care-ill-husband.html

Now, aside from the celebrity pop culture, I can tell you that as an early 30s single guy, I can't compete against men in their 40s for 20something girls; simply because these girls always go for the benefits of financial and emotional stability, especially if the guy is serious about them. Whether or not that applies to you is for you to decide, but in my 30 odd years of experience on this Earth, it is very normal for college and early career girls in their 20s to partner up with men in their 40s and above.

Are you sure you have much experience with dating, and with men in general?

You are talking about celebrities. And even in some of those examples (Celine Dion!) are grown women.

If Marc Anthony were a regular businessman there is NO WAY that Jennifer Lopez or Chloe Green would have breathed the same air as him.

Exactly. This loser is delusional.

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Now in their 30s-40s, never a LTR, never married, and no kids?......WATCH OUT. Something is wrong with those ones.

100% agree. They're not just scum and rejects, they're essentially worthless. Watch out indeed.

That's not a nice way to look at people. I don't think I like you.

Why are you the only poster who's reacted with disgust to my post? According to the original poster, these are society's rejects. He felt it was important enough to write about it in the first place for a reason. Since you're the only poster who's posted critical remarks about my comments that simply agree with him, what does that tell you?

[Anonymous]

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Now in their 30s-40s, never a LTR, never married, and no kids?......WATCH OUT. Something is wrong with those ones.

100% agree. They're not just scum and rejects, they're essentially worthless. Watch out indeed.

That's not a nice way to look at people. I don't think I like you.

Why are you the only poster who's reacted with disgust to my post? According to the original poster, these are society's rejects. He felt it was important enough to write about it in the first place for a reason. Since you're the only poster who's posted critical remarks about my comments that simply agree with him, what does that tell you?

Because it's DCUM's famous misogyny troll and he hates for anyone to admit that a 40 year old single never married dude is generally a serious loser with issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Well that's good. Better brush up on your intellectual prowess and quit sourcing People magazine. Despite your hypothesis, I doubt your looks alone are going to have those 20 year old hotties flocking to you even though "you are getting better with age". Whatever that means.

Many of my male friends in their late 30s and 40s have no problem with this. Their looks are average, but they're also well-spoken, confident, and just plain interesting people to talk to. If you think of the typical 20 year old guys that they compete with for the attention of a 20's hottie, it's no surprise they have success in getting her.

No, a 40-year old guy who is a slob and boring will have no such luck, but most of the non-married guys I know in that age range aren't like that. Maybe they take mroe care of themselves because they need to, being single.

Um, no. As a 25 year old I can tell you that most 40 year old dudes hitting on me and my friends totally gross us out, no matter what scenario you saw in a porn or Woody Allen film. Sorry to break it to you, but women care about looks just as much as men, and 40 year old men simply cannot compete with a 23 year old guy- there is no comparison in terms of body, face, all that. Not to mention the social stigma of your friends thinking you're a loser because you're willing to entertain the attention of some old creeper.

I am not the PP, but I can't understand how you are using your preference (and that of your small circle of friends) to generalize when there are so many examples out there everyday, not to mention the 'easy wins' from celebrity pop culture:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/boxing/article-2303228/Wladimir-Klitschko-pictured-girlfriend-Hayden-Panettiere-Florida-beach.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2753025/Eddie-Murphy-53-girlfriend-Paige-Butcher-35-two-happy-lovebirds-PDA-coffee-run.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2748883/Jason-Statham-steps-girlfriend-Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley-ex-Kelly-Brook-jokes-punching-him.html

http://uk.eonline.com/news/509014/marc-anthony-breaks-up-with-chloe-green

...and of course the many skirts that chased George Clooney. And if you think these unions don't last long:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2723990/Celine-Dion-puts-career-hold-care-ill-husband.html

Now, aside from the celebrity pop culture, I can tell you that as an early 30s single guy, I can't compete against men in their 40s for 20something girls; simply because these girls always go for the benefits of financial and emotional stability, especially if the guy is serious about them. Whether or not that applies to you is for you to decide, but in my 30 odd years of experience on this Earth, it is very normal for college and early career girls in their 20s to partner up with men in their 40s and above.

Are you sure you have much experience with dating, and with men in general?

Um...yes? This is total bullshit. I am a 20 something, beautiful woman and there is no fucking way I'd hook up with anyone over 35. And neither would my friends. You live in fucking la la land. You know why? Because we all grow old. And I have enough experience to know that when I'm 40 and he's 53, we're not living in the same world. He's going to be old!!

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Anonymous wrote:A few factors at play. First, DC has more women than men, partly because there are a higher % of white-collar jobs here than in other US cities (no factories here). Women tend to fill those jobs since 65% of US college graduates are female.

Then there's the looks/age thing. Like it or not, women more than men are valued on their looks, and a woman's attractiveness goes down with age. Men seem to get better with age, which is why you'll find various rankings of 'sexiest man' and 'sexiest woman" picking 40 or 50-year old men, and 20-year old women.

Then, those 40-year old men go for the 20 year olds, because a 40+ women with 2 kids is just not as desirable.

No tears should be shed though -- 20 years ago, the 40 year old man was getting soundly rejected by women his age, and those same women (40 with 2 kids now) were flaunting their beauty to get their way, and had a line of suitors in waiting.

Ok misogyny troll. It's pretty obvious you started this thread and then waited to post this. As if anyone cares. (Spoiler alert: they dont, and you need to get a life.)

I'm 12:11 but not OP. I would like to read Dante though -- it's on my list.

Well that's good. Better brush up on your intellectual prowess and quit sourcing People magazine. Despite your hypothesis, I doubt your looks alone are going to have those 20 year old hotties flocking to you even though "you are getting better with age". Whatever that means.

x2. I am a 20 year old "hottie" and I certainly have no interest in talking to washed up old dudes with resentment issues to women their own age. It's creepy as hell.

I remember being a 20 something hottie. I went on so many dates with nice guys and rejected all of them because I had this "list" of what I found attractive. After I finished grad scoop and started working and hit my early 30s most of my friends got married and my social circle dried up a little. But became harder to meet single men and the ones I met were even further from my "perfect" criteria. Eventually I met DH but it was a long road. I'm still amazed at how shallow and judgemental I was in my 20s and how quickly my options diminished in my 30s.

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Anonymous wrote:A few factors at play. First, DC has more women than men, partly because there are a higher % of white-collar jobs here than in other US cities (no factories here). Women tend to fill those jobs since 65% of US college graduates are female.

Then there's the looks/age thing. Like it or not, women more than men are valued on their looks, and a woman's attractiveness goes down with age. Men seem to get better with age, which is why you'll find various rankings of 'sexiest man' and 'sexiest woman" picking 40 or 50-year old men, and 20-year old women.

Then, those 40-year old men go for the 20 year olds, because a 40+ women with 2 kids is just not as desirable.

No tears should be shed though -- 20 years ago, the 40 year old man was getting soundly rejected by women his age, and those same women (40 with 2 kids now) were flaunting their beauty to get their way, and had a line of suitors in waiting.

Ok misogyny troll. It's pretty obvious you started this thread and then waited to post this. As if anyone cares. (Spoiler alert: they dont, and you need to get a life.)

I'm 12:11 but not OP. I would like to read Dante though -- it's on my list.

Well that's good. Better brush up on your intellectual prowess and quit sourcing People magazine. Despite your hypothesis, I doubt your looks alone are going to have those 20 year old hotties flocking to you even though "you are getting better with age". Whatever that means.

x2. I am a 20 year old "hottie" and I certainly have no interest in talking to washed up old dudes with resentment issues to women their own age. It's creepy as hell.

I remember being a 20 something hottie. I went on so many dates with nice guys and rejected all of them because I had this "list" of what I found attractive. After I finished grad scoop and started working and hit my early 30s most of my friends got married and my social circle dried up a little. But became harder to meet single men and the ones I met were even further from my "perfect" criteria. Eventually I met DH but it was a long road. I'm still amazed at how shallow and judgemental I was in my 20s and how quickly my options diminished in my 30s.

Please. Okay misogyny troll. Why do you always pretend to be a woman when multiple people have called you out for gas lighting and pretending? It's so beyond pathetic. You must be a very lonely man.

[Anonymous]

I'm not a dude I swear! Lol I am a new pp. I am 38 and 8 mos pregnant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not a dude I swear! Lol I am a new pp. I am 38 and 8 mos pregnant.

Sureeee..... you talk exactly like the misogyny troll, who is coincidentally always on at this time of night. Sorry boo, you aint fooling anyone.

[Anonymous]

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Now in their 30s-40s, never a LTR, never married, and no kids?......WATCH OUT. Something is wrong with those ones.

100% agree. They're not just scum and rejects, they're essentially worthless. Watch out indeed.

That's not a nice way to look at people. I don't think I like you.

Why are you the only poster who's reacted with disgust to my post? According to the original poster, these are society's rejects. He felt it was important enough to write about it in the first place for a reason. Since you're the only poster who's posted critical remarks about my comments that simply agree with him, what does that tell you?

I reacted with disgust at your post because it was disgusting. As for why I was the only one to do so, I don't know. I suppose it wasn't worth anybody's time but mine to react, and that tells me I'm a loser.

Because it's DCUM's famous misogyny troll and he hates for anyone to admit that a 40 year old single never married dude is generally a serious loser with issues.

I'm not that guy, but I do hate for anyone to admit a 40 year old single never married dude is a serious loser with issues because, in my case anyways, as much as I'd hate for anyone to judge my self worth like that, it's true. I'd like to be married someday, but if that's how people see me, then I don't see how that's possible. Why the hostility, though? I never did anything to you.

[Anonymous]

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Now in their 30s-40s, never a LTR, never married, and no kids?......WATCH OUT. Something is wrong with those ones.

100% agree. They're not just scum and rejects, they're essentially worthless. Watch out indeed.

That's not a nice way to look at people. I don't think I like you.

Why are you the only poster who's reacted with disgust to my post? According to the original poster, these are society's rejects. He felt it was important enough to write about it in the first place for a reason. Since you're the only poster who's posted critical remarks about my comments that simply agree with him, what does that tell you?

I reacted with disgust at your post because it was disgusting. As for why I was the only one to do so, I don't know. I suppose it wasn't worth anybody's time but mine to react, and that tells me I'm a loser.

Because it's DCUM's famous misogyny troll and he hates for anyone to admit that a 40 year old single never married dude is generally a serious loser with issues.

I'm not that guy, but I do hate for anyone to admit a 40 year old single never married dude is a serious loser with issues because, in my case anyways, as much as I'd hate for anyone to judge my self worth like that, it's true. I'd like to be married someday, but if that's how people see me, then I don't see how that's possible. Why the hostility, though? I never did anything to you.

Oh gosh... how strange... a sequence of posts suddenly agreeing with the misogyny troll, and going against everyone else in this thread. And all coming in at the same time, which is the usual time of night when the misogyny troll is active. All these posts, all from different people, all with the same tone and message.

WHAT A WEIRD COINCIDENCE!!!

....Almost... just almost... makes you wonder if the same person is behind it? Maybe... oh I dont know... the misogyny troll?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not a dude I swear! Lol I am a new pp. I am 38 and 8 mos pregnant.

Sureeee..... you talk exactly like the misogyny troll, who is coincidentally always on at this time of night. Sorry boo, you aint fooling anyone.

You need to let it go lol. We are new pp's. I'm on here bc the only thing I can do in the evening is lie on my side with a bottle of Pepcid and my iPhone and my body pillow

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not a dude I swear! Lol I am a new pp. I am 38 and 8 mos pregnant.

Sureeee..... you talk exactly like the misogyny troll, who is coincidentally always on at this time of night. Sorry boo, you aint fooling anyone.

You need to let it go lol. We are new pp's. I'm on here bc the only thing I can do in the evening is lie on my side with a bottle of Pepcid and my iPhone and my body pillow

Ok, sorry, i dont believe you. It's pretty transparent, for all the reasons i stated above.

[Anonymous]

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Now in their 30s-40s, never a LTR, never married, and no kids?......WATCH OUT. Something is wrong with those ones.

100% agree. They're not just scum and rejects, they're essentially worthless. Watch out indeed.

That's not a nice way to look at people. I don't think I like you.

Why are you the only poster who's reacted with disgust to my post? According to the original poster, these are society's rejects. He felt it was important enough to write about it in the first place for a reason. Since you're the only poster who's posted critical remarks about my comments that simply agree with him, what does that tell you?

I reacted with disgust at your post because it was disgusting. As for why I was the only one to do so, I don't know. I suppose it wasn't worth anybody's time but mine to react, and that tells me I'm a loser.

Because it's DCUM's famous misogyny troll and he hates for anyone to admit that a 40 year old single never married dude is generally a serious loser with issues.

I'm not that guy, but I do hate for anyone to admit a 40 year old single never married dude is a serious loser with issues because, in my case anyways, as much as I'd hate for anyone to judge my self worth like that, it's true. I'd like to be married someday, but if that's how people see me, then I don't see how that's possible. Why the hostility, though? I never did anything to you.

Oh gosh... how strange... a sequence of posts suddenly agreeing with the misogyny troll, and going against everyone else in this thread. And all coming in at the same time, which is the usual time of night when the misogyny troll is active. All these posts, all from different people, all with the same tone and message.

WHAT A WEIRD COINCIDENCE!!!

....Almost... just almost... makes you wonder if the same person is behind it? Maybe... oh I dont know... the misogyny troll?

Uh, ok? Curious how what I posted is in agreement with a misogynist troll.