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Anonymous
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This thread has been hijacked off the rails, but oh well.
I started out married. In retrospect, I wish I'd skipped that step. Did you really expect to not get flack for the single mother comments? I triple dog dare you to ever say this to my face should we meet in person. You are really not the type of person I want my child around, but since this is an anonymous internet forum, and the world is full of all kinds of people, I'll just have to chance it that he may be someday. |
Anonymous
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What kind of a person would call a child someones bad descision. In a way every child is the result of the parents descision, but I would not go so far as to say a bad descision.
People do not live as if in a grocery store trying to decide if to pick good or bad descisions. You judgemental people are just dumb |
Anonymous
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Hey, I just tell you how I'm raising my kids. You are free to raise yours anyway you choose.
I doubt we would ever meet face to face. It is unlikely we run in the same social circles (not seen a lot of single moms by choice at the country club, I must say). Oh, and been out West? I lived in San Francisco for years! Got no problem with gay couples raising kids at all. |
Anonymous
| Well, now, mama, that depends on which country club, doesn't it? |
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| Not all marriages are good ones. I would rather my mom had raised me alone. Because of the marriage she stayed in, we have no relationship. My daughter doesn't know her. |
Anonymous
Ewww! Gross human alert! "Fifi.....these single mothers are defiling the club..." "I KNOW Muffy. We simply MUST start limiting access to the club by these riff raff and their unfortunate progeny!" |
Anonymous
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If this woman is financially well off, why is she babysitting?
What would Jesus do? |
Anonymous
Seriously. Financially well off and dressed in designer clothes! And she doesn't need the money. Why the hell is she babysitting? |
Anonymous
| According to the magnet on my fridge, "Jesus would slap the shit out of you." |
Anonymous
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OP here. To answer 17:35 she's a young professional, making extra cash in the evenings by babysitting. A lot of young women in DC do this, to save for vacations, etc.
Love single moms. My best friend is a single mom. Also love abortion and think she should get one and move on with her life, dating single men. But that's me. Flame away. |
Anonymous
You love abortion? I'm quite pro-choice and can understand counseling someone to consider abortion in order to preserve their own happiness but I've always meant it when I tell the pro-lifers I know that nobody is "pro" abortion, we're just pro-choice. If she wants the baby, that's her business, you should really just keep your concerns limited to why her boyfriend is hanging around with your kids and how you can put a stop to it. Her pregnancy doesn't have much to do with it. I was firmly sympathetic to you before you dropped the I love abortion bomb. Come on, we have to be a little bit more sensitive than that. Can you please rephrase? Otherwise, I'm going to figure that you're just trying to get a rise out of people. |
Anonymous
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OP, you need to tell this woman to get an abortion.
She cannot marry and divorce this wonderful married man. So tell her she is fired is she does not have an abortion. |
Anonymous
Definitely not. My babysitter goes out with her boyfriend after she's finished babysitting. |
Anonymous
| Absolutely not. I would not hire a male babysitter or allow any male to be in the house with my kids if I am not there. This is how sexual abuse happens. |
Anonymous
| OP, I think I heart you. |