She cheated and I'm devastated

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well she just left with the rest of her things. I've decided to let myself just hurt and cry and miss her. Tomorrow is a new day.

You would have started to heal sooner if you'd taken all her crap and given it to the thrift store before she came back.

maybe, maybe not... that could be what's known legally as "conversion" (of another's property) and could lead to small claims court, etc., so probably not a good idea (though tempting).

[Anonymous]

All you can do is next her. This is a great town to be a single man in. Mazel tov!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All you can do is next her. This is a great town to be a single man in. Mazel tov!

OP here, and actually, I'm a woman. I deliberately kept that from the OP to get honest feedback and not focusing on the type of relationship I was in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All you can do is next her. This is a great town to be a single man in. Mazel tov!

OP here, and actually, I'm a woman. I deliberately kept that from the OP to get honest feedback and not focusing on the type of relationship I was in.

Oh, that seems potentially relevant, and I am not sure about your dating prospects then. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

OP again. It's 123 in the morning and I the pain is all suffocating. I'm the only one here and yet I see her everywhere I look. It's so hard to even breathe.

[Anonymous]

Sorry OP. one day, you will be sorry you wasted your time and won't miss her one bit. It will just take time. You must get some sleep now. Tell yourself STOP, I will think about her at 8:00am, but I'm redirecting my thoughts tonite to my pillow, the park, or whatever.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry OP. That really sucks big time. Go get under the blankets and cry.

[Anonymous]

I think there is some realistic advice here, Your girlfriend had some unfinished business with her ex, who probably ironically isn't the guy she will end up with after you dump her. There was a reason she was feeling disconnected from you and checked out and did this- and sadly this is the kind of coping mechanism that is hard to break. I am not optimistic that you can repair this. I am sorry OP.

[Anonymous]

You are not the only person who has been cheated on.It's hard, very hard.My husband had a baby with his "friend" and told me that it's none of my business.
Please, move on, she is not worth it.
Be glad you are not married.No offense, but she seems very immature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are not the only person who has been cheated on.It's hard, very hard.My husband had a baby with his "friend" and told me that it's none of my business.
Please, move on, she is not worth it.
Be glad you are not married.No offense, but she seems very immature.

I know I'm not. And I won't be the last person cheated on, but right now, this is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. I'm feeling very much alone, and fragile and unable to cope.
And pp, your husband is a douchebag

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are not the only person who has been cheated on.It's hard, very hard.My husband had a baby with his "friend" and told me that it's none of my business.
Please, move on, she is not worth it.
Be glad you are not married.No offense, but she seems very immature.

I know I'm not. And I won't be the last person cheated on, but right now, this is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. I'm feeling very much alone, and fragile and unable to cope.
And pp, your husband is a douchebag

OP, you're doing better than you realize. You were decisive when you needed to be, and you made the right decision. It's going to be hard, but you'll get through this, and you'll be fine. I'm sorry you're feeling so unhappy now, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. It's 123 in the morning and I the pain is all suffocating. I'm the only one here and yet I see her everywhere I look. It's so hard to even breathe.

OP, may good things come your way. If you are a loving person, love will find you.

[Anonymous]

OP, you need some dick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you need some dick.

Lol. I needed that laugh. Thanks pp.
And no way

[Anonymous]

OP doesn't need did - she just got dicked over and doesn't like it!

OP, I'm really sorry you're hurting now. You've done really well in taking decisive action. Although she denies it, your ex has already been carrying on a sexual affair. You're better off without her and while you may still love her, love is not enough.