To be honest, it might not be sex so much as a relationship issue. If my dh has annoyed me earlier that day, I have no interest in being physically intimate - because my emotions are intertwined with what's going on physically. If I could keep my emotions out of it, that would be a different thing altogether. |
Definitely a relationship issue. She wants sex. Just not with OP. He'd probably have better luck with her if he were a stranger. |
I wonder if she gets off when you have sex. In my early 20s, I remember staying with a boyfriend who didn't please me but I'd lied for so long about being satisfied and didn't want to hurt his feelings. The first time I orgasmed was via a vibrator and I got hooked for awhile and I would go through the motions with him.
Op, are you sure she climaxes vs pretending? |
Is English your second language OP? |
You don't get her off or fulfill her sexual needs. She probably likes some kinky shit that she is terrified to tell you about. Give her a year and she will be emotionally detached and not wanting any sex from you. Her vibrator will then be replaced by another mans dick. You will find out and get a divorce. She will take all your money. Next post! |
But all the other wives say he's great! And he has six-pack abs! |
Emotional disconnect is my guess. Don't focus on the sex. Focus on the intimacy, the sex will come. |
getting a Bill Shatner vibe here lols! |
does using your brain come to you like a 4th language? Yes English is my first language. I see neither the relevancy or logic in asking this. Explain yourself. Please. You piqued my interest but do it in another forum. Preferably in Sanskrit so I cant read it. |
Yes I'll focus on that. In love her to pieces and ill do almost anything for her. I just want things yo be as they were. |
PP may be asking because of your grammatical errors. ![]() |
Seems more like OP comes from a blue collar background. |
Quite right and very insightful. Found a left open tab that wasn't meant to be open...shall I divulge? I risk exposing that I am posting as she reads this. Enough requests and I will. |
Your wife has probably outgrown you, you seem to be very shallow. Impossible for things to be as they were. Good luck. ![]() |
Yes but me thinks that my contextual syntax is clearly that of a native English speaker. I am the OP.. This isnt an English paper. God.... |