Am I being a "martyr"?

[Anonymous]

Im 99% sure this is the troll jeff has been considering blocking.

[Anonymous]

I have five siblings as well and helped out frequently, as I should being the second oldest. You seem to be making it harder on your dd though. Give her a break.

[Anonymous]

Where the heck is your husband in all this?!

Hope your angel of a DD learned her lesson -- next time don't dress or feed them! Then they can stay home with her, more toys, space to play, and sanity.

[Anonymous]

Also, I am not trying to start a "parents with spines" debate. I was just making a statement. And no the kids are pretty much well behaved, my DD is able to keep them in line pretty well (even one of the twins who is on the Spectrum)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I just took them all because she had already dressed them and had them fed. Also, during the doctors appointment she took them to the park downstairs and about a mile away. The kids are 2 mos, 19 mos (one at the appt), 3 yr old twins, and a 6 yr old. And she had a few toys that she packed to bring, I thought they would be okay in the waiting room.

1. So no good reason whatsoever.

2. Earlier you said, "She was being pissy because she had to entertain the 4 (that were not being seen by the Dr) in the waiting room for 2 hours." No mention of the park a mile away.

I think this must be a troll post, and I don't usually call troll. In part because of the changing story and in part because six kids, and in part because "I thought they would be okay in the waiting room." Anyone who has ever been in a pediatrician's waiting room in their lifetime would realize that five -- FIVE -- kids under 6 years old in a single waiting room is a problem, even if they each had their own set of parents. Bringing that many with two caregivers is a nightmare waiting to happen, particularly where one person will have to take care of four of them.

Put it this way, OP is either lying or too stupid to bother talking to.

[Anonymous]

You people are so stupid to fall for this prank.

[Anonymous]

Definitely poor planning to take four kids to sit around a doctor's office for an extended period when you have a caregiver who could take care of them at home. It sounds like you were both stressed, and may have spoken too sharply to each other. I would let the specific remarks go, but set some time aside when you can have a calm conversation and figure out how to make things less stressful for everyone. I don't think it's fair to give your oldest daughter a large amount of responsibility, without giving her a certain amount of authority-like the authority to decide she would rather care for the kids at home rather than in the drs office.

[Anonymous]

Op again, I was not aware of them going to the playground until after her little meltdown calling me a martyr, one of the kids said "mommy we went to the swings"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, she's not a step child, why? She loves the kids and they love her! The kids are her half brothers and sisters though as they do not have the same dad and I am a single mom.

I just need support sometimes and I do not appreciate the attitude DD gives me sometimes about her responsibilities in this household.

Case and point, the other day DD wanted to go to the mall with a friend. I told her yes but she had to take the 2 DCs with her (2mos and 19 mos). She pitched a fit yelling at me about how she's "entitled" to free time without the kids. I told her she was being disrespectful and I wouldn't stand for it. She actually said "entitled"! Long story short, she ended up taking the kids with her and having a nice day with them at the mall. Like I have stated before, she is being a self centered brat, but I guess that is to be expected from a teenager.

I can't imagine why you're single. You seem so charming.

[Anonymous]

Wait wait.... The kids are 2 mos, 19 mos (one at the appt), 3 yr old twins, and a 6 yr old.

AND YOU'RE A SINGLE MOM?!?!?!?!

Learn.to.use.a.condom.

[Anonymous]

, she is being a self centered brat, but I guess that is to be expected from a teenager.

you are in the wrong. you are not grateful for what she does for you. she is entitled to some free time after all of the help she provides you. She's going to grow up and leave you on your own very soon. you will miss her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where the heck is your husband in all this?!

Hope your angel of a DD learned her lesson -- next time don't dress or feed them! Then they can stay home with her, more toys, space to play, and sanity.

already stated, single mom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, she's not a step child, why? She loves the kids and they love her! The kids are her half brothers and sisters though as they do not have the same dad and I am a single mom.

I just need support sometimes and I do not appreciate the attitude DD gives me sometimes about her responsibilities in this household.

Case and point, the other day DD wanted to go to the mall with a friend. I told her yes but she had to take the 2 DCs with her (2mos and 19 mos). She pitched a fit yelling at me about how she's "entitled" to free time without the kids. I told her she was being disrespectful and I wouldn't stand for it. She actually said "entitled"! Long story short, she ended up taking the kids with her and having a nice day with them at the mall. Like I have stated before, she is being a self centered brat, but I guess that is to be expected from a teenager.

LOL. Nice try troll.

[Anonymous]

Such a fucking troll. The updates about the DD having to take the babies to the mall and one being on the Spectrum proves it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I just need support sometimes and I do not appreciate the attitude DD gives me sometimes about her responsibilities in this household.

She pointed out that you made a bad choice in bringing everyone to the appointment. Can you admit that she was right about that?

Case and point, the other day DD wanted to go to the mall with a friend. I told her yes but she had to take the 2 DCs with her (2mos and 19 mos). She pitched a fit yelling at me about how she's "entitled" to free time without the kids. I told her she was being disrespectful and I wouldn't stand for it. She actually said "entitled"! Long story short, she ended up taking the kids with her and having a nice day with them at the mall. Like I have stated before, she is being a self centered brat, but I guess that is to be expected from a teenager.

She IS entitled to free time without the kids. Are you disputing that? You chose to have four more kids and decided that the firstborn is obligated to serve as a poorly paid nanny.

Seriously, this has got to be a fake post. That, or someone so dense she should be on reality TV.