Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have friends with kids in the same grade as my child who are invariably particular about what their kids eat. I'm particular about what my child eats too. So one friend may be adamant about no apple juice, another about crackers or bread, and of course everyone wants to limit sugar. I understand - I strive for healthy eating for everyone in the family.
My DC comes home and tells me about how all the kids at school - including the kids with the carefully packed lunches - are trading food all the time at lunch. All the time. So "no apple juice" mom might let her kid have a cookie, and "no crackers" mom might let her kid have a juice box, and then there are the moms who let their kids buy lunch and the kids are getting cinnamon rolls only. And they are all swapping and sharing and having a good time.
You can control the food that you feed in your home, and you can model good behavior, and you can create your own healthy habits (we're a no fast food family and the happy result is that my kid has no idea what the golden arches mean...yet). You can't ensure that they never ever have apple juice or whatever your brand of poison is.
I call BS what school still allows kids to trade food? I do cafeteria duty twice a month and there are def kids who eat their lunches-mine included-I know bc they bring back empty containers and they refuse to buy. We raised our kids on healthy food-we don't do juice, fast food, etc my kids prefer water but will drink milk with breakfast and dinner. My kids will eat almost any cuisine and are not picky eaters-never were. They range in age from 3-8. I know it is easy to believe that all kids like crap but they will eat what they are raised on and what their family eats. The kids who get those nasty lunchables and uncrustables throw those things out-after they eat the candy and juice first. I bet that had we given our kids juice, and processed whatever from the start they would love them today. I love the looks on peoples' faces when my kids refuse juice, pizza, fast food etc. Even rice crispie treats. Food should taste good.