Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive

[Anonymous]

Who asked is it ok to ghost someone…

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.

I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.

He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.

Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.

He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.

[Anonymous]

A 43 year old man who knows you're about to turn 31 tells you he finds women younger than you most attractive and you think you should keep sleeping with this insulting loser?

[Anonymous]

They watch porn. How is this a surprise to you, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.

I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.

He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.

Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.

He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.

What exactly are you doing with this jackass? Your low self-esteem is jumping off the page and I promise he can see it too. That's why he's testing you with obvious insults to see what he can get away with. You have work to do on your self-worth and you're never going to get that promised land of emotional security with this predator putting you down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They watch porn. How is this a surprise to you, OP?

Men peak in college and their attractiveness falls off precipitously after that.

They bald, they get pregnant bellies without gestating anything except excess food, they wrinkle and crease, their penises lose hardness, and their personalities become bitter and nasty as their testosterone plummets. Sometimes I look at DH's college photos and I can hardly believe he was ever so attractive.

Anyone with eyes knows a college hunk craps on a 30+ man looks-wise. No need to watch porn.

HOWEVER, only an a--hole would say this to an older man.

It's about judgment, which you clearly lack, since you don't seem to get the importance of judgment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.

I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.

He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.

Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.

He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.

Well you sound as pathetic as him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.

I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.

He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.

Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.

He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.

Honestly this whole thing sounds quite toxic. You’re telling him about your adventures, threesomes, hot coworkers. Then you asked him a question you knew you wouldn’t like the answer too.

It sounds like you’re in some weird competition to prove who cares the least what the other is doing and who is out having the most fun. It reeks of insecurity.

He has probably slept with other women besides you but was trying to be polite. Then you started talking about how hot your coworkers are, which is hurtful to the person you’re sleeping with, FWB or not. So he one upped you.

Also, never ask men questions you don’t want to know the answer to. I don’t ask the men I’m dating if they think so-and-so is hot or has a great booty or whatever, because I don’t want to know the answer and I’m not gonna play the stupid game where we have to lie to make other people feel good about themselves.

BTW he could just as easily have posted “my FWB told me about a threesome to hurt my feelings because she thinks I’m not as good in bed as those people” or whatever. Stop it and grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He should be grateful you're even spending time with him. Move on.

Agree

[Anonymous]

You are an easy and convenient booty call for him.

He will find a hot 18-30 yr old for a serious relationship one day or continue banging them and you as he pleases.

[Anonymous]

I would cut that off so fast. Gross.

[Anonymous]

When he was 47 years-old, Pierre Trudeau began courting his 18 year-old future wife, and they eventually stayed married for almost 10 years!

Nothing wrong with dating a 18 year-old. They are adults

[Anonymous]

I guess OP has never heard of Leonardo DiCaprio.

[Anonymous]

Why are you mad he answered your question honestly?

Move on Ma’am.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.

I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.

He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.

Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.

He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.

If you are out of his league, why are you sleeping with him? Find your league.