Sex on important dates

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anniversaries, birthdays, Christmas. Does this happen in your relationship or you don’t worry about it?

That is silly to put additional pressure on events like that.

Sex should be spontanious not planned.

Female here. I’d be PISSED to not get sex on such important dates. I’m dressed up, looking nice, feeling festive, and … nothing?? The spontaneity can be which positions. lol.

I actually have a close friend who marks sex on her calendar. It lets her get herself feeling sexy and hot. She likes it planned. Wouldn’t work for me, but it does for her marriage.

Ick!
Women dress up for each other, not for the male gays.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

You sound exhausting. No man should have to put in that work just to have sex. I'd go get it elsewhere for a hell of a lot less effort.

Hmmm, mine does things like this regularly but it’s not with the expectation of sex. He just likes doing nice things for me. But we have a good sex life (2-4 times a week), it’s just not attached to any particular “do this so I’ll be in the mood”. If he stopped doing nice things for me, I’m sure I’d lose some interest in sex.

And what nice things do you do for him to increase his interest in sex?

[Anonymous]

I have always found this super weird and makes me think that a couple must not be having regular sex if it’s important to have it on holidays etc…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Jesus, I am glad I'm not married to you. My wonderful DW does not make me jump through hoops just to [maybe] have sex.

fixed it. she sounds awful

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Have you ever tried just like…f—king?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

My wife would absolutely fall asleep every time this happened. It's not that she doesn't get a lot of sleep generally. She gets a solid 9 hours a night. But she loves sleeping and falls asleep quickly. (As a troubled sleeper myself, I'm honestly jealous.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Have you ever tried just like…f—king?

First, Mercury has to be in retrograde on a moonless night with wind out of the south-southwest at no more than 10 mph but no less than 5 mph. He dabs a cologne of unicorn tears on his neck below stubble on his face with 2.35 days of growth. Assuming an appropriate humidity level and no digestive issues, he's in!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Have you ever tried just like…f—king?

First, Mercury has to be in retrograde on a moonless night with wind out of the south-southwest at no more than 10 mph but no less than 5 mph. He dabs a cologne of unicorn tears on his neck below stubble on his face with 2.35 days of growth. Assuming an appropriate humidity level and no digestive issues, he's in!

Lol

[Anonymous]

We have plenty of sex so I don’t think about a holiday though our anniversary may be the exception. That might be the one night of the year I have a second glass of wine and sex is then definitely in the cards.

[Anonymous]

DW gets wood every Arbor Day!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

You sound exhausting. No man should have to put in that work just to have sex. I'd go get it elsewhere for a hell of a lot less effort.

I'm a woman and I completely agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Wow, this is ultra maintenance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. Lo He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Wtf!! You crash knowing he wants to have sex? I hope he finds a lover that really satisfies him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

Jesus, I am glad I'm not married to you. My wonderful DW does not make me jump through hoops just to have sex.

I'm a DW and I wouldn't want to go through that whole routine just for sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH has long figured out the key to sex is to not make it an expectation. His “game” is to run me a hot bath. He will usually put in epson salts and top it off with bubbles. He makes sure my AirPods are charged. He then brings me a bottle of water and a glass of wine. He turns out the lights in the bathroom and walks away.

When I’m done he has changed the sheets on the bed. I climb into crisp cool sheets. He puts on one of my favorite shows and invites me to snuggle up to him. Sometimes I just crash but usually cuddling leads to kissing which leads to his end game.

You sound exhausting. No man should have to put in that work just to have sex. I'd go get it elsewhere for a hell of a lot less effort.

That's great that you'll have sex with a man who won't even bother to run you a bath, PP.