How quick into dating did you sleep with DH / DW?

[Anonymous]

3 or 4 hours after meeting him. Unlike the previous couple hours poster, I was definitely not sober.
We’ll be celebrating 25 years next summer with six kids. Still hot for him.

[Anonymous]

3rd date, week 2. Amazing chemistry, making resistance futile. Age 29 and 33.

[Anonymous]

I am the DW. It was around a month/fourth date or so. I was 25 and a virgin. Been married 12 years now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3rd date, week 2. Amazing chemistry, making resistance futile. Age 29 and 33.

Adding that my previous relationship also moved quickly like this while anyone I “waited” for longer never progressed because there wasn’t enough chemistry to propel us to next step. Not always the case for some.

[Anonymous]

3 weeks. We are both 54. Met on a dating app and it really clicked. Intense chemistry from the start. We both waited for STD test results to come back before any intimacy. We did kiss and make out before having sex though. It's been almost two years and we are still a couple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All I can think of all the 'oh, we waited 4 months' people is either:
- they have zero sex drive
- were unsure of the relationship
- or they are closeted.

LOL. 3 years. We slept together on our wedding night. We were in a conservative country and conservative society. Lots of external uncertainties in our relationship. Met at 22, married at 25. I was very clear that I wanted to only sleep with my husband, not my sweetheart. I wanted a family, kids, a certain lifestyle, career, education, social standing. And I was not going to jeopardize that.

Very sexually compatible marriage and we both like sex. We are in our 60s now. I am amazed to read of all the dead bedrooms and marriages in US because easy access to your sexual partner is the. great benefit of being married.

[Anonymous]

18/19 and we'd been together about two months.

[Anonymous]

Second time I saw him, day after we met. Married 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is most amusing is that surely, it was the only and first time these women had slept with anyone so soon.
Lol

That poor first boyfriend. He has to whine and whine for so long...

LOL. It's probably the last boyfriend that's doing the whining.

[Anonymous]

We knew each other for 3 years but dating other people at the time. It was as a slow transition from rent-a-date scenario to being an actual couple… so we are in the 4-5 months timeframe.

[Anonymous]

I still haven’t. Was I supposed to?

[Anonymous]

Too soon. 6 weeks. Age 29. Divorced at 42.
It was the quickest I ever slept with someone. Huge mistake.

[Anonymous]

Night after our first kiss at age 21 in college. Married 23 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All I can think of all the 'oh, we waited 4 months' people is either:
- they have zero sex drive
- were unsure of the relationship
- or they are closeted.

LOL. 3 years. We slept together on our wedding night. We were in a conservative country and conservative society. Lots of external uncertainties in our relationship. Met at 22, married at 25. I was very clear that I wanted to only sleep with my husband, not my sweetheart. I wanted a family, kids, a certain lifestyle, career, education, social standing. And I was not going to jeopardize that.

Very sexually compatible marriage and we both like sex. We are in our 60s now. I am amazed to read of all the dead bedrooms and marriages in US because easy access to your sexual partner is the. great benefit of being married.

My 10-year (age 32-42) marriage was completely sexless for 7 out of 10 years. And it was awful. You are lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All I can think of all the 'oh, we waited 4 months' people is either:
- they have zero sex drive
- were unsure of the relationship
- or they are closeted.

LOL. 3 years. We slept together on our wedding night. We were in a conservative country and conservative society. Lots of external uncertainties in our relationship. Met at 22, married at 25. I was very clear that I wanted to only sleep with my husband, not my sweetheart. I wanted a family, kids, a certain lifestyle, career, education, social standing. And I was not going to jeopardize that.

Very sexually compatible marriage and we both like sex. We are in our 60s now. I am amazed to read of all the dead bedrooms and marriages in US because easy access to your sexual partner is the. great benefit of being married.

Woman here and agree with you, too! Sex is so easily available in the US. People date, show around for partners. They sleep fast. Then ....end up in a dead bedroom marriage in 15 years. What was all this dating for, then?