How quick into dating did you sleep with DH / DW?

[Anonymous]

We had been good friends for a few years but we were dating other people and then we weren't. We were having lunch together one day (not a date) and I started flirting with him. We slept together that night though there wasn't a lot of sleep. It was so out of character for me as I had always been a bit of a prude but I'm glad I did. So technically we had sex before we had an official date! That's a story I have not told my adult children.

[Anonymous]

A year +

[Anonymous]

3 months. We were 20 and in college. Been together ever since. Now 45.

[Anonymous]

About 6-8 months. We were both 24 but we were both virgins. We've been married 21 years.

[Anonymous]

2-3 years, depending on how you define dating. Mid 20s. We're take-it-slow kinda people.

[Anonymous]

Second date. She was 29, I was 28. Married 23 years in June.

[Anonymous]

3 week club

[Anonymous]

I think it was the sixth date? Prob about 2 months. That was... almost 10 years ago, we're very happy.

And just to counter the other "I'd never done that before" that was about my general standard. Which means I didn't sleep with a ton of guys, you don't get to six dates in your late 20s unless you're pretty compatible and on track for a real relationship. We were 29/31.

[Anonymous]

It was about two months and I don't how many dates. Unlike other guys he didn't put any pressure on me after our first few dates and that really increased my interest in him. He was and still is a real gentleman.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn’t be having sex if you’re not married. Please repent

[Anonymous]

It was 3 months for us. I was 27 and he was 29. It was a slow burn for me and I didn't know how I felt about him for the first couple of dates. In the past, physical intimacy made me overlook other more important parts of a relationship and I wanted to be more level-headed.

Married 21 years and counting.

[Anonymous]

First date, but we already knew each other for a year. He was 27 and I was 29. Thirty years later he still brings it up as a aignificant moment in his life - LOL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You shouldn’t be having sex if you’re not married. Please repent

Hey, you're back. Crazy as ever, I see.

[Anonymous]

3 months, 28/31, married 16 years now.

[Anonymous]

All I can think of all the 'oh, we waited 4 months' people is either:
- they have zero sex drive
- were unsure of the relationship
- or they are closeted.