You are googling the wrong thing. The claim was that prep invalidates the score. The only thing remotely close to that claim is this sentence from https://www.heliosschool.org/admissions/assessments#:~:text=After%20the%20test%2C%20praise%20their,engagement%20in%20the%20testing%20session. “Therefore, exposing your student to test content would invalidate the test results and make them ineligible to retest for at least a year.” Please note: it talks about exposing the child to test content. Knowing the questions beforehand is clearly cheating. I don’t know where you’d find the actual questions, but we regular folk don’t have access to actual questions. |
Prepping invalidates accuracy of scoring. You know this or you wouldn’t prep your kid to artificially inflate their score in order to get them into a program they don’t qualify for/need. You’re defensive because you cheated. |
You’re just sour because your kid didn’t make the cutoff. |
Regardless of the ethics of it all, I've come up with 2 main points.
1) You're doing your child a disservice by letting them walk in blind, since many of their peers will have had some "prep" 2a) There are varying degrees of "prep", but "most" parents here agree that a quick review of the test format is beneficial. 2b) (controversial/anecdotal) Coincidentally, this level of "prep" is universally the most beneficial way to increase score up front, while more intense preparation will only marginally increase the score. (as an aside - I have no qualms with prepping at any level. I do see it as a socio-economic advantage, but those also exist in many other areas) |
My personal "prepping" experience (NNAT and CoGAT) showed that out of 100 practice questions, 90 are pretty obvious; 2-3 are incomprehensible or unreasonable, I would tell my kid, "okay, whatever"; and 5-6 may warrant some discussion.
It's not really the magic bullet as some of you imagined. If you don't believe me, do it. |
My child went through the AAP program and graduated from TJ. Never prepped for CogAT or the TJ test.
We could tell the kids who had prepped extensively to get into AAP/TJ. These were the kids who had to work extra hard to keep up, had to have tutors after school and “enrichment” in the summer. The kids who were up till 2 am doing homework. The kids who couldn’t participate in any non-academic extracurriculars because they were afraid of falling behind if they did something just for fun. Kids need lots of different kinds of experiences to become good and mature adults eventually. They do best when they are at the right level in school so they can engage in arts, music, sports, theatre, dance, as well as academics. Pushing them to be in programs above their level actually ends up stunting their growth and development in the long run. |
+1 to all of this. |
This is how I'm interpreting your statements: In AAP, they're challenged and pushed. In General Education, they would be top of class and coast by while being ignored by the teacher focusing on underperformers. I know which scenario works better for my child and which one 95% of parents would prefer. This is essentially a glowing recommendation to prep. I'd also point out that no amount of prepping will get a child who truly can't keep up in the class. We're largely talking about the grey area children who are above grade level and indistinguishable from the higher performers in general ed. If Prepping gives them a slight leg up over an equally qualified (maybe even slightly higher qualified) child - I'd do my parental duty to selfishly help my child succeed and feel zero regrets. Fairfax County created this problem/situation where they pull out any relevant peers making gen ed so undesirable, so I will equally play the game to ensure our own success. |
If that’s how you interpret the above post, then you need to go back and read more carefully. It is certainly not “success” to put a child in an academic situation where they need to constantly be engaged in academics, and nothing but academics, simply to keep up with the class. Kids who don’t have time for non-academic activities are missing out on a lot of important experiences. A parent who focuses their child on academics at the expense of all else is missing out on the long view of what the true goal of parenting is. My kids are out of college now and I see the results of various kinds of parenting. The methods you describe in your post above tend to not end well for the kids involved. The kids who are successful now as adults are the ones who were in a level at school where they had time to engage in a variety of activities outside the school day that provided depth of learning in non-academic areas. |
+1 |
I looked through the practice tests and then did a little practice with my kid so he understood the concepts. Nothing extensive. My kid can sometimes shut down when he gets anxious so showing him what to expect would just combat that. |
Your IQ, like your sex, is immutable. |
I think it’s really terrible and certainly unethical for parents to be prepping small children for any elementary school test. Terrible! |
Who are just as stupid as you assume your kids are. |
Here we go again.
Do you want your brain surgeon to be THAT person who attended cram after-school programs and studied day and night? Or do you want your brain surgeon to be THAT brilliant individual who grasped concepts easily and did not need to cram and study and struggle to grasp what they needed to learn? I know who I would want. I have no respect for these types of questions. |