Why do people marry unattractive people?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy and have completely different preference than my guy friends. They like the thin blond yoga type. I prefer a woman with small “pooch” and slightly saggy boobs. They like laid back and casual, I like high maintenance/snotty.

Everyone likes something different.

My saggy boobed, small pooched body appreciates you!

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Likewise

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s probably a lot you don’t get.

+2

[Anonymous]

It’s called compatibility and a person on the inside can be more attractive as you know them like smarts and humor and compassion - are you really that shallow?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Assume great wealth is not involved. I just don’t get it.

Me either. I've seen so many thin, somewhat fit men with seriously obese wives.

Probably those wives were thin and pretty before they had to carry, birth and raise his kids and juggle stress of work and house and parenting for sake of the family. May be there is no time, stamina and money left to join gym and go to spa.

[Anonymous]

These responses are 🔥

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Assume great wealth is not involved. I just don’t get it.

Are you still single or were you dumped?

I see why ……

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Assume great wealth is not involved. I just don’t get it.

Me either. I've seen so many thin, somewhat fit men with seriously obese wives.

To me, obese old men with younger hot wives seems to be more common. Men tend to buy sex and affection more often than women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know 2 attractive people who married what most would consider to be unattractive people. 1 prefers bigger women so that was a plus to him, and she's one of the funniest and kindest people I know so that helps. The other has a great personality and is just one of those happy people.

Both their marriages are quite happy.

They are very lucky they found compatible spouses. Good for them for not judging by looks.

[Anonymous]

Everyone likes different things OP. I like stocky guys and fortunately my dh likes larger women.

[Anonymous]

People marry for many reasons but generally they stay in their own lane.

[Anonymous]

I’ve dated guys my friends don’t think were hot. Sometimes it’s confidence/attitude or intellect or any other combo of other attractive qualities.

And as much as dcum obsesses over women’s looks I know a couple guys who married less physically attractive women. One who was great at a shared interest (rock climbing) and one who just has an extremely kind and sweet overall vibe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s probably a lot you don’t get.

+1000

[Anonymous]

When I was dating, I didn’t worry too much about looks, but I was VERY picky about good character. I ended up with a very kind husband, which was the goal.

[Anonymous]

But remember that “unattractive” is very subjective in nature, right?

What you may find unattractive, another may find smoking hot. 🔥

Funny this topic came up, my sister was saying tonight how she doesn’t see what all the beautiful women see in the celebrity Pete Davidson. She thinks he is ugly and annoyingly untalented/unfunny.
I happen to think he is very adorable.

See?

[Anonymous]

Beauty shines from the inside-

Outside is temporary, however, keep yourself decent and not slovenly.