DP. Do you help your child pack for college or leave them to pack and move in on their own? Most parents help their kids with a checklist of countless things they might need. Why wouldn’t you make sure your daughter has condoms? It’s really no different from medicine or groceries. Yes your kid can shop for those things but most parents leave their kid with supplies at drop off. It sounds like you are uncomfortable that she will be having sex in college. DP |
Don't be lame. |
+1 what is a dental dam? |
It’s for oral sex - how do you not know this?? |
| The conversation might include something about how having sex with randoms during orientation week is a surefire way to get a reputation before the year even starts. Not slut shaming but seriously, I had a lot of sex in college but was not randomly sleeping with guys at orientation and needing multiple packs of condoms. |
+1 I learned about them along with condoms in sex ed at NCS in the early 90s. |
There are some pretty bad side effects coming out from plan b. Condoms, pay attention to your burth control, and have enough self respect not to do random hook ups, especially while drunk. Keep your power by not being a dummy. |
Are you slut shaming? |
DP here. Um, I am. SOrry, but it is just not a good look for any 17-18 yr old female or male to hook up with complete strangers. It is not a good way to start the school year. How can anyone be okay with their kids doing this? THat's just gross and don't be shocked if the other kids think the same way. |
You’re kidding yourself if you think this isn’t happening and it’s not just the kids that were having sex in high school. It’s not up to you decide what is or isn’t a good look for someone 18 and older. Grow up. |
You grow up. Regardless of where this happens, in high school, college. It is NOT a good look and people WILL judge. Let's not pretend that when your freshman decides to have sex with a boy or decides to hook up with a bunch of randoms at a party that the other kids aren't talking or calling her names. Same thing with boys. And worse, their reputation will be tainted and no one who knows what happened is going to want to date them. Whether you like it or not, this is reality. |
It's for if you don't want to be able to feel anything during oral sex. And what's the point? No one's getting pregnant from "dining at the Y". |
This isn’t true at all. You sound like an old fashioned, judgmental prude. Are you jealous kids these days are free to enjoy casual sex or something? You might need therapy. |
Sounds like somebody is bothered by what her kid is probably doing in college. It’s okay, really, as long as you packed condoms. |
| Only if you picked orgy as an optional activity. |