Why only women have relationship complaints?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They do, but it's pretty much all about sex, or lack thereof. They don't really care if the house is dirty; the kids don't go to good camps; dr's appointments for kids not scheduled... As long as they get regular sex, doesn't even have to be great sex, they have zero complaints.

Plus, this board is mainly women.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men just want a nice, kind, nurturing, caring, loyal, compassionate woman to come home to. If they get that in one woman, they'll never leave you.

This is all anyone wants.

I think most of the complaints women make about housework or finances are because they feel that their husbands are being unkind and uncaring, just watching their wives work themselves to the ground.

How can you claim to love someone and then not offer to do the dishes when they are exhausted?

[Anonymous]

Exactly. How many men are nice, kind, nuturing, caring, loyal, and compassionate? Why are men so fixated these days on the negatives of women? What are they bringing to the table?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women have more demands. Look in the relationship forum. THehy need men to have a certain earning level, educational achievement, height, wealth, and so on. The slightest shortcoming and people on here will advise the woman to move on.

Men just have fewer demands and requirements, which also means there's less to complain about.

People on here are weird. There are multiple threads where a guy is thinking of leaving his pregnant wife because she bought expensive nursery furniture or breaking up with his girlfriend who because she leaves hair in the shower or spends too much on shampoo.

[Anonymous]

Women tends to be more supportive of and empathetic to their friends, while men generally aren't. When guys try to open up to other guys, they're told to suck it up, shut up, or given advice. I think a lot of men WANT to complain, but their friends just aren't good listeners so they shut up.

Although as a woman, a LOT of men have complained to me about their wives.

[Anonymous]

Men do complain, right into the beer bottle. After several sessions —Guinness and Budweiser are good listeners, the world becomes all right again.

[Anonymous]

Any man with relationship complaints would be foolish to express them on DCUM, he’d get swarmed by women telling him he’s wrong lmao.

[Anonymous]

Men complained at the ballot box.

[Anonymous]

It's been that way since the very first couple.

Adam said to Eve, "Wow Eve here we are, one with God, one with nature. We'll never age, we'll never die and all our dreams will come true as soon as we have them."

Eve said, "yeah, it's just not enough is it?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men complained at the ballot box.

Indeed we did. These are good times.

[Anonymous]

Most women can't stand their MILs, most men are fine with theirs.

[Anonymous]

Lesbian couples are more likely to get divorced than gay male couples. Women can't tolerate other women either?

[Anonymous]

Because men are a nightmare to deal with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They do, but it's pretty much all about sex, or lack thereof. They don't really care if the house is dirty; the kids don't go to good camps; dr's appointments for kids not scheduled... As long as they get regular sex, doesn't even have to be great sex, they have zero complaints.

Plus, this board is mainly women.

So funny. Let the kitchen get dirtier and dirtier and dishes pile up in the sink, the laundry go unwashed, the kids get neglected, etc, and watch men suddenly find their voice to complain.

Men dont have to complain because women do it all for them. Why would they complain when being married benefits men so much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lesbian couples are more likely to get divorced than gay male couples. Women can't tolerate other women either?

This is due to a variety of factors not the least of which is plenty of gay male couples are basically a marriage in name only, meaning both sides are non monogamous and allowed to hook up with plenty of different partners. Also there's a good percentage of lesbians who have become lesbian because they were traumatized by some man and have sworn of men, and may have emotional/relationship issues as a result of said trauma.