If you were to do it again, marry for money or love?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I could have a do over, I might not marry at all. Making money is easy. My life isn’t mine at the moment. Everything I make goes to the care of others. I drive a crappy car but my kids’ 529 plans are fully funded and we send my in laws over $30k a year for their care. In another life I’d stay single, find girlfriends to travel with and spend holidays together, and just have lovers that don’t take anything from me.

If making money is easy, make some just for yourself

[Anonymous]

Love I make enough as long as the love guy isn’t a “spender”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I could have a do over, I might not marry at all. Making money is easy. My life isn’t mine at the moment. Everything I make goes to the care of others. I drive a crappy car but my kids’ 529 plans are fully funded and we send my in laws over $30k a year for their care. In another life I’d stay single, find girlfriends to travel with and spend holidays together, and just have lovers that don’t take anything from me.

If making money is easy, make some just for yourself

I think I will start segregating 33% of my paycheck next year into an account for myself and let my family adjust accordingly. I could easily buy a nice new car, a wardrobe upgrade, and a personal trainer on 33% of my income.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I could have a do over, I might not marry at all. Making money is easy. My life isn’t mine at the moment. Everything I make goes to the care of others. I drive a crappy car but my kids’ 529 plans are fully funded and we send my in laws over $30k a year for their care. In another life I’d stay single, find girlfriends to travel with and spend holidays together, and just have lovers that don’t take anything from me.

If making money is easy, make some just for yourself

I think I will start segregating 33% of my paycheck next year into an account for myself and let my family adjust accordingly. I could easily buy a nice new car, a wardrobe upgrade, and a personal trainer on 33% of my income.

To attract young girlfriends who want the same as your family ? Just more shallow way and they’ll f..k but won’t love you for the money

Men are shallow !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you had to do it all over again and assuming you had both options, would you marry for money or for love?

In this case the marriage for love the guy will be able to provide a middle class lifestyle vs the guy you marry for money would have a guaranteed UMC / on verge of wealthy lifestyle

Option three? I married for compatibility.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you had to do it all over again and assuming you had both options, would you marry for money or for love?

In this case the marriage for love the guy will be able to provide a middle class lifestyle vs the guy you marry for money would have a guaranteed UMC / on verge of wealthy lifestyle

Why not achieve the lifestyle you want yourself then marry for love or marry for love then both earn money for desired lifestyle. Why man has to provide it for you?

[Anonymous]

Realistically, neither love and hotness nor money are guaranteed to last but good education, decent personality, compatibility and strong character are forever.

[Anonymous]

Love, because it's hard to find. Money can be made.
I made the money and looking for love now. I found him, but he busy working.

[Anonymous]

I learned that marrying a rich person doesn’t mean they will share their wealth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Marrying for money is always a mistake.

I married for love.

If I could do it again, I'd marry for sex.

We married for sex. We're still going strong, but sex at 47 is very different from sex at 27.

I'm still having pretty amazing sex at 46. I think what you mean is sex after 20 years with the same partner is different.

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy and love my wife. Next time, though, it's for money. I'm pretty chill and could be happy with a wide range of people.

[Anonymous]

All you need is love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't marry at all.

This is the way

I married for love and I make all the money anyway

[Anonymous]

Kindness

[Anonymous]

100% money. Marrying for love did not work out so now I have neither.