Women on this forum lalk about sex a lot

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Anonymous wrote:Genuinely curious why is the topic of sex mentioned so often partially by women on this forum?

Agree.

This forum should be dedicated to the pursuits of homemaking, such as a knitting and doily embroidering. The topics of nettypots and ear candling are also permissible. However, crass discussion of carnal relationships have no place here.

😂 ear candling!

[Anonymous]

The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

[Anonymous]

Good sex is a desirable and enjoyable aspect of life. Just like I like a fine restaurant, time at my 2nd home, good company with engaging conversation. I work hard and I like to enjoy this aspect of life.

[Anonymous]

If you are halfway attractive, initiating sex, and not an unmitigated dumpster fire and/or pain in the ass and your husband refuses to have sex with you… well, I’d have to say you’re either not halfway attractive, not actually initiating sex, or you are an unmitigated dumpster fire and/or pain in the ass. Or possibly some combination of all of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

It’s amazing how many women ignore the husband for years, then expect them to jump when they’re ready in their 40s. Sorry, you couldn’t ,are time for him, its now your turn to feel unwanted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are halfway attractive, initiating sex, and not an unmitigated dumpster fire and/or pain in the ass and your husband refuses to have sex with you… well, I’d have to say you’re either not halfway attractive, not actually initiating sex, or you are an unmitigated dumpster fire and/or pain in the ass. Or possibly some combination of all of them.

Nope. But keep trying! Sounds like you are describing a lot of men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

It’s amazing how many women ignore the husband for years, then expect them to jump when they’re ready in their 40s. Sorry, you couldn’t ,are time for him, its now your turn to feel unwanted.

What a weird view of long term human relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

It’s amazing how many women ignore the husband for years, then expect them to jump when they’re ready in their 40s. Sorry, you couldn’t ,are time for him, its now your turn to feel unwanted.

What a weird view of long term human relationships.

What’s weird about it? You’re surprised that men might feel resent?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s probably a bunch of Gonzaga freshman posting as horny middle aged women.

Why Gonzaga?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

Do more chores around the house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

Seriously? I feel like this is a bigger problem for men. It’s women who lose desire much more quickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

It’s amazing how many women ignore the husband for years, then expect them to jump when they’re ready in their 40s. Sorry, you couldn’t ,are time for him, its now your turn to feel unwanted.

What a weird view of long term human relationships.

What’s weird about it? You’re surprised that men might feel resent?

This is so petty. Pathetic!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

Seriously? I feel like this is a bigger problem for men. It’s women who lose desire much more quickly.

SOME women lose desire. Some women have an increased libido. I am the latter. I prefer sex daily.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

It’s amazing how many women ignore the husband for years, then expect them to jump when they’re ready in their 40s. Sorry, you couldn’t ,are time for him, its now your turn to feel unwanted.

What a weird view of long term human relationships.

What’s weird about it? You’re surprised that men might feel resent?

This is so petty. Pathetic!

but it's perfectly fine for women to feel resent towards their DHs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The #1 issue for most married women over 40 is the lack of sex.

Seriously? I feel like this is a bigger problem for men. It’s women who lose desire much more quickly.

SOME women lose desire. Some women have an increased libido. I am the latter. I prefer sex daily.

But this is DCUM. Everything is backwards here from the rest of the country