Women on this forum lalk about sex a lot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe because men chase them around the house with their boners saying "want to bone" and making a joke of sex instead of being vulnerable and open.

Why do men have to be vulnerable and open to spew their love juice?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe because men chase them around the house with their boners saying "want to bone" and making a joke of sex instead of being vulnerable and open.

Why do men have to be vulnerable and open to spew their love juice?

Case closed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Genuinely curious why is the topic of sex mentioned so often partially by women on this forum?

Agree.

This forum should be dedicated to the pursuits of homemaking, such as a knitting and doily embroidering. The topics of nettypots and ear candling are also permissible. However, crass discussion of carnal relationships have no place here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

Did he reject that? I will be hard rock, and ready to go. Wear sexy lingerie suggest weekend get away.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

Stop nagging and constantly criticizing him. Apologize for how you have treated him over the years. Tell him you now understand that your rules are not always the "right" rules for a marriage, running a household, politics, etc

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe because men chase them around the house with their boners saying "want to bone" and making a joke of sex instead of being vulnerable and open.

Why do men have to be vulnerable and open to spew their love juice?

Spew it into your tube sock.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

Did he reject that? I will be hard rock, and ready to go. Wear sexy lingerie suggest weekend get away.

You think we haven’t tried such BASIC things?? If only you saw the lingerie I wore while I offered DH sex… he said I was “nagging” him and stressing him out and walked away.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

You must be new on this forum. Otherwise you know the solution. It's a nearly universal solution that the women on this forum use. Find an AP to meet your sexual needs. And when you do finds one come here, start a thread and you will have an army of supportive women cheering you on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

You must be new on this forum. Otherwise you know the solution. It's a nearly universal solution that the women on this forum use. Find an AP to meet your sexual needs. And when you do finds one come here, start a thread and you will have an army of supportive women cheering you on.

No once you find the AP you are a miserable whore ESPECIALLY if your AP is also married because there is absolutely NO WAY that he is telling the truth about being in a sexless marriage even if you are.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

indeed you are not!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

Not the OP I think it's a fair question because a lot us (or at least me) have DHs who seem just happy with being in a sexless marriage. We come here to vent, ask for advice, etc because I don't think the DHs who are not having sex with us realize how much the intimacy through sex is important to us. In my case therapy hasn't had much of an effect. I have tried countless efforts to get him to have sex at least once a month with me. I am 46 and I doubt I am the only woman in this situation.

Just waking him up in the middle of the night with a BJ.

Tried that. Anything else?

You must be new on this forum. Otherwise you know the solution. It's a nearly universal solution that the women on this forum use. Find an AP to meet your sexual needs. And when you do finds one come here, start a thread and you will have an army of supportive women cheering you on.

No once you find the AP you are a miserable whore ESPECIALLY if your AP is also married because there is absolutely NO WAY that he is telling the truth about being in a sexless marriage even if you are.

It's not that serious it's just sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because it’s a big part of relationships? How is this a question?

It is the most important part of a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Omg this thread is so validating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:High school is mentioned a lot on the Teen forum. Coaches are mentioned a lot in the soccer forum. Calories are mentioned a lot in the diet forum.

Well said