What is the $3k+ we pay for then? No individual development, no travel expenses covered, no wins, no college spot secured, What then? |
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Can't speak to your club, at ours:
League games, Fall, Winter, Spring 4-5 tournaments per year (depends on age) 2 practices per week with skilled coaches throughout the year Free clinics (4-6 weeks, 1x per week) each season, focusing on gk, ball mastery, defending, etc 1 week team summer camp I'm sure there's more, I can't remember right now If you are unhappy with your club, leave and go to another - there are so many in the dmv, no reason to be a Debbie Downer, take your kid and your money and go elsewhere Also free |
| Give the kid half the bundle now and then all then winter stuff as a Xmas/holiday present. Keep slides as door wedges. |
2 things One-paying a bunch of money does not mean absolutely anything. Let alone getting any sort of ROI Two-I have ethical and moral dilemmas making so much money here in America as a foreign coach. But, there’s no way I would make a living back home like I do here… |
| Arlington families here. 2 yrs cycle kits and only requested to buy uniforms and practice shirts. Everything else is optional. We did buy the backpack and it’s been 4 yrs and still going. It helped that they got rid of white shorts so now we wear blue shorts for all both games (away/ home) and practices. Older versions shorts are also acceptable. |
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Nice, how is this acceptable for Arlington and not for other ECNL teams. Oh yes poor management, no one cares for the families, for the players. I don’t understand why players need fancy tees for practice, a backpack, warming jackets and pants that players will never wear. |
That’s very sane, is this for ECNL? |
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I wish I was making this up but state associations and leagues will fine clubs if players do not show up with the same warm up gear and bags.
Don’t shoot the messenger 🤣 |
Can't be true!
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I had this issue a while back and contacted the TD at the small club my son played at. I explained DS still had a perfectly good jacket and pants from the previous year and was there a way around it. He was able to change some setting so they were no longer required. I’m glad I spoke up! |
The backpacks kill me! DS has moved around a lot and always insists he wants a backpack for the new club. He’s now u17. You can imagine the collection! Last year when I bought his at u16 I told him that was the last one I’ll be purchasing. Our garage is full of backpacks for soccer and baseball. I wish I had someone to pass them to. Just yesterday I decided that they are all going as soon as I have time! |
I agree with this. DS always wanted everything and was one of the only to purchase. We finally wised up! |
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2 year cycle for us. Typically buy the whole kit for year 1 then just replace odds and ends over the 24 months.
That said, growing up I used to love getting the new gear each season, it made the start of the season feel special. So I do the same for my kids, it’s always fun to start the season with new kits and gear. It’s part of the magic. |
| All this just proves the actual soccer is never the priority |