Spinoff: How many times in your life have you felt physical chemistry?

[Anonymous]

It was about 15 years ago, I met her through the course of my job, within 20 seconds of meeting my hands were shaking and my heart was pounding, she couldn’t stop giggling at everything I said which made it even more intense. The entire interaction was no more than 20 minutes and I’ve never seen or spoken to her again. She wasn’t even close to my type but I left feeling like I was drunk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The thread below got me thinking about chemistry and if I’ve ever had it.

So how many people have you had chemistry with and how would you describe it?

Insane sexual chemistry: 3 times.

Deep emotional chemistry: 2 times.

[Anonymous]

Strong physical chemistry 1-2 per year. The best is when they’re smart and funny too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The thread below got me thinking about chemistry and if I’ve ever had it.

So how many people have you had chemistry with and how would you describe it?

Insane sexual chemistry: 3 times.

Deep emotional chemistry: 2 times.

Did you ever have both? Insane sexual chemistry and deep emotional chemistry is rare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just touching my boyfriends forearm turns me on. So yeah we have great chemistry. But I’ve had it with a lot of men in my life. [/b]It’s not that deep.

[b]

But its usually deeper than you’re used to. Lol.

[Anonymous]

How about the sort of deep physical chemistry you feel in the beginning and later morphs into hindsight absolute revulsion? 🙋‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

How about the sort of deep physical chemistry you feel in the beginning and later morphs into hindsight absolute revulsion? 🙋‍♀️

That sucks. Nope, never. For some reason if there’s no emotional connection first I just ..can’t.

[Anonymous]

Physical - maybe 5 times.

Physical + emotional - twice. The first was with a friend of a friend when I was 20. I was very naive and it caught me off guard. It didn’t go anywhere, but I won’t ever forget him. The second time was with my now-DH. We’ve been married 21 years now.

[Anonymous]

For physical, while I have found a number of women attractive, one stands out. 28 when we dated, not the most technically good looking woman I ever went out with, buts it's as if she had a spell on me. The desire was through the roof. Everything - hair, clothes style, voice. Never fell for anyone that fast.

[Anonymous]

Lust plenty of times. Real chemistry only once and we’ve been married forever.

[Anonymous]

3 times in the past and a current one with a coworker. Never experienced it with my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3 times in the past and a current one with a coworker. Never experienced it with my husband.

for how long? Do you think other coworkers can tell ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3 times in the past and a current one with a coworker. Never experienced it with my husband.

I’ve had it really strong in the past with coworkers too.

[Anonymous]

Everyday with DW. It’s very palpable.

[Anonymous]

Many crushes but only ONE I’ll never forget.