Where did you find your affair partner?

[Anonymous]

Don't make it complicated, OP. Go and hire a male escort, and get it out of your system.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As someone who had to tell their kids they are getting a divorce today becausemy DH cheated, don't do it. Not worth destroying your family.

Bloom where you are planted OP, or offer your DH a clean and honest break. You can find fulfillment without being unethical.

Such a misogynistic attitude.

Why did not you bloom where your cheating spouse planted you?

You are an azshole. I am divorcing a cheater like the OP wants to be.

If the OP doesn't like her DH she should divorce him. Not cheat on him.

If she wants to stay married, she could devote all this effort she's about to put into finding an affair partner into her marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ummmm…divorce? While being a single parent is no walk in the park, it’ll be a huge relief to only have your child to take care of.

.+1 Also - what makes you think he’ll want partial custody? It sounds like he’s passive and helpless enough that you’ll likely end up with most of the caregiving/custody.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross topic, I know. I'm a terrible person. I hate myself, too.

I'm 34, stuck in a marriage with a man who wants a mommy to care for him. I can't divorce him without losing half of my time with my kid. I'm the financial breadwinner. He hasn't taken me on a date in 5 years. He won't book a plane ticket or a vacation unless I do it for him, and all he has to do is show up at the airport. He couldn't tell you where to buy our child's uniform for the fall. He has never scheduled a doctor or dentist appointment; I do it all and manage the bills, groceries, cooking, and cleaning independently. I work full-time, have a contracting gig on the side, and am working on my master's degree. He has no interest in advancement, higher education, politics, art, or culture. He was hot when I met him at 25, and he was 30, but the lust is gone now. On our wedding day, he told his mother: "It's ok, Mom, Larla will take care of me now..."

I wish to find a 55-year-old man with adult children who wants a travel partner/lover without commitment to a relationship or entanglement. I can't go on dating apps without someone recognizing me; there's no way I would engage in a work affair. I wish I could find someone interested in the same things I am. My husband doesn't read.

You are not a terrible person. Life is too short to waste time with a loser.
But you are too young to give up on your marriage yet. You married your DH for a reason. Work on your marriage. Your DH can become the man he used to be if you both work to save your marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 45 and freshly divorced. I don't need the blue pill (yet lol). I am tall and handsome. I would be the ideal guy for you.

I went on a date with a mid 40s man who was severely beaten up by the husband of woman he dated. She hidden her marital status. Aren't enough mid 30s single never married women out there? Or women your age who are good looking? Men are really looking for trouble on their a...s for a p...y!

I know a woman beat up by the betrayed wife. lol

[Anonymous]

I don't think an affair partner is the answer. It will give you the thrill of newness and excitement of having someone desire and pursue you, but it's not going to make your husband or your relationship with him change. Try marriage counseling or separation before an affair.

[Anonymous]

I found mine at the Affair Partner store. Which was convenient because I traded her in for a news model after I got tired of banging her after a couple of months. Then I replaced the new model with a redhead, simply because that turned me on. And then for a while there I was using two of them at the same time so my balls were ALWAYS drained. Hawk tua!

[Anonymous]

Such a dipsh@t, OP. I can’t imagine being like: I’m unhappy in my marriage as a burned out working wife: oh I’ll go troll the internet to find some rando guy to bang.

Such serious dysfunction and poor coping skills. I’ve had low times and points in my marriage where I felt like I was doing it all. I fixed it. Not once did I think: you know what would fix this: sex with others.

Don’t be a stupid ho. The amount of drama and trauma if you choose that path is tremendous. You can ask my friend who lost her house and college kids don’t talk to her anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 45 and freshly divorced. I don't need the blue pill (yet lol). I am tall and handsome. I would be the ideal guy for you.

You really have no morals do you? You want to bang another guy’s wife?

She sounds young and hot and I bet her twat is tight, so yeah. Bonus if she has a bubble butt and large tits.

[Anonymous]

Business travel and conferences, airport club lounge, bars, restaurants, gym, hobbies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 45 and freshly divorced. I don't need the blue pill (yet lol). I am tall and handsome. I would be the ideal guy for you.

You really have no morals do you? You want to bang another guy’s wife?

She sounds young and hot and I bet her twat is tight, so yeah. Bonus if she has a bubble butt and large tits.

Wow, these are the real winners you will get, OP, who will use you like toilet paper and laugh about it with their friends later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 45 and freshly divorced. I don't need the blue pill (yet lol). I am tall and handsome. I would be the ideal guy for you.

You really have no morals do you? You want to bang another guy’s wife?

She sounds young and hot and I bet her twat is tight, so yeah. Bonus if she has a bubble butt and large tits.

She passed children thru that twat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Such a dipsh@t, OP. I can’t imagine being like: I’m unhappy in my marriage as a burned out working wife: oh I’ll go troll the internet to find some rando guy to bang.

Such serious dysfunction and poor coping skills. I’ve had low times and points in my marriage where I felt like I was doing it all. I fixed it. Not once did I think: you know what would fix this: sex with others.

Don’t be a stupid ho. The amount of drama and trauma if you choose that path is tremendous. You can ask my friend who lost her house and college kids don’t talk to her anymore.

+1 what kind of crap did you see in childhood that you think this is a legit path, OP?

[Anonymous]

I’m agnostic on the affair. But I think you should plan on divorce. He sounds extremely lazy and will likely agree to minimal custody (like 1-2 days/week). You do need to be careful about him finding out about any affair because that will mess up the process.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Such a dipsh@t, OP. I can’t imagine being like: I’m unhappy in my marriage as a burned out working wife: oh I’ll go troll the internet to find some rando guy to bang.

Such serious dysfunction and poor coping skills. I’ve had low times and points in my marriage where I felt like I was doing it all. I fixed it. Not once did I think: you know what would fix this: sex with others.

Don’t be a stupid ho. The amount of drama and trauma if you choose that path is tremendous. You can ask my friend who lost her house and college kids don’t talk to her anymore.

+1 what kind of crap did you see in childhood that you think this is a legit path, OP?

There a showdown at the Ho-down. Jerry Springer material. Trashy AF