I’m the PP. Many private schools, including mine, use a different LMS. Students can submit documents and continue to change them within ours. I still believe this is the clearest way to understand OP’s story. |
It’s 3rd quarter. I suspect students know how to submit docs by now. |
Yes. Students have been trying to get over (if you don’t like the word “cheat”) since the dawn of time. Don’t assume your kid is innocent until you have evidence the teacher is actually in possession of the completed assignments. Then if you find out your child was being dishonest, please don’t just let it go. Make them apologize to you and the teacher. Otherwise, they’ll just keep doing it. |
| Alot of parents don't deserve good and fair teachers. They should go work it themselves when they use the pta to to play games and get teachers in trouble for working hard. |
+1 I am really sorry OP. We went through this a couple years ago with an unstable, immature teacher like this and it was hell. The school also backed her up without looking into it. We did give up, but this was not HS so the grades did not really count as DD's other grades were good enough that it did not impact outplacement. I do think these things come around so your child's teacher bully will see consequences just maybe not while your child is a student there. |
Agree |
Can you point out how the teacher in the OP’s post is being a bully? I just don’t see it. The OP seems to be giving 1/2 the story, and the missing information probably explains why the teacher didn’t give points the first time the document was viewed. |
| Teachers are commonly scapegoated as they are expected to get maimed for the sake of education but they are not allowed to have a morsel of professional autonomy to do their job without entitled parents trying to mess with their careers. Good luck finding your goats to do the job. |
Where do I say anything about grade changing? I am saying it's time for everyone to sit down together so that the teacher can communicate clearly to the child - and the parent - on what is missing. If the kid is trying to pull one over on the parent - then the parent will finally see this. And if the teacher hasn't communicated effectively to the kid - they will now have done so. |
I'm saying a meeting is now needed where teacher sits down with the parent and the student. If the kid is cheating or not being honest with the parent, the meeting will make this clear and the parent will need to back off. If, on the other hand, the teacher hasn't communicated effectively to the student on what exactly is missing - the meeting will accomplish this (and the parent will also understand and make sure the student can follow the rules). I know everyone wants kids to be independent, but clearly in this case, something is missing. Either the kid is lying to the parent or the kid doesn't understand the rules and while the OP wants to blame the teacher - I think it's probably more likely the kid - but even if it's the teacher - it's time for everyone to meet (with good intentions and no finger pointing) and iron out the details so that this kid can move forward. |
I think that sitting down together is a great idea. I do think that if OP goes into this with the intention of forcing a grade change, the teacher is going to respond by gathering information that proves cheating. Once it's proven that the kid cheated then they are opening up the possibility of a suspension or an expulsion. So, if I was a parent, I would go in with an open mind, saying "I want to understand the correct way to submit assignments going forward" and not something that would put the teacher on the defensive. I'll also say that the fact that the parent is using the fact that the teacher opened an emailed document as evidence that the teacher received the assignment is unclear about academic dishonesty is detected in the era of AI. |
| Any chance this is happening at Deal? |
Deal is public. |
What are you waiting for March in tell the principal or HOS you want an appointment now. Then show your documents and have them explain one of you is lying. Only way to fix this is in person with proof. If you feel strongly the teacher is the problem change schools now Why are you paying money for a crap teacher? |
I’m the OP. In one case, the teacher made comments in the document that my kid submitted. Therefore, I know my kid submitted the document in the appropriate manner. If my kid had not done so, then the teacher would not have reviewed the work. This is the same document that the teacher claims kid never submitted. We have requested an in-person meeting. My kid is mortified. Kid does not want us involved but we are more than 1/2 way through the year and the situation remains absurd so I have no choice to be involved. I’m sure my kid is not 100 percent blameless throughout the year, but the situation is just plain weird. Kid does not have issues with any other class when it comes to submitting work. And, in response to an earlier poster, no, teacher does not appear to like my kid. That’s ok. My kid is super quiet. I’m guessing kid is even more quiet than before due to stained interactions with teacher. |