Son snuck in girl, tell her parents?

[Anonymous]

Don't try to let her parents know. Let her parents know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This somewhat happened to us. My son snuck a girl in. They had sex. They were caught. She ubered home. I don’t give a F about that girl. She can figure out how to sneak into my house then she can figure out how to get home.

Your son apparently like her and she is teen. I am shocked at your callous disregard. At least she Ubered.

[Anonymous]

Deep dive into your son’s phone to see if his story lines up.

[Anonymous]

She is already dealing with her son on her end because of course he is not an innocent bystander. As someone said he helped sneak her in the house and is equally to blame!

Please tell her parents so they can deal with the situation on their end!

Teens are impulsive and sometimes stupid…sigh….

[Anonymous]

As the mom of a 14 year old girl I would want to know.

I’m sure your son knows where she lives, go ring the doorbell.

[Anonymous]

What a riot! The DS was dishing up snacks to serve at 4:30am. What was he thinking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What a riot! The DS was dishing up snacks to serve at 4:30am. What was he thinking?

That he was hungry after sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What a riot! The DS was dishing up snacks to serve at 4:30am. What was he thinking?

That he was hungry after sex.

And/or weed.

[Anonymous]

I would call the girl's parents because she is so young. I agree walking outside alone is not super safe, especially if they are sneaking around. Nobody knows where they are, so they wouldn't know for awhile if they went missing.

I'd talk to your son about sex, protection, and have Plan B on hand.

[Anonymous]

If they have started having carnal knowledge with one another, then they can find a way to do that some place else or a different time.

[Anonymous]

Another option if you think the parents should know, tell your son that she has to tell her parents what she did. Otherwise you will tell them. Give her some agency.

But this is all less than ideal given that you don’t know what her parents reaction will be like and if it will be abusive. (I’m not trying to be dramatic. I’m just acknowledging that it’s a possibility).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your main goal is to keep yourself and your son out of any trouble that might arise. Act accordingly.

No really sure what that means. Besides this girl’s safety, I am hoping letting her parents know will allow them to be alert she is doing this and hopefully I don’t see her in the early morning hours again.

It means the parents can try to turn it all against you and your son

[Anonymous]

Why would you not tell her parents??

And OP, get ahold of your son.

[Anonymous]

Parents need to know. I’d be giving my daughter Plan B asap and having some serious conversations

[Anonymous]

I have a 15 yo son and 13 yo daughter. I would want to know for either of them but I’m trying to figure out how you would actually get the parents contact info. Unless they went true same elementary school or are in sports teams I don’t have the contact info for most friends now, certainly not kids of the opposite sex. That girl isn’t giving your son her mom’s cell number to give to you.