Do all men cheat?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The question is not do all men cheat; it's do all men cheat given the opportunity.

To that, yes, unless low drive. End of story. Lots of naive women who don't understand what testosterone does.

Not even close to true. There is no reason to believe a single guy in my circle has ever cheated. And yes, the opportunities were there if they were looking. Now the women that are in my circle, or atleast used to be in my circle, that's a different story

[Anonymous]

It is interesting that people seem to be responding either “yes, they all cheat. I cheat and so do my friends” or “No, I don’t cheat, and none of my friends do either”.

Maybe they key is to find a guy whose friends aren’t cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It comes down to impulse control. If a person has strong impulse control, it's far less likely.

+1

That, and if their parent/s cheated - big indicator.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do all men cheat given an opportunity? If not how do you find one that won’t and be sure that you have found one that won’t?

Men and women cheat at the almost exact rates, DNA kits are actually women cheat at a higher rate than studies show. It's estimated 10% of kids are being raised by a man that is not their biological father and they have no idea

Cheating is about personality types, not gender

10% seems really, really high.

I mean, that means that between the two third grades at my kid’s elementary school, there are six kids who are being raised by a man who isn’t their biological father and has no idea.

I would be surprised if there was 1.

These estimates are all over the place. I've seen as high as 30%, but that was for people actively seeking to prove paternity, so there is selection bias there. Others are in the single digits.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is interesting that people seem to be responding either “yes, they all cheat. I cheat and so do my friends” or “No, I don’t cheat, and none of my friends do either”.

Maybe they key is to find a guy whose friends aren’t cheating.

That's a big part of it. Good people surround themselves with good people. Cheaters routinely get cut off from their social groups and end up hanging with other people that feel cheating is ok

[Anonymous]

Man here.

I'm 52, work out 8-10 hours a week. I've had women hit on me, from low-key to hotel room key cards dropped in my blazer pocket with a lipstick kiss.

I was married 20 years. I'm now in a committed relationship.

I've never cheated. Not once.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is interesting that people seem to be responding either “yes, they all cheat. I cheat and so do my friends” or “No, I don’t cheat, and none of my friends do either”.

Maybe they key is to find a guy whose friends aren’t cheating.

I was talking to a woman at work and she was telling me about how her boyfriend ran around with other men who like to see multiple women, etc. She seemed to think this was something sort of unavoidable somehow. I can’t imagine any of my husband’s friends openly admitting to cheating on a wife or girlfriend. It was like we were from two different planets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The question is not do all men cheat; it's do all men cheat given the opportunity.

To that, yes, unless low drive. End of story. Lots of naive women who don't understand what testosterone does.

I don’t think this is the end of the story. A strong dedication and a moral compass will override testosterone.

Or do you just assume I’ve never been given the opportunity? That may be true, but perhaps because it’s obvious that I will say no.

[Anonymous]

I’m a guy. I only cheated with other men. Anonymous hookups. Always safe.

Don’t forget that there’s a lot of that going on too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do all men cheat given an opportunity? If not how do you find one that won’t and be sure that you have found one that won’t?

Nothing is guaranteed!

[Anonymous]

Honestly yes at least half have admitted to it in study after study but I’m sure it’s higher than that. Many are not discovered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly yes at least half have admitted to it in study after study but I’m sure it’s higher than that. Many are not discovered.

What studies? I don’t see any that support that conclusion

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The apps just make it that much easier so cheating is going up with both sexes. For all ages. You used to have a hard time as a 60 year old finding 30 year olds to date. Now you can with apps.

No shortage of sluts and players online. It’s now at everyone’s fingertips any time, anywhere.

Let me guess the " sluts" are the women and "players" are men? Why aren't men considered sluts, pp?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, if you are a low value woman then maybe

Wow, she SHE is responsible for his behavior.

[Anonymous]

No.