My friends kids can do no wrong and I’m either about to say something…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He acted up significantly at school and you only did no Nintendo for a week. Oh my.. so you write a lengthy post criticizing her when you are a problem.

Yeah, she should have put some soap in his socks and given him a code red, amirite?
WTF is wrong with you PP?

A) the punishment fit the bit of trouble, which was hardly serious.
B) these are little kids.

OP's punishment was appropriate.

This was very serious and no, OP is in denial of how her child behaves and wants to criticize someone else. Little kids need consequences to understand their behavior. This is why so many kids are acting up as teens now.

Pay no attention to this loony, OP. They want to derail the thread.

Or maybe your friend found your thread!😄

[Anonymous]

No, you don’t say anything. You don’t tell other people how to parent. She isn’t asking for your advice. Take a break or distance yourself if you are sick of hearing about her kids and how she handles them.

[Anonymous]

People like this are far more vested in their feelings than their kids’ needs. I feel sorry for them but have a hard time keeping my mouth shut around them. Irritating.

[Anonymous]

Parenting is a long road. Where your kids are at this moment is not where they will be in ten years. Be patient, grasshopper.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, you don’t say anything. You don’t tell other people how to parent. She isn’t asking for your advice. Take a break or distance yourself if you are sick of hearing about her kids and how she handles them.

Arguably. If she keeps bringing up her son and all his issues to OP perhaps she is asking for feedback but is afraid to be direct?

OP, next time she goes on about it stop her and say. “This situation sounds frustrating. Are you asking for feedback or do you just want to vent?” And if she just wants to vent that’s the bigger issue. This isn’t a friendship. I’ve had friends who just want to use me to complain and it took a massive toll on me mentally.