They are just jealous OP worked WFH until now. OP, I feel your pain. It's as stupid as it gets... |
Oh, are you quitting today? I was under the impression you’d be going in again after today, until you find a new job. |
I don't know if you meant this as a joke but you made me laugh out loud. Also OP helped spread the "culture" of her work place too ![]() |
I wish my company would do the coordinated days. I actually prefer working in the office, but only if the people l work with are also there. |
Why should a mind reframing be needed? Are you compensating employees for commutes and all the money they spend on it? No? Then maybe the company needs to reframe their thinking of they're going to force emplyees unnecessarily into the office and aren't compensating employees for all of the personal time they burn getting to and from the office, and compensating employees for all of the money they spend unnecessarily in order to get to and from the office. |
But pre-pandemic there were very few people who knew how beneficial working from home could be for their health, wellness, family life, etc. Most people who had a WAH grumbled about not having face time or being disconnected since WAH infrastructure wasn't as robust as it is now. Or they said they felt isolated or went house crazy if they didn't have a system in place for getting out of the house daily. With COVID people had to adjust to being in the house more often, WAH, etc. They got new routines, new priorities, more time/less time, some marriages fell apart, some got stronger, and some families readjusted their priorities after realizing how LITTLE time they get with their kids. Companies invested in WAH capabilities and many of us were WAH- even when we would have transitioned back to the office at any earlier time- for 1-2.5 years. Of course I wanted to go into the office when I had a toddler at home part-time and my job was always taking a back seat to my DH's fed job, which always seems to somehow be in emergency mode. ![]() Now people are being asked to revert back to the office but all the benefits of the office no longer feel like benefits. I get to control my house temp, I have a fantastic setup at home that I personally paid for, all my meetings are virtual, I save money on gas, I can work outside on a pretty day, I walk on my treadmill 2-3x day for 10-15 minutes, etc. Managers act like they want people to work but all I hear about are companies paying out the wazoo for return-to-office parties and office "culture" events, which are not working. Progress was never made by going backwards and that's what many companies are asking people to do. There are some jobs that will never be able to, and were never able to, work from home. That is not the point of WAH vs WOH discussions. Those jobs are nothingburgers because they never had to transition to/from WAH and WOH. But I can assure you that the WOH people would rather have the WAH at home. All of my teacher friends complain about how much earlier they have to leave because of traffic. WAH people are also more likely to make mid-day appointments, thereby, reducing the amount of people who require early morning and late afternoon appointments. |
That's right, it IS 2023. Time to start using technology to do work. Time to use technology to get rid of commutes that create gigantic amounts of pollution that destroys the environment and wastes inordinate amounts of time. Time to use technology to get rid of 20th century office culture mindset they also wastes tremendous amounts of energy heating, lighting, and cooling gigantic office buildings for no reason. |
so before the pandemic you were ok waking up and polluting the environment and all that but now that your company is brining people back into the office and inconveniencing you -you don't like it?
Just confirming that you are showing your true colors. |
Before the pandemic, it was understood that part of what they were compensating you for was to show up. They gave you a break on that due to the pandemic. They’re done doing that. You can perform your job within the parameters they set for the compensation they’re offering or you can negotiate for what you want or you can quit or you can be let go or you can quiet quit and see how long it takes them to play bad cop. Be as miserable as you want while this plays out. |
some of us never stopped going into the office, thankfully, |
I went back to the office this week too. It is only one day a week, not a big deal for me. I am least productive that day for sure, but they probably expect that. |
Some of us never EVER worked from home throughout the entire pandemic - and still have to wear masks at work. |
+1. Grow up, OP. And get off DCUM. You're back in the real world now. |
Nice rant. I agree. |
New job stat |