Can women really love men?

[Anonymous]

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I think a lot of men think all women are materialistic and only go for a certain type of man because they literally don't see the women *they* aren't interested in.

Let’s not forget that a great many perfectly normal and acceptable men are totally invisible to women.

And a great many perfectly normal and acceptable women are invisible to men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I think a lot of men think all women are materialistic and only go for a certain type of man because they literally don't see the women *they* aren't interested in.

Let’s not forget that a great many perfectly normal and acceptable men are totally invisible to women.

I’ve never known a single man like that. Not one. Even very ugly and fat men I have known who have good personalities and decent careers managed to land girlfriends. If a man couldn’t find any girlfriend at all it’s because he wasn’t great or perfectly normal.

[Anonymous]

Women are fickle. They may be in love for awhile with a man, but it won’t take much for them to get sick of them if they don’t live up to (perhaps unrealistic) expectations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, no they can not love a man in the way the man believe he should be loved. In other words, the man will never be loved "unconditionally."
Men are objectified as success objects.

Some of you are really messed up. Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are not loved unconditionally is the answer. Not like women and children are. Even the best examples here the woman would lose attraction if the guy started acting whiny or had a mental health crisis or some other thing.

Yet it is main who leave their partners and spouses when said partners are critically injured. You must be joking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men are not loved unconditionally is the answer. Not like women and children are. Even the best examples here the woman would lose attraction if the guy started acting whiny or had a mental health crisis or some other thing.

Yet it is main who leave their partners and spouses when said partners are critically injured. You must be joking.

^critically injured or ill

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are not loved unconditionally is the answer. Not like women and children are. Even the best examples here the woman would lose attraction if the guy started acting whiny or had a mental health crisis or some other thing.

This
Women typically love their children unconditionally, but not there husbands

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible for a woman to love a man independent of his status or wealth or what he brings to the table?

Yes. Millions of us are married to men who make far less money than we do, and/or whose social status is lower on the social classes scale.

Money aside, I think it's difficult if not impossible to love men as they want to be loved - unconditionally and always the first priority. They want to be loved as a child is loved, and very few if any women can (or want to) do that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are not loved unconditionally is the answer. Not like women and children are. Even the best examples here the woman would lose attraction if the guy started acting whiny or had a mental health crisis or some other thing.

In what universe are women loved unconditionally? Certainly not in mine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible for a woman to love a man independent of his status or wealth or what he brings to the table?

YES. If you've to ask, you've little faith in humanity and need to restore that before getting into a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes! I met my husband when we were both just out of college and had no money of our own, had starter low paying jobs, etc. He was amazing and we fell in love and then managed life together as we became more successful, had kids, etc.

Same here. We built our life together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men are not loved unconditionally is the answer. Not like women and children are. Even the best examples here the woman would lose attraction if the guy started acting whiny or had a mental health crisis or some other thing.

In what universe are women loved unconditionally? Certainly not in mine.

Exactly. Women are expected to be reasonably good-looking and healthy and to have children and care for them and the home for centuries. This is actual work and responsibility. We used to take pride in this just like a job. Why should you be a nothing and someone decides that YOU are the one they should spend their life with and have offspring with? It makes no sense. Men value their jobs too much and disvalue work that is unpaid. If men like this person started seeing all the work in this world they would stop whining about the fact that women and children need money to live on and they would value it as a contribution they make and they would likely find someone who both valued the money and the person. When you start objectifying yourself you end up objectifying others as well.

[Anonymous]

Most people, men or women, go after things valuable to them, money, achievement, looks, fame, education etc. Its not like successful men go after average looking Jane who is a college dropout waitresses living in trailer parks.

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There is a big difference between wanting a wealthy/well-off man and a stable man. Men make the same calculus when choosing a partner.

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Its a trait needed for survival of human species. Women naturally bring sex, birthing and nesting abilities to the table, more so if they are educated and employed. Men need to bring more than sperms.