Sexual Mismatch

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

Where can a man find such women?

Ha! Well, I'm very picky and am lucky I found a unicorn of a man. Makes good money but has week-life balance, does more than his fair share at home, emotionally available, amazing dad, feminist, doesn't spend all his time on phone/video games/sports, 100% family-focused, mind-blowing in bed, and we're best friends. So main thing is you have to be a very high-quality man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

TBH this was my first time getting an orgasm from a massage

Again, you are a very inexperienced male troll, one of those guys who thinks that a rub on the back equals foreplay. Next time make it more believable.

Well, it depends what is rubbing against the neck…

Guys, rubbing your d* against her neck will not result in an orgasm. For you? Definitely. For her? Nope.

Lololol nothing gets me off more than the ol’ dick flopping against my neck.

FFS. I haven't laughed this hard is so long. Troll OP is a 12 year old in McLean.

Hahahahaha

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

I sometimes O in my sleep. I think it may be like a wet dream but don’t really know what that is like.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

Yeah I really think there are different ideas of what constitutes an O for women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

Not really sure what you mean by “how”….but the massage/touching thing was when I had been in a sexless relationship for 2 years due to my boyfriend have zero interest in me (due to combination depression and excessive porn use). The guy wouldn’t even touch me. So I had a LOT of pent up sexual frustration and energy. When you’re starved for physical affection, any touch at all is like….ssskkkkyyyy rockets in flight.

The dream thing started when I was pregnant with my first kid. If sex dips below 2 times a week or so I start having them again.

Anyway, to get back to OP’s question: life is too damn short to miss out on soul-nourishing sex. I’ve cheated (see: boyfriend wouldn’t have sex for two years) and it pales in comparison to a fulfilling relationship with an active sex life. Plus it sounds like he doesn’t work. So it sounds like he may be struggling with depression.

I went though that with my H - he was depressed and we had zero sex for awhile. Therapy and the right meds worked wonders for him, plus working on reconnecting as a couple and as an entire family. But I did have to insist he get help, let him know my needs weren’t being met and he needed to address his issues.

I think a lot of time women feel bad about insisting our needs be met, but you gotta do it. Dudes aren’t that fragile, they can handle the truth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

I sometimes O in my sleep. I think it may be like a wet dream but don’t really know what that is like.

+1, lots of times. I’ve also had massages that brought me to the edge. It happens!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

Not really sure what you mean by “how”….but the massage/touching thing was when I had been in a sexless relationship for 2 years due to my boyfriend have zero interest in me (due to combination depression and excessive porn use). The guy wouldn’t even touch me. So I had a LOT of pent up sexual frustration and energy. When you’re starved for physical affection, any touch at all is like….ssskkkkyyyy rockets in flight.

The dream thing started when I was pregnant with my first kid. If sex dips below 2 times a week or so I start having them again.

Anyway, to get back to OP’s question: life is too damn short to miss out on soul-nourishing sex. I’ve cheated (see: boyfriend wouldn’t have sex for two years) and it pales in comparison to a fulfilling relationship with an active sex life. Plus it sounds like he doesn’t work. So it sounds like he may be struggling with depression.

I went though that with my H - he was depressed and we had zero sex for awhile. Therapy and the right meds worked wonders for him, plus working on reconnecting as a couple and as an entire family. But I did have to insist he get help, let him know my needs weren’t being met and he needed to address his issues.

I think a lot of time women feel bad about insisting our needs be met, but you gotta do it. Dudes aren’t that fragile, they can handle the truth.

NP here. "How" as in, how would you have an orgasm when your clit isn't being stimulated? Do you just mean someone's touch made you shiver and tingle and you're calling that an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

Where can a man find such women?

I am on Bumble and Tinder! LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

My O happened during a dream that I was pleasuring myself on Facetime with a guy I am dating, (Which I haven't actually done but now want to. LOL) I have been having them in my sleep since I was a teenager. Just lucky I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

Not really sure what you mean by “how”….but the massage/touching thing was when I had been in a sexless relationship for 2 years due to my boyfriend have zero interest in me (due to combination depression and excessive porn use). The guy wouldn’t even touch me. So I had a LOT of pent up sexual frustration and energy. When you’re starved for physical affection, any touch at all is like….ssskkkkyyyy rockets in flight.

The dream thing started when I was pregnant with my first kid. If sex dips below 2 times a week or so I start having them again.

Anyway, to get back to OP’s question: life is too damn short to miss out on soul-nourishing sex. I’ve cheated (see: boyfriend wouldn’t have sex for two years) and it pales in comparison to a fulfilling relationship with an active sex life. Plus it sounds like he doesn’t work. So it sounds like he may be struggling with depression.

I went though that with my H - he was depressed and we had zero sex for awhile. Therapy and the right meds worked wonders for him, plus working on reconnecting as a couple and as an entire family. But I did have to insist he get help, let him know my needs weren’t being met and he needed to address his issues.

I think a lot of time women feel bad about insisting our needs be met, but you gotta do it. Dudes aren’t that fragile, they can handle the truth.

NP here. "How" as in, how would you have an orgasm when your clit isn't being stimulated? Do you just mean someone's touch made you shiver and tingle and you're calling that an orgasm?

I can orgasm without the c being stimulated!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

Not really sure what you mean by “how”….but the massage/touching thing was when I had been in a sexless relationship for 2 years due to my boyfriend have zero interest in me (due to combination depression and excessive porn use). The guy wouldn’t even touch me. So I had a LOT of pent up sexual frustration and energy. When you’re starved for physical affection, any touch at all is like….ssskkkkyyyy rockets in flight.

The dream thing started when I was pregnant with my first kid. If sex dips below 2 times a week or so I start having them again.

Anyway, to get back to OP’s question: life is too damn short to miss out on soul-nourishing sex. I’ve cheated (see: boyfriend wouldn’t have sex for two years) and it pales in comparison to a fulfilling relationship with an active sex life. Plus it sounds like he doesn’t work. So it sounds like he may be struggling with depression.

I went though that with my H - he was depressed and we had zero sex for awhile. Therapy and the right meds worked wonders for him, plus working on reconnecting as a couple and as an entire family. But I did have to insist he get help, let him know my needs weren’t being met and he needed to address his issues.

I think a lot of time women feel bad about insisting our needs be met, but you gotta do it. Dudes aren’t that fragile, they can handle the truth.

NP here. "How" as in, how would you have an orgasm when your clit isn't being stimulated? Do you just mean someone's touch made you shiver and tingle and you're calling that an orgasm?

DP

When you come in your sleep you aren’t touching yourself, it’s all in your head. So even if you need that touch when you’re conscious your body can get aroused without it. For me the times when a massage really got me to that point, I was extremely relaxed and almost in another world. I also think some people connect with their energy to yours while massaging.

Some people are more focused on a certain kind of touch, others are open to arousal from being touched in different places. Maybe you have to be the latter to be turned on by a massage. It doesn’t happen to me with 90% of massages, it has to be someone who is extremely skilled.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

How do you O in your sleep? Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?

Not really sure what you mean by “how”….but the massage/touching thing was when I had been in a sexless relationship for 2 years due to my boyfriend have zero interest in me (due to combination depression and excessive porn use). The guy wouldn’t even touch me. So I had a LOT of pent up sexual frustration and energy. When you’re starved for physical affection, any touch at all is like….ssskkkkyyyy rockets in flight.

The dream thing started when I was pregnant with my first kid. If sex dips below 2 times a week or so I start having them again.

Anyway, to get back to OP’s question: life is too damn short to miss out on soul-nourishing sex. I’ve cheated (see: boyfriend wouldn’t have sex for two years) and it pales in comparison to a fulfilling relationship with an active sex life. Plus it sounds like he doesn’t work. So it sounds like he may be struggling with depression.

I went though that with my H - he was depressed and we had zero sex for awhile. Therapy and the right meds worked wonders for him, plus working on reconnecting as a couple and as an entire family. But I did have to insist he get help, let him know my needs weren’t being met and he needed to address his issues.

I think a lot of time women feel bad about insisting our needs be met, but you gotta do it. Dudes aren’t that fragile, they can handle the truth.

NP here. "How" as in, how would you have an orgasm when your clit isn't being stimulated? Do you just mean someone's touch made you shiver and tingle and you're calling that an orgasm?

No, I know the difference between being turned on and orgasming.

Many men can orgasm without direct genital stimulation, either in their sleep or from being very turned on. Why is it so outrageous for some women to experience the same thing?

[Anonymous]

So many don’t even know how our own bodies work. Unreal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

Where can a man find such women?

Ha! Well, I'm very picky and am lucky I found a unicorn of a man. Makes good money but has week-life balance, does more than his fair share at home, emotionally available, amazing dad, feminist, doesn't spend all his time on phone/video games/sports, 100% family-focused, mind-blowing in bed, and we're best friends. So main thing is you have to be a very high-quality man.

And yet, here you are - on DCUM.