Sexual Mismatch

[Anonymous]

I would be amazed if any stay at home dads had a sex drive. If they lacked the ambition to work outside the home from the beginning, that indicates low T. And then they deal with the emasculating judgment -- lower T. And then add in dealing with kids all day -- gone.

[Anonymous]

get a life, troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would be amazed if any stay at home dads had a sex drive. If they lacked the ambition to work outside the home from the beginning, that indicates low T. And then they deal with the emasculating judgment -- lower T. And then add in dealing with kids all day -- gone.

So funny and so true!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would be amazed if any stay at home dads had a sex drive. If they lacked the ambition to work outside the home from the beginning, that indicates low T. And then they deal with the emasculating judgment -- lower T. And then add in dealing with kids all day -- gone.

So funny and so true!

Not sure how this is funny...

I was a SAHD with a sex drive. I don't lack ambition. I was a teacher so it wasn't much of a salary I was giving up. I was also happy to leave the classroom for all the reasons everyone already knows about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s not interested because you spend too much time together, there’s no polarity. Encourage him to go back to doing the things he used to like to do without you, you do the same and maybe things will turn around.
He also may be feeling it less because he is not pulling his weight in the way he might think he should be.

He’s not interested b/c you spend too much time on DCUM. DCUM = Sex-killer.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would be amazed if any stay at home dads had a sex drive. If they lacked the ambition to work outside the home from the beginning, that indicates low T. And then they deal with the emasculating judgment -- lower T. And then add in dealing with kids all day -- gone.

So funny and so true!

Not sure how this is funny...

I was a SAHD with a sex drive. I don't lack ambition. I was a teacher so it wasn't much of a salary I was giving up. I was also happy to leave the classroom for all the reasons everyone already knows about.

This is part of our society’s tendency to devalue work that involves caring for others, either young children or elderly people. Any SAHP is thought of as “less than” because we just don’t think highly of work that in the past was considered work that was done by women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

TBH this was my first time getting an orgasm from a massage

Again, you are a very inexperienced male troll, one of those guys who thinks that a rub on the back equals foreplay. Next time make it more believable.

Why are you so angry? Sounds like you need an orgasm.

plus 1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would be amazed if any stay at home dads had a sex drive. If they lacked the ambition to work outside the home from the beginning, that indicates low T. And then they deal with the emasculating judgment -- lower T. And then add in dealing with kids all day -- gone.

So funny and so true!

Not sure how this is funny...

I was a SAHD with a sex drive. I don't lack ambition. I was a teacher so it wasn't much of a salary I was giving up. I was also happy to leave the classroom for all the reasons everyone already knows about.

This is part of our society’s tendency to devalue work that involves caring for others, either young children or elderly people. Any SAHP is thought of as “less than” because we just don’t think highly of work that in the past was considered work that was done by women.

Exactly. Women complain how hard it is and than when a man does it, they make him feel like crap for it. It’s the same way women want respect for it, but than don’t respect anyone else for doing it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

TBH this was my first time getting an orgasm from a massage

Again, you are a very inexperienced male troll, one of those guys who thinks that a rub on the back equals foreplay. Next time make it more believable.

Well, it depends what is rubbing against the neck…

Guys, rubbing your d* against her neck will not result in an orgasm. For you? Definitely. For her? Nope.

Lololol nothing gets me off more than the ol’ dick flopping against my neck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:get a life, troll

I generally suspend my disbelief but +1. You came from a standard back massage? Please.

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

TBH this was my first time getting an orgasm from a massage

Again, you are a very inexperienced male troll, one of those guys who thinks that a rub on the back equals foreplay. Next time make it more believable.

Well, it depends what is rubbing against the neck…

Guys, rubbing your d* against her neck will not result in an orgasm. For you? Definitely. For her? Nope.

Lololol nothing gets me off more than the ol’ dick flopping against my neck.

FFS. I haven't laughed this hard is so long. Troll OP is a 12 year old in McLean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am in an interracial heterosexual relationship - He is white and I am a black female. He is 6 years older, and we have been together 8 years and have 1 kid together. I love him with all my heart and I believe he does too. I have been the breadwinner in our relationship and he supports me and helps with cooking and cleaning. We are compatible for the most part, except when it comes to the bedroom, he simply is not as interested in sex as i am. When we first met, he was all about it but since we had our child, his desire has cooled. We have sex once a week and only if I bring it up. He is not cheating - I know this because we are always home together. We had sex on Tuesday and I went for a massage on Tuesday and orgasmed from having my back rubbed and I masturbated on Tuesday and today just because I am still horny from my massage.

I am super confused as to whether to continue this relationship - I have cheated in the past becuase our bedroom was dead and it was only through strong urging on my part that we are able to get to once a week.

Other than this sexual mismatch - we are happy for the most part.

I don't think your races have anything to do with it. I had a similar issue with my husband and it only got worse, and we didn't have sex the last 5 years before he died (and it wasn't because he was sick). It sucked; I probably would have left him or asked to have an open marriage because I was unhappy though I did love him and he was my best friend.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive.

Where can a man find such women?