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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds like one of those "reverse the genders as a social experiment" troll posts.[/quote]

Absolutely. It's a man troll. I'm the breadwinner and he "helps" with the cooking lol. Also a very very inexperienced male, as the probability of a woman to have an O from a back massage is ZERO. Men are so dumb.  [/quote]

I am a woman and had an orgasm in my sleep the other night so why couldn't it happen?[/quote]

I’m a woman who O’s in her sleep regularly and has O’ed from massage….sometimes even less, after a long dry spell I did when a man touched me for the first time in 2 years. Also totally guilty of trying to get it on with my H in the hospital 2 days after having a baby, lol.

It can definitely happen, especially when you’ve been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Some women are very high drive. [/quote]

How do you O in your sleep?  Is this the same thing as a wet dream for a man?

Also, how do you O from a massage or when someone "touches" you?  [/quote]

Not really sure what you mean by “how”….but the massage/touching thing was when I had been in a sexless relationship for 2 years due to my boyfriend have zero interest in me (due to combination depression and excessive porn use). The guy wouldn’t even touch me. So I had a LOT of pent up sexual frustration and energy. When you’re starved for physical affection, any touch at all is like….ssskkkkyyyy rockets in flight.

The dream thing started when I was pregnant with my first kid. If sex dips below 2 times a week or so I start having them again.

Anyway, to get back to OP’s question: life is too damn short to miss out on soul-nourishing sex. I’ve cheated (see: boyfriend wouldn’t have sex for two years) and it pales in comparison to a fulfilling relationship with an active sex life. Plus it sounds like he doesn’t work. So it sounds like he may be struggling with depression.

I went though that with my H - he was depressed and we had zero sex for awhile. Therapy and the right meds worked wonders for him, plus working on reconnecting as a couple and as an entire family. But I did have to insist he get help, let him know my needs weren’t being met and he needed to address his issues.

I think a lot of time women feel bad about insisting our needs be met, but you gotta do it. Dudes aren’t that fragile, they can handle the truth. [/quote]

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